Zeng Guofan said that "people have four blessings and two virtues", so what does this sentence mean?

Zeng Guofan said that "people have four kinds of blessings and two kinds of fierce virtues". This sentence can be traced back to March of the eighth year of Xianfeng. Zeng Guofan wrote four sentences in his notes: dignified and heavy is your phase, humility and tolerance are your phase; Things have something to return to, and things have something to save. Zeng Guofan put forward two important aspects and two rich aspects of man from the perspective of being a man and doing things, and revealed four beautiful aspects of life.

The first blessing: dignified and heavy. Dignified and heavy people know how to fear, think long-term, be careful and meticulous in their words, know how to cultivate self-cultivation, and naturally stay away from disasters. The second blessing: humility and tolerance. Be modest and tolerant. You can't enjoy all the blessings, but you can't use all your strength. If you keep a low profile on weekdays, you will be able to have a good relationship and be respected in interpersonal communication! ?

The third blessing: return things to their original owners. To get something in return is to do things slowly and steadily. The implication is that everything should be done in a down-to-earth manner, with a beginning and an end, with diligence and perseverance. The fourth blessing: the heart is rich. If a person has money in his heart, then he can develop a big pattern. "Success will help the world" and "Worrying about the world first" are the manifestations of saving things. The world is as wide as the pattern is. How much you can help others, how much you can get in return.

People have two great evils, which must be given up. The first virtue: pride, the way to defeat. With pride, people will inevitably relax their vigilance, and disasters and failures will follow. Shakespeare also said: Proud people will always destroy themselves in pride. Second vice: talking too much will cause endless harm. Zeng Guofan has been working hard for "abstaining from talking too much" all his life. Not only do I often criticize myself that "the loss of everyday words is really a ghost story". He not only used it to spur himself, but also used it as a family motto to teach his people. ?