"Late marriage" has awakened countless people: we are not in a hurry to get married.

Speaking of late marriage, how many people can smile and say, I'm fine.

Some people come into your life, and you think it's him, but in fact he has left. At this embarrassing age, some people are fragile, some are open-minded and brave, and some are waiting for the right person. ...

Recently, Sitar tan, wearing a wedding dress, sang "Late Marriage" on the stage of "The Voice of Dreams", but he never wanted to cry.

If Jonathan Lee's late marriage is regrettable, then Sitar tan's late marriage is more enlightened.

On the stage, her eyes were firm and brave, and she murmured:

There are many people like me around, and life is very stable. We have outstanding talents and free souls.

Some people cry, some people laugh, and some people say that she sings the voices of many older unmarried young women.

The society is not very friendly now. If you don't fall in love at the age of 30, don't get married, don't get married, and you will be regarded as an alien, pointing at you and saying that you have failed.

Some time ago, I watched the first issue of My Daughter, which is a large-scale reality show of urging marriage. The screen is full of anxiety of older singles.

After reading My Boy, Mabel Yuan's mother quickly introduced her daughter. Her father once said, "If you don't get married now, you will regret it when you get old. You must start a family.

Mabel Yuan is only 3 1 year-old now, and she has to promise to solve the single problem before the age of 35.

The father of Olympic champion He also blurted out four words on his daughter's personal problems: the sooner the better.

Like He, when we all want to enjoy our single moment more, my father stressed three times that she is 30 years old.

Nowadays, "parents love their children, so it is far-reaching" may be fully reflected here.

They love their children by everyone's standards, but never consider whether their children can accept their "good arrangements"

We thought we had escaped our parents' doubts, but I didn't expect watching programs to be an endless stream of marriage-promoting bridges.

Some people say that the Chinese New Year seems to see themselves, but they can't escape the fate of being forced to get married.

It is no exaggeration to say that 8 people in China 10 are forced to get married, among which young people born in 1980s and 1990s are the most concentrated.

According to the survey, in 20 16, the Investigation Report on the Current Situation of Forced Marriage in China released by the China Committee for the Care of the Next Generation showed that nearly 80% of teenagers had been forced into marriage by their parents, and the forced marriage rate of 25-35 years old was as high as 86%.

I remember that Teacher Luo Zhenyu mentioned a concept about marriage in her New Year's speech: "Top Stone Marriage".

What is a top stone wedding? He explained it this way:

"The keystone is the inauguration ceremony of a building, and marriage, like a vault, will be the inauguration ceremony of life. 」

This is a very interesting expression, and it is also very fresh.

Our previous generation thought that with family and marriage, there would be love and dependence, but we all know that relying on others always lacks self-confidence.

Why do people nowadays get married late or even don't want to get married?

Because they have money, superior material conditions, a good job, a comfortable house and intimate friends, they can completely meet all their own needs, and there is no need to turn themselves into wives and live a boring and loveless life for a so-called "confession".

There is a hot question in Zhihu: What is the future of unmarried people?

I like this answer very much.

Answer the Lord @ Yan Xiaoqi said:

"I'm not unmarried, and I don't refuse to get married, but the premise of getting married must be with the person I love. Not because I am old, not because I am lonely, I won't just find someone to make do with in order to live together.

Therefore, even if everyone around me is married and has children, I still hope that I can meet love when I talk about my husband or baby every day. "

Is it terrible to get married? It sucks.

You will meet someone who looks at the beautiful moon in the middle of the night and wants him to get up and have a look, but he says you are sick, which is terrible.

Some people say that you are melodramatic and boring, but I remember watching a Hong Kong and Taiwan drama in which grandma was over 60 years old and insisted on divorcing grandpa. The whole family said that she was making trouble, and she was still doing these ridiculous things when she was old.

Grandma told the child calmly that my favorite orchid told him not to throw cigarette butts in. Throughout his life, he continued to throw them in. I took them out again and again, but he forgot them again and again. I like to get up in the morning and read newspapers. He always tore up my newspaper and padded it. He has done this to me all his life. When I am old, I want to live a good life for myself.

Both the child and the wife silently left tears. When his wife said that she wanted to change, grandma resolutely chose to leave.

I've been with someone who doesn't care about myself all my life. Grandma should be very sad, but there are still many such women.

I made a video with my parents the other day. My dad said, "I've given it to you for two years. Remember. "

I was still thinking about what it was, and finally remembered what he said to me last Spring Festival, giving me two years to marry myself. I faltered at that time, and now I am still flustered when I hear this reminder.

If we marry casually for the sake of our parents' expectations and don't meet the right person, who will be responsible for your happiness?

In this life, don't try to be responsible for anyone, including your parents.

Because nobody can afford it.

Please work hard, manage yourself well, learn to care for your skin, cherish your hair, go to bed early, and turn yourself into that excellent person before meeting that soul.

Marriage has both happiness and misfortune.

Unmarried, unmarried and married late, I had a good time and a lonely and miserable life.

The key is to know what kind of life you want.

Please don't get married just because you are urged to get married at any time, so don't stipulate how old you must get married before. People like it, and we are not in a hurry.

I hope that one day, you will bravely say to yourself, "I am ready to die alone, but I am also ready to get married in the future."

I remember when I was in high school, my good friend wrote this sentence on my QQ message board:

One day, someone will look at all the states you have written, all the Weibo you have written, all the photos you have taken since childhood, and even go to other places to find information about you, try to listen to the songs you have heard, go to the places you have walked, read your favorite books, and taste the delicious food you have been crying for, just to make up for the time you are late.

You asked me if I wanted to get married? It seems that I don't think so either. Do you ask me if I believe in love? I'm still full of expectations.

May you meet the person with your only soul, and may one day you come as promised.

After all, "arrive as scheduled" is a beautiful word, which is hard to wait, but it never fails.

Please remember that you would rather have a fresh peach than a basket of rotten apricots.

It doesn't matter whether it's late or not, as long as we can wait, everything will be fine.