Both son and daughter say that they will never get married when they grow up. What should we do?

Isn't it good for your son not to get married? You don't have to pay the bride price. If your daughter doesn't get married, you don't have to worry about the wedding dress, which saves you trouble.

Very good! When you are old, your daughter loves your pious soul and stays by your side, listening to your stories about her childhood, and the moon climbs mountains and waves. Your son loves your old wrinkles, stays by your side, brings you tea and water, and listens to your stories about his naughty childhood. ...

You don't have to go to a nursing home to support the elderly. Daughters and sons are the second largest reliance. When the sun rises in the morning, one on the left and one on the right will help you watch the sun rise from the East China Sea, and you will feel infinitely beautiful. In the evening, when I watched the sun, although it was dazzling, I thought I almost heard it. Throughout the year, see flowers and enjoy the scenery of the four seasons. I am very happy to go home and let my children carefully prepare different foods ... such a day!

Nice try, happy, good. There is a saying that "a son is not a mother" has not grown up until "the man is outside the house and the woman is inside". Now I just say I won't get married when I grow up. Don't take it seriously Or do what you should do, make some preparations for the son's wedding room and daughter's dowry, so as not to be caught off guard.

What happened when I grew up is still worth worrying about now?

I am a mother. If my children say they don't want to get married in the future, I won't force them, as long as they are at ease. Being single is not necessarily a bad thing. Whether there are younger generations or not, live a good life, we are all ordinary people, busy days, if children don't like this life, feel free. If children want to go to Buddhist college in the future, I also support their choice. I did my duty as a mother, accompanying me to grow up and study. I have taught my children to read Fan Fan's Four Disciplines, Yan's Family Instructions and Tai Shang Induction since childhood ... When they enter the university, they should make their own choices.

Children's words are boundless.

What I want to say is that as parents, I always believe that children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren!

And at present, children have not grown up and have not really understood the meaning of marriage. It's too early to worry all day because of their "not getting married" now!

First, they haven't met anyone who makes them move.

Many people say that they don't get married because they haven't tried the taste of love and haven't met anyone who wants to grow old with them, so marriage is strange and frightening to people who have never experienced anything.

Especially for such young children, they may not even understand love, so it is certainly unrealistic for them to yearn for marriage when they grow up.

Second, they have never tried life after independence.

Moreover, whether to get married or not should be based on your own understanding of life, a decision made after careful consideration, and realize that whether to get married or not can bring you happiness.

But they are so young now, they have not entered the society and have never really lived, so this time can only be regarded as their initial understanding of marriage in the current state, and they still have plenty of time to feel and think about life and understand the real marriage.

So when they grow up and can take responsibility, it's not too late for you to listen to their decision. Listen to these words for now, and don't care too much.

Third, respect their choices.

This is an open society, and the younger generation often has their own views, which will not change because of the ideas of people around them or their parents. They often know what they want better than their predecessors.

So if one day the children grow up and they really decide not to get married, please don't be so anxious, listen carefully to what they want to say, listen to their life plan and definition of happiness, as long as their choices are made after careful consideration, as parents, support and respect are good!

My parents' marriage failed! The psychological shadow area caused to children is too large! To solve this problem, you need to untie the bell and tie the bell. If you want to change children's ideas, you must do it yourself.

Hello!

If both your son and daughter have the idea of not getting married when they grow up, then your marriage is bound to fail.

Or fight every day, or be violent. Because children can't appreciate the happiness of your marriage, and even think that marriage can only bring pain and harm to each other. They are full of fear of marriage and feel insecure when they are single, so they don't want to get married when they grow up.

If parents are in love, children will long for love. When they grow up, they hope to find someone who loves her and cares for each other like their parents. Therefore, as parents, we must set a good example for our children, and don't affect the future marriage because of the relationship between parents.

The above only represents personal views.

What if the son and daughter say they will not get married when they grow up? The sons and daughters of the subjects should be very young, less than ten years old.

In fact, there is no need to worry about the childish words of children now. What they think now is not necessarily what they will do in the future.

When I was a child, my children also vowed that they would never get married when they grew up, and they would become nuns when they grew up.

However, times have changed, and one of my children who resolutely took "becoming a nun" as the ultimate goal was admitted to the university before graduation and got the certificate from her classmates. One is not only married, but also married twice (divorced once and remarried).

So you don't have to worry that your son and daughter will become unmarried in the future. These childish words, like a breeze in your son's daughter's life, will disappear with the passage of time and leave no trace in their memory.

It should be that there is something wrong with your relationship, which makes them feel that marriage is unhappy, so they feel that marriage is terrible. If so, they should reflect on what is wrong with their marriage. Only by solving this problem will the children live a good life.