Who doesn't experience a few love rat (Zhihu reprinted sentiment)

Love rat is defined as a person who feels very good about himself, is extremely selfish, is good at taking, is irresponsible and takes pleasure in playing with others' feelings. This kind of "good man skin" love rat-

They generally have such personality and values: they are "calm and introverted", they are serious about their feelings, they pursue marriage from the early days of love, and they are used to telling you all kinds of vows once they have confirmed their relationship. Compared with other men, they always have a sense of pride of "getting out of the mud and not getting stained" ...

The way they treat their feelings can really give their sister paper endless comfort and security, but-

"You tell him you are not a virgin" is basically unacceptable to them. Even if you reluctantly accept it verbally, your heart will be branded with an indelible stain.

This so-called good man usually has only a few daily interests and can't afford to make big jokes. His cleanliness is almost abnormal: once or twice you unconsciously get along with other members of the opposite sex, they will devote all their attention to telling you about it. At first, you will indulge him and think he is a very single-minded man. After three or five times, you will be unbearable-"Do I need to be so careful about normal heterosexual communication?" ! "

Nevertheless, living with them is full of "certainty", and sisters still feel that such a man has a sense of security and can be entrusted for life. But their only advantage is that if they collapse, they will collapse-

When it was time to break up, they just left you with a sentence "We are not suitable". Leaving you alone, you ask yourself, "What did I do wrong? ! We agreed to get married and made a vow! ! "

This kind of man disguises all the appearances of a good man, but in essence he is the kind of man who has little love experience, doesn't understand human fireworks, is wishful thinking and optimistic about human nature. Always give you the illusion of eternity, and then hurt you more. This naive love rat was flattering them when she said they were men. In fact, they are little boys at most, and their cognition and concept of gender can't keep up with the times, and they still stay at the junior high school level. And sister paper, always escape the fear of being abandoned by men, confused by love rat's appearance.

Who can not experience a few love rat.

The fear of love is the fear of human nature, and more than half of those who fear human nature have died.

Life is only ten years, please face up to human nature. Farewell to love rat.