Attention! These words must not be said in front of children.

These words must not be said in front of children.

1.

Living between husband and wife, in fact, it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps. Especially after having children, many parents will have conflicts because of their children's problems.

Some parents will also speak ill of their other half in front of their children. For example, dad likes to come back late after drinking, and mom will tell the child, "Your dad is an alcoholic, and he doesn't invite home every day."

Using the tone of accusation and complaint will deeply affect children, and will also pass on negative emotions to children, so that children will not respect and criticize their fathers.

2. Talk about family income

Don't talk about money and family income in front of children.

Say it with methods and strategies. Don't show off your wealth in front of children, let alone cry poor in front of children.

3. Depressed and discouraged words

A person's life can't be smooth sailing, there will always be setbacks and difficulties. Therefore, parents should never say anything frustrating and discouraging in front of their children. For example, "it's too unlucky, there's nothing good." "It's already like this anyway!"

This kind of discouragement and discouragement is actually a negative energy for children. Affected by this for a long time, children will become self-destructive, lack initiative and enthusiasm, and only know how to give up and escape.

4. words that belittle children

"How can you be so stupid that you don't know anything?" "Why are you so annoying? Stay away from me?" ... when parents communicate with their children, they are often impulsive and casual because of anger, and their mouths are full of joy, but they ignore their inner feelings.

5. Comparative words

"Look at the monitor of your class. He knows everything. Why can't you do anything? " ,

"Can't you learn from others? Why is it always you? "

Such comparisons and comparisons have dealt a big blow to children's inner self-esteem and self-confidence. On the contrary, they have no educational effect, but will only be counterproductive.

6. Empty talk without promises

If parents want to establish their own prestige, they should not say everything and agree with everything. You'd better do what you promised your child and keep your promise.

Because if parents often promise but don't do it, what parents say to their children will be taken seriously in the future, and after a long time, they will become like their parents. Say yes casually, but don't keep it, become dishonest and lose friends in the group.