Lovelorn, my boyfriend broke up on the grounds that we didn't get married according to divination, saying that it wouldn't go well with me, no matter what. He said he was sure.

Personal advice: this kind of person is not worth changing for him.

Destiny is doomed from birth, and the story of your life is determined by the time and place of your birth. What you can do is to make up for the missing things, such as the lack of fire, and try to use the word with fire in your name. Two people with conflicting fates, that is, one water and one fire, are incompatible, no matter how you change, no matter how you remedy. Of course, the premise of all this is that if you believe in fate, if you dare to challenge it, then your fate is in your hands.