Birth gate-human life

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In the morning, my husband sent his son back and said to me, "something happened in the xx hospital above our house, and the patients' families were making trouble." I heard that a parturient died by caesarean section, only in her thirties. "

I feel very uncomfortable after listening to this, because I just gave birth to my daughter by caesarean section, and it is only 45 days today.

Or it's not a bad thing, doctor. Accidents can happen at any time, and whoever hits his head will suffer.

Family members can't accept it. No one wants to have an accident if they make trouble in the hospital.

I feel sorry for the child. His mother brought him into this world, but he didn't even look at the mother who risked her life for him. There is one less person in this world who loves him with his life.

I felt so sorry for that mother that I didn't even see the face of the child, and I didn't have time to hug the baby she bought with her life, so I left forever. I think she will turn into a star in the sky, illuminate the child's future road and accompany him silently.

I asked my husband, were you scared when I entered the operating room?

My husband told me that the night before the operation, the doctor told him a bunch of accidents that might occur during the operation, about a dozen of them, such as amniotic fluid embolism, placenta adhesion and massive bleeding. The doctor told him that the uterus might be removed in an emergency, and specially asked him when he was born, and even told him that once amniotic fluid embolism occurred, the chance of survival was extremely low.

What the doctor said made him nervous all night and stayed up all night.

He was afraid because I was in poor health.

Fortunately, I successfully gave birth to my daughter. My daughter is very young, weighing only six pounds, and her crying voice is very small. There are three parturients living in a ward. When she cries, other children can hardly hear her crying.

For the birth of a child, whether it is a natural delivery or a caesarean section, I may have to stay in the hospital for a long time, so that every time the nurse changes shifts, I wonder why 12 bed has not been discharged. I just smiled helplessly. I want to leave the hospital more than anyone.

However, after three days, the incision liquefied and the edge could not heal, so secondary suture was needed.

I spent most of this month in the hospital. The conditions in the hospital are too bad. Five days after the baby was born, my mother-in-law took it home. My husband has been with me in the hospital, cleaning the wound every day, changing the medicine and waiting for the second suture.

I still remember the pain. The second time I sewed the knife edge, I didn't use anesthetic, but I sewed four stitches. During that time, a needle and thread was broken, and I sewed it again, which was equivalent to five stitches. Later, I looked at the incision myself and found that caesarean section had only six stitches. I suffered greatly from it. After sewing, I was lying on the bed in the delivery room sweating, and my lips were bitten blue. I feel a little salty and bleeding.

After a long time, it seems like a century, I struggled to get up, and my husband helped me back to the ward. I lay down for a day without saying a word, and it seemed that I had exhausted all my strength.

I always remember him holding my hand, red-eyed, and never letting go.

I know these pains, these hardships, ups and downs, there is such a person who suffers with you, suffers together, tries his best to help you shelter from the wind and rain, and he is very practical and really confident, knowing that someone is suffering.

It hurts when cleaning the wound every day, and it hurts when sewing. It really hurts.

But it's over. My baby is safe.

Just because my child is safe, I forgive all the pain and all the grievances.

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When I was in the hospital, I sent many mothers away, and I was very impressed by several of them.

Wu Jiao, 25, came to the hospital at three o'clock in the middle of the night. When she came, her water broke, and there were still more than ten days before the due date.

Early the next morning, the ward was crowded with people. Wu Jiao's parents, in-laws, grandparents and even menstruation and menstruation are here. The already crowded ward can't afford to waste a moment.

So many people have arrived, and I haven't seen Wu Jiao's husband yet.

At about nine o'clock in the morning, Wu Jiao began to have a stomachache. She may have a baby soon. She curled up and grabbed the bedrail, screaming with pain. Wu jiao's mother and mother-in-law helped her smooth and prepared brown sugar water; Dad went to the supermarket below the hospital to buy red bull and chocolate, and later he needed it to replenish energy and make him energetic in the delivery room.

I'm about the same age as Wu Jiao, and I'm chatting with her, hoping to distract her and reduce some pain.

Wu jiao's family is busy, and Wu jiao's husband just looks through the glass outside the ward and doesn't come in.

Later, I learned that Wu Jiao's husband was doomed this year, and the fortune teller said that he could not enter the delivery room this year, otherwise there would be a mass annihilation.

Wu jiao was in pain until five o'clock in the afternoon before giving birth to a child. It's a girl. Mother and child are safe.

This baby is Wu Jiao's second child, and the first child stopped when she was more than three months old. Fortunately, the baby is going well and the baby is good.

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In the evening, when everyone was resting, they heard something moving in the hospital corridor, as if someone was noisy and crying.

Many women will gossip. Wu Jiao's mother volunteered. I'll go out and show you what's going on

After a while, Wu Jiao's mother came back and told us with regret that a child born by her mother at 7 o'clock was cerebral palsy, which seemed to be born with hypoxia, and seemed to have problems when she was pregnant, so she wouldn't cry when she was born.

The family said it was the doctor's responsibility, and the child was deprived of oxygen because he didn't deliver it in time, which kept making trouble.

The noise in the corridor didn't gradually calm down until after one o'clock in the evening.

The next morning, it began to make trouble like a frying pan. Pediatric experts were invited to come down for consultation. The doctor's advice is to give up treatment. There is no need to waste money and energy, but the family members hope that the hospital can compensate. The two sides quarreled, and no one cared about the maternal mood.

The final result is to give up treatment.

Yeah, give up the treatment. No one is willing to give anything for such a hopeless child except the mother, including the father.

I don't know what to say. I closed the curtain of the bed and cried for a while with my eyes closed. The noise in my ears is not my own business, so I can talk about it so easily.

If the needle doesn't stick to yourself, you will never feel pain.

I shed tears for the poor mother I have never met, for the abandoned children when I came to this world, for myself and for every mother.

After becoming a mother, my heart softened, even my eyes softened.

Children always soften the world.

Every mother deserves respect and love.

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Wu Jiao gave birth naturally, but she had a lateral perineal incision. After staying for two days, she was discharged with her children. When we left, we left each other a WeChat and made an appointment to get together again after next month.

After Wu Jiao left, a 40-year-old elder sister moved in. My sister's surname is Zhou, and I always call her Sister Zhou.

Sister Zhou's daughter 18 years old. Now that the country has released the second child, the couple have always wanted to have a son.

After being hospitalized, Sister Zhou asked her daughter to hurry back. The college entrance examination is coming soon, so it is urgent to get ready.

When chatting in the evening, Sister Zhou told me happily that the baby was a boy and was seen by B-ultrasound when she was more than three months old. The doctor is an acquaintance and can't be wrong. This baby is right. She finally left a queen for Lao Zhou's family.

Sister Zhou is a little fat in middle age and pregnant. She is still a boy and has been making up for it during pregnancy. At the time of labor, she weighed 200 kg+ and her blood pressure was high. She didn't start until the due date. The doctor advised her to stay in hospital for observation, and if not, she would take medicine to induce labor, but caesarean section was not recommended. One is too old, the other is too fat, afraid that the wound will not be stitched well.

After living for two days, Sister Zhou finally made a noise. That day, the whole family was in a hurry. It took so many years to wait for such a small pimple. Sister Zhou went into the delivery room in the morning until her mother-in-law came out first with her child in her arms.

I don't look right. I thought what happened to Sister Zhou. It turns out that this viviparous is still a girl.

After a long time, Sister Zhou was pushed back to the ward while lying on the operating bed.

I'm surprised. Isn't it a natural birth? How did you get out on the operating table?

Sister Zhou's delivery process was not smooth. The baby's head was too big to be born at all. Even before she entered the operating room, the doctor cut the baby out directly in the delivery room. After the baby came out, she told Sister Zhou that she had given birth to a big fat girl. Sister Zhou collapsed at that time. How could it be a girl? There must be some mistake. She clearly checked that it was a boy.

Sister Zhou woke up the next day and cried as soon as she woke up. It's no use comforting her, and she didn't breast-feed the baby. She just lies in bed, occasionally groaning painfully.

It was a happy thing, but in the end it made the whole family unhappy.

Little Maruko lying in the crib doesn't know these thoughts of adults, and still sleeps like an angel, clean and spotless.

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I still remember lying on the operating bed, watching the nurse holding the skinny baby with wrinkled fetal fat. I laughed and cried.

Because you cried as soon as you came out of your mother's stomach. This means that you are alive and you are safe.

Starting today, mom will give you a name and a home.

You are mom's savior.

Thank you, you brought spring breeze, turned it into spring rain, moistened all my pains and brought me the whole spring.

Thank you, my child, my son and daughter.

Mom loves you.

Ps: I wanted to write this article in the hospital, but I couldn't. After leaving the hospital, I went home and began to have a high fever and cough. I have been lying down, thinking a lot and reading two books, because I can't help it. I didn't write it intermittently until today. May every mother be happy and every baby like this world. Because of mother, the world deserves our gentle treatment.