Did you change your mind because you accepted the bride price? Can you still get married?

Hello, I've really seen this. It's a colleague of mine. Now let me tell their story. A few weeks after Xiao Sheng and Xiaoxian met, Xiaoxian's family began to urge marriage. Xiao Sheng's sister felt that they had only known each other for a long time. Why was the woman's family in such a hurry? Besides, the fairy looks unhappy.

Then the matchmaker began to exaggerate the woman's fairy, saying that he had made it clear to her family that the woman's fairy house was going to be demolished. I hope that Xiao Sheng, the man, will quickly move his registered permanent residence to the woman's house, and how many flat houses he can get.

The man's parents are honest people. As soon as the matchmaker said this, they believed it and set the engagement party on May 9, 20021year.

On the day of engagement, it was supposed to be a happy day, but the little fairy of the woman kept a bitter face and looked very unhappy.

On the second day of engagement, Xiaoxian began to go back on her word, telling the man that she didn't want to, and told him not to push him, showing great pain and unhappiness.

The man's sister thinks that Xiaoxian has an ambiguous attitude. Do you want to get married? Give a reply, we can arrange it here.

From May 9th, after Xiao Sheng and Xiaoxian got engaged, Xiaoxian didn't want to associate with the man named Xiao Sheng. Xiao Sheng looked for Xiaoxian on WeChat, but Xiaoxian didn't reply and began to play "disappear".

Xiaoxian said that he had no time, but from May to June, he didn't reply to Xiao Sheng for a whole month. Does Xiaoxian really have no time? The answer is no.

Xiaoxian said that her father forced her to get engaged and denied that she wanted to get engaged.

But Xiaoxian's father said confidently that he could not force his daughter to get engaged, saying that she agreed to get engaged.

Xiaoxian's father said that marriage prohibits arranged marriage, which is illegal. Xiaoxian's father has always been black-faced and denied arranging his daughter's marriage. At that time, Xiao Sheng's family gave Xiaoxian a bride price of 73,000 yuan and bought two gold rings, which cost about 3,000 yuan.

Xiaoxian's father was 10 thousand unhappy when he heard the man's request to return the bride price money. He felt that since the two sides were engaged, the banquet had been set, and relatives of both sides had arrived at the scene, it would not be shameful for him if he suddenly divorced.

Xiaoxian's father communicated with Xiaoxian again. Xiaoxian finally said, "It's ok to get married. Let's get married in a few years."

Xiao Sheng thinks that a woman's fairy is just like playing house. At the age of 29, she replied like a blank check. A 24-year-old fairy can afford it, but Xiao Sheng, 29, can't.

Xiao Sheng replied to Xiaoxian: I don't accept it.

From the situation of Xiaoxian and Xiao Sheng, we can know that:

1, the two sides have known each other for a short time, only a few weeks, and they don't know each other very well. With a few words from the matchmaker, they got engaged hastily.

2. Xiaoxian's personality is introverted. Xiaoxian's father has been talking. Xiaoxian has been crying. Xiaoxian's father has always been a black face. Speaking of bride price, he is unhappy.

Love advice:

Although it is a blind date, it is necessary to get to know each other for a while and have a deeper understanding of each other before deciding whether to get engaged. After all, marriage is a lifetime thing.

Marriage is not a business, and it is no longer the time for parents to arrange marriages. Xiaoxian's parents should find out their daughter's mind in advance, instead of thinking that her daughter is not staying and wants to marry her quickly. As a result, the daughter is reluctant, the man is unhappy and everyone is unhappy.

Before getting engaged, the man should thoroughly understand the girl's thoughts, instead of driving the ducks to the shelves, otherwise it will waste the other person's time and energy. Although blind date saves time and effort, it also needs emotional foundation to get married.