A speech on college students' understanding of fate

We share joys and sorrows with others. So, you and I have really become a * card, a card that others can hold and play with? The following are my collected speeches about college students' understanding of fate, hoping to help you.

I am not a card.

Dear students:

Hello everyone! The topic of my speech is: I am not a card.

Everyone must have some experience in playing *. There are 54 pieces in four colors in each pair. Every card is in our hands, and their fate is in their hands, even? Your majesty. And then what? Xiao Wang? You can't control your own destiny.

Sometimes, I wonder, is our life also a card game? Is each of us like a * card whose fate is in the hands of others? Looking back on the growth process of more than ten years, at home, I was under the control of my parents, and sometimes even severely reprimanded; In school, you should be disciplined and taught by teachers; When you grow up, you have to be restricted by the social environment, and you can't do what you want by your own will. Eleven or twelve years old, in the childhood vision, should be a brilliant season full of sunshine. However, when you get on this train yourself, you often feel involuntarily.

Take the exam as an example. If you do well in the exam, your parents will treat you as a treasure, and the greater their hope! Drink milk in the morning and coffee at night, as if milk and coffee can turn an ordinary person into a talent, and even a small person can become a dragon or a phoenix! Teachers often mention you in a proud tone, and there will be a happy smile on their faces. When neighbors see you, they will look at you and talk endlessly. It is really horizontal to see that you have a future, and vertical to see that your future is boundless; On the left, you are a talent; On the right, you are a pillar. And when you put in sweat and effort, you get nothing? Although parents just said softly: going to college is your own choice! ? But you sound so heavy and depressed; The teacher won't say anything, just staring at you with expectant eyes, staring at you all the time, so ashamed and guilty; Where are the neighbors? They just looked at you with eyes that he couldn't explain clearly at the moment when they passed you by. Those eyes are enough to make your sad heart cry!

We share joys and sorrows with others. So, you and I have really become a * card, a * card that others can knead and fiddle with? -no opinion, no desire, no self-esteem. So you can't get rid of others' domination and choice all your life?

Is that really the case?

Don't! I said to myself in my heart: we are by no means a card!

* After all, there is no thinking, but we are a group of living people with advanced thinking ability! I should live a completely different life from *! I wrote my own history, my own youth and my own world! Instead of losing yourself like a card!

Thank you!

My destiny is my decision.

On a hot summer day, the farmyard shaded by green trees is particularly cool. In the cradle, the little boy didn't know when he woke up. He opened his eyes and saw no one around. He didn't cry. He began to stretch his arms and kick, swimming freely like a small fish. Nobody knows how he got into the middle of the cradle. When grandma heard his voice. Giggle? He laughed and ran out of the kitchen. His two little feet are pushing one side of the cradle, and his two little hands are waving. When his calf flexed and stretched, the cradle shook happily. Grandma was surprised and happy to see this little guy who was only 10 months old so naughty and lovely. This scene is deeply engraved in her mind. In the following years, after her repeated description, the picture became more vivid. As long as I can remember, I knew that little boy was me, and happiness was as simple as that!

From elementary school to junior high school, I got excellent grades and attended a key school that everyone around me envied. But when I picked up the high school textbook and continued to study hard, fate played a big joke on me: my eyesight plummeted, the familiar square characters in the book became countless ants, and my college dream was shattered. In those days, the sky was gray, the fields were gray, and my heart was gray. My parents were heartbroken and took me everywhere for medical advice. Experts diagnosed retinitis pigmentosa (a worldwide medical problem). It was like a bolt from the blue, but I was stubborn and I was not knocked down! I actively cooperate with the treatment and strengthen nutrition and exercise at the same time. Two years later, my eyesight actually returned to 0.2, and my family was overjoyed! I am unhappy, and I don't know where my way out is. At that time, the villagers said everything, some said? A person's life is doomed, so why not? , some people say? Can't see, you can only rely on your family for a lifetime? Some advised my parents to let me learn fortune telling? I am not reconciled, I want to prove with facts: I am not a basket case!

1May, 992, I packed my bags and followed the contractor to Tianjin and Beijing, regardless of my parents' obstruction. This is a huge army of rice transplanters, mostly women, who use the slack season to contract farm work in northern farms to earn a few pence. At that time, agricultural mechanization had not been fully realized, and the fertile fields in the north were all planted by hand. Let's help transplant the seedlings into the ground. The contractor talks with the head of the farm or the village head about the salary and time limit for a project. When he gives the order, we leave early and return late. Generally, women are responsible for pulling out and transplanting seedlings, while men are responsible for heavy physical labor such as fertilizing and transporting seedlings. Because I am young, my eyes are bad, and I earn less work points, everyone takes care of me. I'm never lazy at work, and I often tell jokes in my spare time to help people who can't read and write settle accounts. Everyone wants to work in a group with me, and no one hates me. One day, just before dawn, I followed everyone to the field. When crossing a wooden bridge, I slipped and fell into the river. The river is deep and cold. Fortunately, I can swim, so people think that the cook dragged me up more and asked me to go back and put on dry clothes to help my aunt cook fetch water and chop wood? I am scared when I think about it now, but I don't regret it. Because this is my first class in the social university, I saw the brilliance of human nature from the villagers! At that time, I ate and lived in fields and shacks, and I was full of food. Except cabbage, cucumber, I don't know how many flies were burned to death. Every time after dinner, a kind person helps me pick out the flies in the bowl. Hard work and bad environment have sharpened my will. More than two months? Field survival training? , has become a rare spiritual wealth!

When I got home safely, my parents' hanging hearts finally fell to the ground. Later, recommended by my father, I became a substitute Chinese teacher in primary schools through competition. In order to be competent for this job, I study while teaching, concentrate on studying teaching materials and teaching methods, consult old teachers modestly, go to normal schools for further study, and constantly strive to improve my professional level. In order to cultivate students' good reading habits and exercise their listening, speaking, reading and writing skills, I make full use of my spare time to guide students to run blackboard newspapers, set up class book corners, organize spring and autumn outings, tell stories and other activities, and carry out recitation, calligraphy and composition competitions. In my class, children don't have to memorize, copy or do many problems, but their reading interest and writing level have been greatly improved. After 8 years of teaching, my teaching achievements have been among the best in the township, and several students have won prizes in the national composition competition for primary school students. For all this, I made 100% efforts, and finally I didn't mislead my children, was not bound by poor eyesight, and didn't live up to my youth!

During this period, I met a girl from a garment factory in a neighboring county by chance, which can be said to be a hit it off and talked about everything. I have been writing for more than two years, and I have established a love relationship, and both parents agree. . When I saw the point of talking about marriage, my eyes didn't live up to expectations. I can't read or write, so I have to submit my resignation report. After careful consideration, I don't want to drag her down. She cried herself into tears and finally chose to leave. Many people laugh at me for being stupid, and I always laugh it off. I am blind, unemployed and lovelorn. I still have a sound brain and limbs. I am still young. Between heaven and earth, it's a long journey and many difficulties. Can dark clouds cover your eyes? The sun is still shining in my heart! ? I know: without a savior, the savior is ourselves! However, in this remote mountain village, where is my way?

At the beginning of the new century, my father raised funds to build a small building for me, and my aunt asked someone to introduce me. As a result, the matchmaker praised the disabled girls in four townships and eight villages. I was in distress situation and had to politely decline their kindness. I secretly made up my mind: even if I don't get married in this life, I must learn the skills to support myself first! I began to pay attention to radio and television and wanted to know what other blind people were doing. A talk show on Anhui TV showed me the way. It was a Sunday, and the program "Family" was broadcast as usual. Hong Xiaomei, a blind person in Chaohu Lake, went to the screen and told the story of her massage treatment. As soon as my eyes lit up, I got in touch with Hong Xiaomei through TV. I want to learn from my teacher. She suggested that I study in the blind school system, and I thanked her again and again. In September, I successfully passed the entrance examination and put on the uniform of Anqing School for the Blind, and my life turned a new page. Learning Braille, learning theory, practicing technology, learning to walk and living in the dark, I dare not slack off. If you want to live a better life, you must make yourself better. After three years of hard work, I graduated with honors.

In July 2003, I went to work in a massage cushion in Yiwu, Zhejiang with my dream. The basic salary is 800 yuan, and the salary is better than that of substitute teachers, except for the longer working hours. There are all kinds of massagers. In their eyes, maybe the blind masseur is similar to the maid who used to beat the landlord's back. For the boss, dignity, professional skills and life value are all nonsense. He said as long as the guests are comfortable. I have a big psychological gap. Once, my boss arranged for me to call the residents upstairs. The client is a 50-year-old man who complains of chest tightness and abdominal pain. After detailed consultation, I decided to soothe the liver and regulate qi and regulate the spleen and stomach. I told him to lie on his stomach, but he lay motionless on his back and instructed me to massage his chest and abdomen. I had to give him a broad chest to regulate qi, and press acupoints such as Zhongshan, Zhongwan and Zhangmen, but he kept urging me to rub my stomach directly. I just put my palm on his navel, and his expression seemed a little strange. His hands and feet began to be dishonest and his mouth became ambiguous. Down a little, down a little more comfortable, refreshed and then give you a tip. ? Grab my hand and press it hard. Seeing that the situation was not good, I took out my hand and ran out the door. Back in the store, I reported the incident to my boss, who scolded me. What a nerd! He doesn't accept tips, so he just eats with his face? Old customers are offended by you. How to do this business in the future? I am speechless. No common goal, no common goal. The next day, I took my luggage and embarked on a new journey.

After being introduced by my classmates, I came to Nanjing Shoujia Blind Massage Health Care Company to apply. At that time, the company leaders were working in Jiangdong Road Branch. As soon as I entered the spacious and bright staff lounge, pedicure and massage personnel were all addressed as? Doctor? They are all wearing white coats, some are reading busy documents, and some are discussing diseases in a low voice. I am deeply attracted by this atmosphere. I failed the interview and was turned away. Go or stay? Let's leave now. Where can we go? Still playing with those little massage cushion? Will Canon take me in? After careful consideration, I decided to stay. Even if I have no salary, I will practice here as long as I have a place to live. The leader of the company agreed to my request and arranged a special person to guide me to practice and let me follow you to the free clinic in the square? June+10, 65438, I finally became an excellent regular employee and was affectionately called? Dr. Sun? . 10 Over the years, I have kept on learning and my comprehensive quality has been greatly improved. On the basis of obtaining the advanced health care massage therapist certificate, I passed the national examination for blind medical massage practitioners and successfully obtained the qualification certificate. No pains, no gains, my efforts have been well received by leaders, guests and colleagues, and I have been rated as a pacesetter and advanced worker in corporate culture propaganda for many times. When I am free, I like surfing the Internet, listening to songs and reading books. It says, I became a special correspondent for Good Handwriting, and several works were published in the Blind Monthly, and several poems won prizes in the national essay competition. A persistent, persistent, reading every day, happy life. I am glad that I have chosen a good hand, and I want to thank him for providing such a good platform for us blind people to learn and grow!

Xx not only fulfilled my dream of being a doctor, but also my dream of being a rose. I was blind halfway and had almost no manners. Blind? In addition, I have always been strict with myself, tolerant, calm and restrained, practical and willing to work, and soon integrated into this warm collective. And those tofu articles won it for me? Genius scholar? The reputation of. Hand Jia is a big family, hidden dragon crouching tiger, many beautiful and capable good girls, some of whom have shown love to me, but I just like an albino Shandong girl. Many people don't understand: why do you have a soft spot for this northern woman whose appearance and personality are not optimistic, instead of chasing her? Indeed, my wife is very straightforward and impatient. She especially likes to help others. She often says: I still have some residual vision, and I am glad to do something for everyone. This is also the grace of God! ? What touched me was her crystal-like heart, and she also appreciated my sincerity and openness. What's more? Brilliant? . Contact more, often confide in each other and get to know each other. She is also from the countryside, from the bitter days, equally diligent and eager to learn, and equally loves life. We are congenial and encourage each other, and the seeds of love are quietly sprouting. When we told all this to our parents, my father said. Shoes suit you best, and what suits you is the best. Your marriage is your decision, and we trust your vision. ? But her family strongly objected: how can two blind people live together in the future? I wrote a letter to my future father-in-law. She brought many good newspapers with my articles on them. With our joint efforts, my parents-in-law finally recognized me as a son-in-law. 20071October 7th, 65438, we walked arm in arm on the red carpet, and everything will be fine. Shortly after our marriage, we bought a house in Jinan, and my wife studied while working. Over the past few years, the national second-level psychological counselor, Chinese medicine practitioner qualification certificate and Beijing University of Chinese Medicine undergraduate diploma have all been included in the bag. At present, I am preparing to open my own acupuncture and massage clinic to complete my entrepreneurial dream!

Beethoven said? Want to hold the fate by the throat? , Zheng Banqiao said? Drip your own sweat, eat your own food, do your own thing, relying on people and ancestors is not a hero? ! And I always believe that in the face of difficulties and setbacks, we all have the power to save ourselves and do not bow to fate! I am the master of my destiny. As long as the direction is correct, I will move forward step by step and finally reach my goal and happiness!

Destiny speech

I once read a poem called "Nail":

Drop a nail and break a shoe;

Broke a shoe and a horse;

Fold a horse and hurt a knight;

Wounded a knight and lost a battle;

Lost a battle and lost a country.

Just reading this poem, I really didn't think that a nail could have anything to do with a country. I read it again and found that there is a grand philosophy in the poem, that is, if you want to succeed, you must start from small things, and so does the cultivation of good habits. Only by starting from small things can we form good habits. Good habits will benefit us for life, because habits determine fate. Maybe some students will say: I also know that littering and spitting are bad, but I just can't change it. In fact, this classmate has developed the bad habit of spitting and littering, and it is not so easy to get rid of it. Therefore, if you want to turn bad habits into good habits, you should not only start from small things, but also have perseverance. Don't throw away the packing bag in such a hurry after dinner. Just walk a few steps and throw it away when you see the trash can. Take toilet paper with you. If you want to vomit, let it come in handy or spit directly in the spittoon. After a while, you will be surprised to find that even if you have garbage in your hand, you will never throw it around. In this way, good habits will be formed.

People yearn for God's high IQ and like to have great wisdom, but they often ignore that the greatest wisdom is a seemingly insignificant good habit.

Interest is the best teacher, but after interest leads us through the door, it is habit that keeps us moving forward. Strong will? 、? Perseverance? How important is it actually? Will. 、? Perseverance? What is the subtext? Difficult and difficult environment? This is often daunting, but people's understanding of the dilemma has a strong subjective color and is regarded as unbearable by a person? Dilemma? However, another person can often live with peace of mind. CCTV Education Channel once interviewed four Nobel Prize winners: Chu Steven, Cornell, Hofter and Lao Fulin. They answered the dignified questions raised by the host and the audience easily and naturally. In the eyes of questioners, challenging day and night work is often unbearable, while in the eyes of scientists, it is just a normal job they are used to, and in the eyes of questioners, it needs to be paid.

Usually, there are similar situations around us. For most students, it is a habit to listen carefully in class, do homework quietly in self-study class and review in time. But a few students don't have this habit. In the first week of school, what do grade groups, class teachers and classroom teachers emphasize most? It is the efficiency of attending classes, the quietness and efficiency of self-study classes, in order to form a good habit.