Happy birthday to my baby daughter 16! (202 1.4. 16)

Sixteen-year-old diary is full of long thoughts, and sixteen-year-old eyes are full of dreams and troubles. . . .

Dear eldest daughter Xin, you will celebrate 16' s birthday in two days. Big girl! I just told your father that he forgot. Ha ha. . .

Time flies, inch by inch. Now that you are a senior high school student, you can't help recalling the scenes when you were born 16 years ago. Memories were brought to April, 2005 by your crisp crying 16.

I remember living in my mother's hometown at that time. You were born in a small hospital. I have experienced intermittent labor pains for dozens of hours, you know? The child's birthday is a difficult day for every mother.

Because you were my first baby, at that time neither your father nor I knew how to take care of the children. My heart is full of infinite expectations for you, and I am excited and a little worried and uneasy at the thought of seeing you soon. . . All kinds of complicated moods!

The pain was severe, so I tugged at your father's hair. He hugged me, and your grandmother encouraged me to refuel while feeding me bread!

Now I still clearly remember that when your little head came out, my mind was blank for a minute or two. I was in a panic. I can't hear people around me. . . .

Fortunately, after a while, you finally came to this beautiful world. "Girl, 6 kg 3 Liang is very healthy." The doctor told me.

I am a mother! I have a daughter! Inner joy touched the hundreds of days and nights I worried about you and myself in this long October. When you see your lovely face pet, all the hard work is worth it!

On that day, your father was as happy as a child and quietly went to tell your fortune. Say that you will study hard in the future. Ha ha. You are destined to be excellent in this life.

You don't like crying since you were a child, so it's easy to raise. Just remember, it's hard for you to breastfeed! It took three times to finally succeed. You breast-fed your mother until you were almost one year old. The second time, dad hugged you all night. I was assigned to the next room.

I was hoarse when I heard you cry, but I still refused to drink milk. I didn't sleep much all night. Listening to your crying, I feel distressed and anxious. The next day, I hugged you and couldn't wait for you to breastfeed again.

Now recall these, full of warmth and touch! Dear daughter, we should be mother and daughter in this life, which should be such deep feelings.

All the way through ups and downs, laughter and laughter, your fleshy little hands are very cute in my memory. Close your eyes, pout and look for nipples from left to right, and finally find the new world (nipples) sucking hard and happily. It's so cute. . . .

You have been conscious since you were a child, and you write well. I like reading books and pictures very much. Your father and I have never worried about our study!

You got excellent grades all the way, and now your high school is as good as ever. Your efforts, wisdom and humor will always be unique. It is the driving force for parents to struggle, and parents are proud of you!

Not only because of your excellent grades, but also because you are the unique child that mom and dad love most! Parents are willing to give you unconditional love and acceptance. Just like yourself and guide you to find the meaning and beauty of life a little bit. Slowly explore your unique talents with your heart and start the road of life.

Grow up with you and try to meet better us together. We often say "love your neighbor as yourself". Without "ego" and "ego", we can't accept ourselves, so we have no power to accept, nourish and love others. As parents, we can't give our children what they don't have. Only by first achieving self-love, self-esteem and self-confidence can children be completely accepted, respected and trusted, without brushing their sense of existence, control and value. As Teacher Jiang Xun said, "I always think that a person who really knows how to love actually loves himself first. After you know yourself thoroughly, your love will be more sound. So when you get along with another person, you are not dependent or possessive. But to give respect on the basis of equality.

None of my friends' children can bear the pressure of my mother to give up on herself. Because their immature shoulders can't bear your unfinished pursuits and desires. I believe that no woman wants to be a "useless middle-aged woman" in the eyes of her children, and never give up her growth.

Only when you grow up well enough will your children stand on your shoulders and reach a better level. If you want to change yourself, you must improve yourself. Remember, it is never too late to start.

In the process of accompanying children to grow up, the biggest influence on children is not what we have done for them, but what we have become.

Daughter, your life has just begun. I hope that every birthday in the future, you can gain growth and gain happiness.

Mom and Dad hope you are healthy and happy! At your age now, you live a vibrant and beautiful life. 16 years old blooms like a flower and is colorful. Daughter, let's experience it together in the future. Sunshine all the way, tough and optimistic! May you grow up happily in the deep and strong love of your parents!

Finally, I wish my daughter a happy birthday! Healthy and happy every day!