Zhang Youyi: The giants "abandoned their wives" counterattack.

She was born in a rich family, a scholarly family, a high-ranking official and a well-off family.

She married into a rich family, and her husband was the richest man and the first gifted scholar in Shi Xia.

She was abandoned by a rich family, and a divorce made her the first divorce in China.

She became a rich family, turned grief into strength, plotted in the business world and attacked her life.

She has no proud face and outstanding talent. She just appeared as a supporting role in a man's romantic story. After the pain, her counterattack surprised an era.

This is Zhang Youyi.

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1900th century, Zhang Youyi was born in a scholarly family in Baoshan County, Jiangsu Province. My grandfather used to be a senior official of the Qing court, and my father was a doctor in the town.

Named after generations, her father gave her a name: Zhang Jiaxuan, nicknamed Xiao Yan. I hope she can be as elegant and noble as Zanyu and have good moral character.

But in China at that time, the status of women was still very humble.

Zhang Youyi's mother gave birth to twelve children, eight men and four women. Whenever someone asks her how many children she has, she only says eight, because her daughter is destined to marry someone else's wife, and one is equal to none.

However, the love of Zhang's parents for each child will not be biased because of gender.

The Zhang family has always respected "filial piety", so the children of the Zhang family always follow the lessons in such words and deeds: First, they are physically skinned and influenced by their parents; Second, parents are here and don't travel far.

As a child, Zhang Youyi will always be a clever and sensible daughter in the eyes of her parents. She will keep her children's liveliness, cheerfulness, self-denial and trustworthiness in mind.

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Three-year-old, the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month, is a traditional off-year in China, and people are used to calling it "Kitchen God Festival".

Children like Kitchen God Festival, because on this day, they can eat sweet dumplings. However, this year's Chef Festival makes young musical instruments unforgettable.

That day, Amin brought Zhang Youyi a bowl of red bean paste dumplings. She tasted the sweetness of glutinous rice balls happily and had no idea what it meant.

In fact, adults think that eating sweet things will make children's feet soft, which is conducive to foot binding.

The next day, Amin and his mother brought a pot of water and a pile of thick cloth. First, they soaked Xiaoyi's feet in water and dried them. After that, Amin wrapped Xiaoyi's feet tightly with a wet cloth.

The pain in the cone heart made the young instrument almost faint. No matter how she cried, she could only watch the white cloth turn blood red, as if she heard the sound of broken bones.

In fact, it was the late Qing dynasty, and women's foot binding was not so harsh. It's just that Xiaoyi's mother thinks that the daughter of a big family will be laughed at and looked down upon by her husband's family if she doesn't bind her feet. Unexpectedly, foot binding became one of the reasons why Xiaoyi was later rejected by her husband.

After crying for three days, the second brother couldn't bear to torture his sister, begged his mother to give up foot binding for her, and said that if her sister couldn't get married, he would take care of her for life.

From then on, Xiaoyi's feet were completely free. These big feet opened another world for her and let her run freely.

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At the age of thirteen, Zhang Jiaao, the fourth brother, chose marriage for Xiaoyi.

My father-in-law is the richest man in Shi Xia, the chairman of the Chamber of Commerce, and owns many industries. Her husband is a famous local genius, suitable for many people.

Both families hit it off, except the married one. When Xiaoyi saw the photo of Xu Zhimo, she was relieved. Fortunately, she doesn't look like a reckless person or a treacherous person. When Xu Zhimo saw the photo of the young instrument, he left only a "country bumpkin" and left.

In this way, Zhang Youyi, who is still studying in the Second Women's Normal School, became Xu Zhimo's fiancee.

The wedding scene was very grand. Xiaoyi's family bought her all kinds of western-style furniture, as well as embroidery, porcelain, tableware and so on. The real ten-mile red makeup covered the strip.

However, no matter how grand the wedding is, no matter how beautiful the memories are, this marriage is just a "besieged city" for Xiaoyi, while the other party is drifting away in this marriage.

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Miss weak water 3 thousand, just to get to know someone. Unfortunately, young Yi and Xu Zhimo are doomed to be unable to accompany the world of mortals.

After marriage, young Yi, under the good upbringing of the Zhang family, showed filial piety to her in-laws. Every morning, she is in a coma. She never says "no" to her in-laws and abides by the rules for women in that era.

However, for marriage, Xiaoyi is a little at a loss.

Just a few weeks after his marriage, Xu Zhimo left home to study. He has freedom beyond the reach of young people, and he seems to want to escape from the siege of this marriage.

Time in a different place killed this bleak marriage. Zhang Youyi is the best daughter-in-law in the eyes of her mother-in-law and the most nonexistent daughter-in-law in the eyes of her husband.

Even during the school holiday, Xiaoyi can see her husband, but seeing her means not seeing her. In Xu Zhimo's eyes, young musical instruments are air. At the beginning, I was forced by my parents to marry Xiaoyi. Now, I have imposed all the grievances on Xiaoyi, and she has become an innocent victim.

When Xiaoyi's first child was born, Xu Zhimo turned and went abroad to study. I wonder how long it will be before we meet again.

Fortunately, at this time, the young instrument was accompanied by children, and the young instrument named the child "Xu Jikai" and nicknamed "Ah Huan".

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A few years later, in the name that Xu Zhimo needed someone to take care of her abroad, Xiaoyi got the consent of her parents-in-law and traveled across the ocean just to reunite with her husband.

During the long journey, Zhang Youyi fantasized about reuniting countless times, but as soon as the ship landed, the reality gave the young instrument a pot of cold water. When she scanned the crowd, she recognized Xu Zhimo, but her heart was cold, because Xu Zhimo was the only one who seemed to want to stay there most.

The first thing after arriving in Paris, Xu Zhimo took Xiaoyi to the department store to buy new clothes. He doesn't like Yi's rusticity, although Yi picks out all the clothes that accompany him.

Xiaoyi put on a dress that she had never seen before for the first time, and she looked very capable. Later, the two went to the studio to take a photo and gave their disguised happiness to their distant parents.

Later, I returned to London from Paris. A club in London became their home.

Here, Xu Zhimo goes out to visit friends, read books, study and communicate every day. However, in the face of this sudden freedom, I suddenly don't know what to do. I wait at home every day, waiting for my husband to come back, and then watching him leave without stopping for a moment. Maybe in his mind, his wife doesn't exist.

Young Yi thought that as long as he followed in Xu Zhimo's footsteps, one day, he would look back and take a serious look at her.

However, it turns out that no matter how hard Xiao Yi tries, she can't get her husband's favor.

Until xiaoyi is pregnant again. When she carefully told Xu Zhimo the news of her pregnancy, Xu Zhimo let her abort the child without much thought.

Young instrument said, I heard that someone died because of abortion. She thinks this can arouse Xu Zhimo's sympathy.

Xu zhimo told her that someone died by train, so no one went by train?

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Once, a female friend of her husband came to her house as a guest. This female friend has traditional female feet, but she wears fashionable clothes. After the friend left, Xu Zhimo asked Xiaoyi what she thought of this female friend.

Xiaoyi lamented repeatedly in her heart and said, "She looks good, but her feet don't match her suit."

This sentence set off a bomb in Xu Zhimo's heart and roared at Zhang Youyi: "I know, so I want a divorce".

Since then, Xu Zhimo left his pregnant wife and disappeared. His escape officially declared the breakup of the marriage.

Until a few days later, Xu Zhimo's friend Huang, as a lobbyist, found Zhang Youyi and pleaded for Xu Zhimo: "Would you like to be Xu's daughter-in-law, not Xu Zhimo's wife?"

This sentence angered Zhang Youyi. She didn't expect that Xu Zhimo didn't even dare to tell her face to face when she divorced.

Later, Xiaoyi also left. First, she went to her second brother's home in Paris. Before long, she was entrusted by her second brother to a bunch of lovers in the countryside of Paris. Finally, she followed her seventh brother to Germany.

1922 On February 24th, Zhang Youyi gave birth to a second child named Peter in a German hospital. At this time, she was the only one in the empty delivery room.

After staying in the hospital for a week, Zhang Youyi went home. As soon as he got home, he received a letter from Xu Zhimo.

The content of the letter has nothing to do with the child and her body. At this time, Xu Zhimo only cares about whether the young Yi is willing to divorce.

Xu Zhimo, who disappeared for half a year, only appeared for divorce. Young Yi is very calm at this time. She knows that their marriage is just like the love of "feet and suits". No matter the appearance or the inside, they are very mismatched.

She decided not to humbly ask her husband to change his mind, although Xu Zhimo was ugly enough to easily cover up his extramarital affairs mistakes and leave everything to her to decide.

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After the divorce, Xu Zhimo went to the hospital to see the children and left. At this time, Lin is being pursued. Soon, he and Lin returned to China together.

Xiaoyi, on the other hand, took Peter alone and settled in Berlin, Germany.

After returning home, Lin, whose love cooled down, turned and married Liang Sicheng, giving Xu Zhimo painful memories. Is this God's deliberate arrangement?

Yi found a nanny Dora for Peter. Dora likes Peter so much that she almost treats him as her own child.

The young musical instrument, on the other hand, devoted herself to her research career. She studies German hard, attends classes at pesta Lodge College and studies preschool education.

Three years of German life sharpened Zhang Youyi's will, and she didn't smile with relief until she returned to China and heard people talking about her divorce.

However, Germany is also her sorrow. Three years later,1March 9, 925, Peter died of serious illness, which gave her a heavy blow. A song "Where are you going?" made her see the fragility of life and inspired her tenacity.

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At Peter's funeral, Xiaoyi saw Xu Zhimo again.

Xu Zhimo suggested that after the funeral, the two of them go to Italy for fun. The young instrument agreed.

Later, the young instrument learned that she went out to play in order to alleviate the pain caused by Peter's death, while Xu Zhimo was trying to escape the domestic pursuit.

He was chasing Lu Xiaoman, a married woman. Lu Xiaoman's husband Wang Geng is the director of Harbin Public Security Bureau and a good friend of Xu Zhimo. Knowing that his good friend was in love with his wife, he once threatened to kill him, so he hid in Germany and waited for the domestic alarm to be lifted.

Until one day, Hu Shi sent a telegram saying that Wang Geng had agreed to divorce Lu Xiaoman and decided not to pursue Xu Zhimo. So, he once again left her in a foreign country and returned to China.

The marriage between Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman was opposed by Xu's parents, and Lu Xiaoman's mother didn't believe that Xu Zhimo had divorced. She has to be admitted by Zhang Youyi herself. Xu's parents also believe that they will not accept Lu Xiaoman as their daughter-in-law without Zhang Youyi's personal consent.

So, Zhang Youyi returned to China in this way. Zhang Youyi was only in his twenties when he returned from Europe. However, at this time, she had already experienced a marriage and the pain of losing her son.

Five years' time has left a kind of vicissitudes that are inconsistent with age.

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After returning home, Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi embarked on completely different paths.

Traditional Xu parents can't accept Lu Xiaoman's miss temper. For example, they only ate half a bowl and left half a bowl after dinner, and Xu Zhimo had to hold it upstairs after dinner. The good daughter-in-law in their hearts should be what the young instrument used to look like.

So in the face of China's eternal mother-in-law problem, Xu Zhimo also realized the feeling of sandwich biscuits. While trying to balance the relationship between his parents and Lu Xiaoman, he also tried his best to make money to support Lu Xiaoman.

As a rich N generation, Lu Xiaoman has long been used to spending money like water. Xu Zhimo is going to give lectures in Beijing and Shanghai to make money, and he has to borrow money from friends from time to time to make a living.

Young Yi, who lived alone with Ah Huan, also received complaints from Xu's parents about Lu Xiaoman from time to time.

But at this time, the young instrument is no longer a passive Nuo Nuo woman. She is already powerful and unattainable.

After returning to China, Zhang Youyi became the vice president of women's commercial bank.

Unexpectedly, the women's bank, which was almost unable to make ends meet at the beginning, never went downhill in that smoke-filled era with the efforts of Zhang Youyi.

The working experience of the bank has completely opened Xiaoyi's business thinking.

Before long, Xiaoyi came up with the idea of opening a clothing store. Later, with the help of Eight Brothers, Xu Zhimo and several friends contributed money together, and Zhang Youyi became the general manager. On Nanjing Road at that time, "Shang Yun" clothing store became the wardrobe of the upper class.

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193 1 year1month 18, Xu zhimo crashed on the way to Beijing on a China Airlines plane. He was the only passenger on the plane and died on the spot.

It is said that Xu Zhimo returned to Beijing to listen to Lin's lecture on architectural art.

When the telegram arrived at Lu Xiaoman's residence, Lu Xiaoman refused to believe that Xu Zhimo was really dead, refused to accept the telegram, and even refused to claim the body.

The person who sent the telegram finally had no choice but to send it to Zhang Youyi's residence. Zhang Youyi focused on the past and asked Eighth Brother to take Huan to claim the body.

Zhang Youyi doesn't know whether her feelings for Xu Zhimo are love, but she knows that she has a responsibility to him, not only him, but also Xu Fu, her son and even Lu Xiaoman, and she thinks she has the same responsibility.

After Xu Zhimo's death, Zhang Youyi regularly remitted the living expenses to Lu Xiaoman every month, until the man who lived with Lu Xiaoman came to the door to stop the remittance. At the same time, he also supported Xu's father for thirteen years and died for the old man.

It is said that with the passage of time, people's hearts are getting weaker and weaker. Zhang Youyi has been experiencing the ups and downs of life with an indifferent attitude.

After a terrible marriage, Zhang Youyi got a new life. She is no longer the daughter-in-law of the Xu family, but the vice president of Shanghai Women's Commercial Bank and the shareholder of the clothing store.

Later in life, Zhang Youyi also married a doctor for 20 years. Until 1988, at the age of 88, she finished her doctorate in the United States.

Zhang Youyi once said, "I was born in a changing era, so I have two faces. One is to listen to old remarks, and the other is to listen to new ones. Part of me stays in the east, and the other part looks at the west. I have the inner temperament of women and the masculinity of men. "

This is Zhang Youyi. It is hard to describe her as "elegant" and "beautiful", but she has a rare woman's generosity and perseverance.

In her life, except for a failed marriage, everything else was successful.