What kind of fate are parents and children?

As parents, as parents' children, what is the fate?

What kind of fate brought us to our parents?

What fate has our children given us?

Who is this child?

Why is it so attractive?

Children are all cause and effect, and they are all entangled in previous lives. If there is no debt or enmity between each other, it is impossible to come into the world and become a relationship between father and son.

In fact, every mother and son have a lifelong relationship, and there will be endless emotions and fate in this life.

Who is the child?

Is the result of past lives quantum entanglement.

Parents are our upper line, husband and wife friends are our parallel lines, and children are our lower line.

We inherited our personality and appearance from our parents, including the pain of coming from a family.

For parents, the pain of youth includes cost performance, feeling and intuition.

When I was a child, my family was poor, and my parents always said that my family was too poor and didn't have enough money, so it was easy to give birth to children with high cost performance.

When I was a child, I had a strong mother. My mother never praised you, nor did she see your merits. This has always been a shortcoming, just like my mother.

My mother often tells me: I didn't criticize you, but I praised you. I really can't accept her compliment. She will think that children can't brag. If they boast, they will be proud and they will go to heaven soon. They don't know how to work hard and never praise or praise. Therefore, such children are particularly easy to grow into sensory types, such as pleasing, verifying and seeking recognition.

There is no way to be completely confident, there is no way to be sure of yourself, and even if others are sure of themselves, there is no way to be sure of themselves. This is a feeling type.

Intuition, abandoned by parents when I was a child. She will think that the whole world is not safe for me, and I can't trust it completely, so I have to rely on myself!

Therefore, people with more intuition want to commit suicide, feel depressed and even live in their own world.

But not all people who want to commit suicide are intuitive, but there are relatively more people with suicidal tendencies in the intuitive type. Why?

Because she can't feel love, she thinks her parents are the most unreliable people, so others can't say they love themselves.

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We are influenced by our parents' online, and we are parents' offline, so it will affect our relationship between husband and wife and friends; At the same time, we have inherited the characteristics of parents' education of children from the upstream, so there will be various ways to educate children in the downstream.

You will see that our parents used to beat us, and we also discussed why we beat our children.

Why?

For us, our children will heal our body and mind. They are our angels. The pain and helplessness that we were beaten by our parents will be unconsciously replayed in our minds for thousands of times.

When we have children, we can't help but want to cure ourselves and treat ourselves as children.

So sometimes when you are angry, you can't help hitting your child, even yelling at him, scolding him and belittling him, but not all children are really naughty.

What the hell are we doing?

We are healing, healing the pain between us and our parents, and healing the unfair treatment we encounter;

Self-healing, so children are really our angels, helping us to understand the best love in the world and heal the injuries we suffered in childhood.

03

When I was studying Datura, I saw that many people had financial problems.

I'll tell TA that you have to go back and make up with your dad until it's too sweet. It's sweet if it can be sweet. If not, it will be peaceful.

I said, you must have a bad relationship with your father. TA was surprised.

TA said: teacher, how do you know?

I said: the relationship with my father represents the material world, as well as a sense of security and positive strength. You can see the lack of positive power in the painting, and you can see that your connection with the material world is not good enough.

In other words, you feel insecure. You can't be really comfortable in this world. Something must be wrong with your father.

Some students said, did I get back together with my father because I wanted to get on well with him and make myself rich?

Of course not. As a child, no matter how old you are, you will always regard your parents as the gods or spiritual pillars of your family.

The existence of parents is completely two mental states, and the composition of that spiritual world is different.

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So what if some parents are gone?

Then always go back to childhood, even if there is a little warmth and gentleness that can make you feel love, expand that love!

A bad relationship with your mother will be manifested in interpersonal relationships.

Interpersonal relationships, including our relationships with friends and family, find that our emotional intelligence is not high, we like to please others, we don't know how to treat others, try to please them, be a good person and be kind to others.

However, there is often a result that others are ungrateful; Besides, they will say that this and that are not good for me. I feel very wronged. I have done a lot and tried my best, but why can't they say it well? Why on earth?

Because my relationship with my mother is not good enough in my bones, because my mother represents the relationship with the world.

I remember when I was talking about my relationship with my parents in a speech therapy class, one of my classmates said, teacher, I have no idea how to applaud my relationship with my father. I have never felt safe, and I have never been able to trust the world.

When a girl's relationship with her father is not good enough, she can't completely relax and fall in love with her husband.

And there's a lot of self-judgment in it. I don't deserve, I don't deserve, I don't deserve to be treated well by others, and I will refuse.

05

One of my students said, Teacher, what is good for you? What is the degree of applause?

I just can't laugh. I said, it seems that you really don't know what to applaud.

I said: the relationship with my father is very sweet to think about, and it is particularly beautiful to think about it. Did you cough when you were a child, and your father felt particularly nervous, so he came to see how you were! Have you ever had one?

She said: Never. As long as you don't scold, you are still nervous, not at all.

A girl who has a good relationship with her father. She grew up in the palm of her father's hand. She thinks she is a treasure. For this world, she will have a lot of courage, confidence and sunshine, and a lot of happiness.

She knows that the world is sunshine and happiness for her, and she knows that even if she fails and falls, she can have a chance to stand up again.

Why?

Because positive energy is enough.

As soon as you say that, many people will envy you. The relationship with my father is like this. I have never been in such a sweet state.

It doesn't matter whether it is or not.

Because parents and children are fate for us, these fates are actually inevitable, and we can only correct them ourselves, and there is no way to force them!

If you can meet such a good father, such a good mother, and have such sweet feelings, this is the fate of previous lives, and of course it is also the blessing of previous lives.

If not, it can only be modified once in this life; There are deep emotional entanglements, emotional entanglements and even eternal quantum entanglements between us and our parents, so treat our parents well.