Is Confucius a villain in history?

Yan Zi let Confucius meet Song Taizai. After Confucius came out, Yan Zi went in and asked how Confucius was. Taizai said that when I met Confucius and saw you again, I thought you were as small as a flea. Now I want him to see the king. Son Xi was afraid that Confucius would be taken fancy to by the monarch, so he told Taizai that the monarch would treat you as a flea when he saw Confucius. Taizai therefore stopped letting Confucius see the monarch. -Excerpt from Everything is Wrong.

Confucius was recommended and rejected by others every time. The reason is that his Excellence is not better than others. In other words, at first, you didn't win the trust of others, you were not a subordinate of others, and you didn't form an alliance. You are more talented than others. Why should people use you?

Let's have a look. Confucius recommended Taizai through Yan Zi, and then Taizai read it and said, I think you are very young. What does this mean? This shows that Confucius did not put in a good word for his son when he met Taizai. He should have said that I was recommended by him. This man is knowledgeable, has a unique vision and is a good person. I can't do it without him. We can do it together. He must put people in an important position so that they don't feel that he is a threat psychologically.

What does he belong to? He was recommended, he just posed a threat to others.

For example, you have a very good talent in the workplace. You recommended him to the leader. After the recommendation, people may be in the upper position soon. As soon as he gets to the top, this is a position, and then your position is gone. At first, you valued the talents of the organization. You think this guy is good and can be recommended to the leader, but this guy is ungrateful.

For example, if you recommend him to go, he met with the leader and the leader said that he could talk. He said, look at this management now, it's a mess. If it were up to me, it would be 1, 2, 3. Hearing this, the leader is right. This guy is right. Think about it, he directly takes the credit for you, just say that you are in a mess now and he can come.

The leader thinks he is good. Then why do you need him? You recommended him, but the leader didn't appreciate your recommendation. You can leave now.

Therefore, recommending others in the workplace is very risky. When he does not submit to you, when you are not a party, you may lose his position by recommending him.

Moreover, some people will take the initiative to leave you and step on your shoulder in order to avoid any suspicion of belonging to you. Why? I have no scruples about you. You recommend me, you talk to me all day about seniority, and you get involved with me all day. What should I do? So in order not to let you have anything to do with me, I made an excuse to deal with you. How are you? What if you recommend me? It is inevitable to be a villain.

Confucius is like this here. He didn't constantly show his superhuman ability for the purpose of win-win cooperation, so no one would recommend him. That means you are excellent, I admit it, but does it have anything to do with me? Isn't it? You are not the boss. Is it appropriate for you to recommend others? In order to show loyalty to the family, I finally sold the recommended person. This kind of thing is common in history, and I deliberately took you to sacrifice the flag.

So we can learn two things from it:

1, generally do not recommend people who are better than you. After that, you have nothing to do.

2, when people recommend you, you must take care of everyone's emotions, otherwise no one will recommend you again, and no one wants to be this Bole.