What does it mean to be old at three and old at seven?

You can watch a person grow up to be three years old. You can see a person at the age of seven. The actual meaning is: look at a person's childhood behavior and personality, you can roughly predict this person's future. This shows that it is particularly critical when you are young, and you should pay attention to training. After this age, you basically settle down.

China has had such a saying since ancient times: "Look at the old at the age of 3, look at the old at the age of 7", which simply and clearly summarizes the general law of children's psychological development. From the psychological characteristics and personality tendency of a 3-year-old child, we can see the embryonic form of the child's adolescent psychology and personality image; From the 7-year-old child, we can see his achievements and achievements after middle age. Although 3 and 7 years old were only approximate figures in ancient times, they have been proved to be very reasonable by modern science and technology.

Bloom, a famous American psychologist, made a follow-up study of nearly a thousand children from birth to adulthood. The results show that intelligence develops fastest before the age of 5. If the intelligence level of 17 is regarded as 100%, then the child has gained 50% intelligence before the age of 4, the remaining 30% is between the ages of 4 and 7, and the remaining 20% is at the age of 7. Therefore, from birth to 7 years old, parents need to pay close attention and grasp.

"Looking at teenagers at the age of three, looking at old people at the age of seven" is an ancient folk proverb, which summarizes the general law of children's psychological development. In other words, from the psychological characteristics and personality tendency of children at the age of three, we can see the embryonic form of their psychological and personality image when they grow up. From birth to three years old, it is called infancy, which is the fastest period for children's physical and psychological development. At this stage, parents' expectations, behaviors and some living standards will be internalized by the baby into their own expectations and rules system. ?

Before the age of three, it is a critical period for brain development. At this time, children have genius-like absorption ability, and parents should develop their brain potential as soon as possible. More importantly, parents must attach importance to the role of words and deeds in early education. They are a mirror for children. And there is a two-way communication relationship between parents and children. Parents should know how to respect their children's opinions, be more patient and know more about their children. Therefore, as parents, we should grasp the golden period of 3 years old, and our children will grow up healthily according to their own characteristics and potential.