Get married first or start a career first

Marry first when you meet a lover, and make a career first when you meet a noble person.

Self-reliance has no nobles, and self-cultivation has no lovers.

Marry first when you meet a good person: you can marry first when you meet the right person.

Make a career first when you meet a noble person: when you meet an excellent master, you will work hard and achieve something.

No noble people stand on their own feet: if you don't meet excellent people to help yourself, learn to stand on your own feet first.

No cultivation of good people: if you don't meet the right person, try to improve your value first.

Related sentiment: In fact, this sentence also tells people what to do at what time. For example, many people want to work to earn money during school and go to school when they go to work. They always want to get married before marriage and want to go out to play after marriage, and they are always dissatisfied with the status quo. In fact, life is about doing what you should do. For example, study hard at school, work hard at work, and manage your marriage after marriage. Don't wait until you lose it to regret it. You know, everything you can catch in front of you belongs to you. Who can be sure what will happen next? Therefore, the phrase "marry first when you meet a lover, and make a career first when you meet a noble person" is also a warning to people to do what they can catch at present first and talk about it later. Don't lose the watermelon to catch sesame seeds, and turn to it. You can only regret it.