The destiny that can be changed is also destiny takes a hand. This is my outlook on life. what do you think? I'm not superstitious.

There is something wrong with this statement. The so-called "fate" is invisible to anyone, and it is not an objective thing. The fate calculated by the so-called "fortune telling" is a "phase" produced by the act of "fortune telling". Fortune-telling itself is also useful and a disturbing force. There is no such thing as "pure objective observation"! If you observe, you are not a bystander, but a participant. This assertion has been partially proved by modern quantum physics. Therefore, I personally think that there is no fixed so-called fate, only energy (or the "karma" of Buddhism and the "qi" of Confucianism and Taoism) and the direction of energy, as well as the mutual interference of energy. And the role of this energy ultimately lies in personal feelings (called bitterness and feeling in Buddhism). What others think is "bitter" is not bitter in your feelings, and this kind of bad fate is nothing to you; On the contrary, others think it is "enjoyable". If you can't enjoy it, there is no joy at all.