A person's pattern often determines his life.

A person's pattern often determines his life. In the lowest situation, he can live the highest realm.

1. For pattern, many people think it is a very abstract word.

What is the specific mode? Pattern can be divided into three dimensions, one is the height of the problem, the other is the length of the problem, and the third is the depth of the problem.

Height, a person's foothold is different, it determines the height of the problem. Just like standing from the perspective of a staff member and a leader, the problems you consider and the decisions you make are naturally different, that is, the overall situation. A far-sighted person can always proceed from the overall situation and take a long-term view. So when encountering problems, don't always follow your own path and start from your own point of view, but learn to jump out and look at it from a higher angle, and you will understand something and make better decisions.

Length, a person's vision is different, determines the length of the question. Therefore, when looking at the problem, don't confine yourself to the present, don't stumble over the immediate difficulties, but learn to look further and further, and understand that the current trough is often to save for the next rise, which is a blessing in disguise.

Depth, a person's ideological thickness is different, and the depth of seeing a problem is naturally different. Some people say that there are three realms in life: seeing mountains is mountains; Seeing mountains is not mountains; See the mountain. At first, each of us always thought that "seeing is believing" and what our eyes saw was true; Later, with the gradual growth, I found that the mountain is no longer a mountain, and the original world is not as simple as I imagined; Finally, I found that the original mountain was still the original mountain. Things have changed, and everything is empty in a blink of an eye. It's good to be indifferent, indifferent.

Therefore, the bigger a person's pattern, the more his height, length and thickness. This is why some people don't panic when they encounter problems, while others are at sixes and sevens. Some people can always see the essence of the problem, while others are always superficial. Pattern often determines a person's outcome.

2. If the pattern determines fate, then what determines the pattern and how to improve a person's pattern?

A person's pattern is supported by experience, and a pattern without experience is often empty talk. Even if you encounter setbacks, it is also a passbook. The lower the trough, the more you shape the pattern. Suffering enlightens wisdom, and suffering temper the mind. So, embrace all the good and bad in life. Every experience in life is wealth, which contributes to our pattern.

In the lowest situation, live the highest realm. Behind a person's pattern is the thickness of thought, and the pattern without thought is just a castle in the air, empty and ethereal.

Reading is the cradle of thought. Reading more books will naturally broaden your horizons. So read more books and read good books. After all, a person's wisdom, strength and vision are limited. Only by standing on the shoulders of a giant can he see farther and grow faster. Everyone has his own unique bright spot, and different perspectives will bring people different ideas. This is the power of communication. Therefore, if you communicate with others and learn from excellent people, you will get unexpected inspiration and new ideas.

People live a lifetime, and the difference lies in the pattern.

A person's pattern often determines his life. When those unexpected "stones" fall on the road of life, if you are a small puddle, water will splash and sludge will fly everywhere. If you were a sea, you would be calm and indifferent to Ning Ran.