Middle-aged women want a happy and long-term marriage, but what do they turn a blind eye to?

First, the mother-in-law relationship! In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you must turn a blind eye, if you care what your old woman says about you. Then you and your husband can't get along, and you will get divorced sooner or later. Seven aunts and eight aunts always say something interesting and boring, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is even more serious in marriage. If you are excellent, your mother-in-law will think that you are not worthy of her excellent son. If you care what others say, you are ruined!

Middle-aged women, old and young, with an ignorant husband in the middle, usually your mother-in-law is saying that you can't do this well, you don't know how to live, and your children don't take care of it. what do you think? I paid so much for your family, gave birth to your family and gave you a free nanny. Don't you still like me?

Slowly, you will find that you hate this family more and more. You hate your mother-in-law and husband more and more. How did the seven-year itch come from? Maybe your husband didn't even tickle you, but all your mother-in-law said and did was the pain in your heart.

So when you get along with your mother-in-law, you must turn a blind eye. That's all I do. I'll do whatever you like. If not, let your son change me. If you mess with me again, I won't let you in

Second, my husband cheated! No man, especially a middle-aged man, has a house, a car, a stable family and a little success in his career. What do you think of such a man? He will make up for his regrets, such as falling in love with others and finding out how he felt when he was in love. More courageous men will go out to find a mistress or spend money to raise one.

Finally, a man will watch a video of a woman dancing on his mobile phone to polish his eyes. Do you think you will quarrel with him, quarrel with him and divorce him because of these things?

I suggest you turn a blind eye. Divorce him if you can. Go out and find a young man if you can. If you can't do it, and you still care about this family, you must endure it. How long can he show off in an ostentatious manner and return to his family sooner or later? Sixty or seventy years old, can you still play outside? Watching videos, not caring, lewd, is the true nature of men.

Third, trivial things! My mother and my father always quarrel over these trivial things. Why did my dad throw cigarette butts on the ground? My father watches TV too early in the morning. My father didn't wash his feet. My father is too lazy. What do you think you can do if you quarrel all your life? Won't you live with him for the rest of your life in the end? Even now, he still hates my dad.

I think, don't care about such trivial things, turn a blind eye, don't wash your feet, don't throw cigarette butts, or don't sweep the floor every day? Finally, I made myself sick. You said you'd be angry. Who took advantage?

Summary:

What is the magic weapon of marriage? Isn't it tolerance and understanding? The common point of inclusive understanding is to turn a blind eye. Don't be so picky. Go slow here today and there tomorrow. You don't bother others.

Finally, I want to say that it is really not easy for a woman to take care of her children and parents. Finally, her husband may cheat, but there is no way. If you want a happy marriage, you have to put up with it. You should learn to turn a blind eye and muddle along. Look at Ma Yili and learn from Ya Ya. How can a marriage be perfect?