What do you mean, there are flowers first, then there are fruits?

If you talk about their interests. Waiting for 30 years, if you are born early, it will be difficult to take it in. It is best to "spend it first". You can be carefree. If you say children and grandchildren, you have to wait until you are 30 years old. If we were born early, it would be hard to keep them after all. It's better to have a husband and a daughter, so that we can be carefree. (As some fortune tellers say at first glance) Take flowers first, and then turn them into reality: metaphor for husband, woman and man. Heir: descendants.