Why do the most sensible children in the family always suffer the most grievances?

I have the following understanding of the phenomenon that the most sensible child in the family is always the most wronged:

First of all, this is because the most sensible children give people a reliable impression in the eyes of their families. Parents and other children unconsciously tend to put more responsibilities and tasks on this child, thinking that they have the ability to complete it. The increase of these responsibilities and tasks will inevitably make children feel great pressure, and their rights and interests and real needs will inevitably be ignored, thus creating a feeling of being wronged.

Secondly, the most sensible children are usually the easiest to observe the needs and thoughts of their families. This makes them have scruples when expressing their true thoughts, for fear of causing extra troubles to their families. This kind of scruples and lack of expression make the family mistakenly think that they have no objection, which further aggravates the assignment of tasks, but the load of tasks exceeds the children's tolerance, which is also the reason for the sense of injustice.

Thirdly, parents and other children are more likely to think of the most sensible child when seeking help or solving problems. However, they often ignore that this child also needs care and care. The most sensible children seem to have lost the opportunity to express their needs and will inevitably accumulate emotional grievances and anxiety. Family members need to understand that the most sensible children still need care and support.

Finally, due to personality reasons, other children in the family are often not as responsible and responsible as the most sensible children. Parents will unconsciously put more expectations and pressure on this "excellent" child for the operation of the whole family. If it is not treated fairly for a long time, it will inevitably accelerate the accumulation of grievances and hurt the growth of the most sensible children.

The family's dependence and choice on the most sensible child, the child's own caring mentality, the family's neglect of the child's real needs, and the relative evasion of other children's responsibilities in the family are the key factors that lead to the child's most grievance. To change this situation, families need to know the true state of the most sensible children, give them fair treatment, and find and care about their personal needs when necessary. At the same time, the most sensible children themselves need to learn to express their personal demands reasonably and refuse unreasonable tasks, so as to make their growth process healthier and happier.

Children at home, no matter how sensible, always need care and support. This is the responsibility of parents and an effective way to reduce grievances. The most sensible children are also eager to be understood and rested. At this point, family recognition and observation are needed. Love should never be different, which may be the most fundamental way to prevent injustice.