If a person says that he is uncomfortable every day, he is uncomfortable. What kind of psychology is this?

Twenty years ago, the girlfriend of a friend of my husband's was such a person! On a wine table, I took her to meet for the first time. In the process of eating, it was originally a happy party. I saw her friend say that she was uncomfortable here, and she was very nervous when she was uncomfortable. So after the whole game, I saw them show their love. ...

Later, in the house they rented, everyone got together and talked and laughed. Suddenly she said, oh, no! Then I pretended to faint ... my friend was shocked and hurriedly helped her into the bedroom. Regardless of everyone's expression, I carefully helped her to lie on the bed and be caring and attentive. At that time, I was envious of women like us, and I could find a good man with passion and feelings ... Unlike us men, the male chauvinism from the countryside only knew how to give orders to people, no matter how hard we worked all day. ...

Another time, I went to visit another friend's hometown. The road was being built at that time, and it took two kilometers to walk. At that time, as long as my son was a few years old, he was curious and came all the way. I walked all the way down, but I didn't feel tired. But she said coquetry: Alas, this road is the longest I have ever walked in my life! You talk like a lady in a big city, and you are more delicate than me!

Later, they were going to get married to form a constellation, but the fortune teller told a friend that she would get married twice in her life! My friend was young and energetic at that time. As his feelings warmed up, he didn't believe in this evil! So they decided not to get a marriage certificate for the time being and wait until later.

After marriage, a friend took her back to her hometown to meet her parents. It happened to rain that day. As a result, the dirt roads in rural areas are becoming more and more difficult to walk. So she became a sissy again, muttering that she didn't want to leave. Seeing this, her friend hurried home and came to her with long rubber boots, but she didn't wear them and asked her to take her away. My friend obeyed and finally made my wife angry. My friend still protects me wholeheartedly. ...

We won't be surprised by this kind of thing in the future. As the saying goes, a dog is willing to bear a heavy burden. This is what they are talking about! Love to the depths without regrets! After years of marriage, her stomach has been disappointing. She seems to be indifferent all day, living a childlike life all day ... but my friend panicked, our child was already busy running, and the urging of his parents in his hometown ... made him "anxious and haggard" ...

Finally one day, her aunt came and made her friends very happy. As a result, one day she had a stomachache and went to the hospital for an examination. It turned out to be a mole! After the operation, at a friend's party, she looked cheerful, as if talking to herself, telling her friends in front of us: it's not my fault, it's not that I'm not born, it's that she can't afford it! At that time, we were all shocked, and we had never seen such a barren woman! Maybe she let her man listen to her for so many years! Especially as long as she hums and shows her beauty, her friends can't help her. ...

With the growth of age year by year, my friend's desire to be a father is getting stronger and stronger. It made me feel even worse to see all my friends around me enjoying the incomparable family happiness ... So I discussed with her that she would go to the orphanage to hug first, but she didn't hug, and then she did the same thing again, pretending to faint like a black hawk ... My friend was anxious and angry, but she couldn't stop her, crying and hanging herself, and she could only stare blankly ... Later I discussed with her that it was really impossible to give birth with her belly! Then give the woman a sum of money, and then it's irrelevant. As a result, she jumped and had no chance! Later, my friend gritted his teeth. Now that science is so developed, why not spend some money on IVF in a big hospital! As a result, the money at home was squandered by my wife all day, and there was very little left, so I had to pull my face and borrow it! My friend's heart is full of holes and blood is flowing. ...

I did it once or twice with hope, but it didn't work. The woman still looked indifferent. After my son was eleven years old, my friend couldn't bear it and asked her for a divorce! At that time, we wondered: Isn't it a marriage license? Later, my friend explained that I couldn't help it soon after I got married. She also forced her friends to submit by crying, making trouble, hanging herself and fainting! Friends finally broke out. He treated her for so many years, and he paid for it by himself, but he didn't get the corresponding reward, even if it was a comfort and occasional understanding! Finally, in her unreasonable troubles again and again, her friends finally moved their hands and finally turned the original image of a good man into magic. ...

For the last time, my friend went to the court of appeal for divorce. In order to take precautions, she hid outside and didn't go home. She had no choice but to call our friends and cry. For the sake of friends, my husband came forward to mediate on both sides, because he would rather tear down a temple than a marriage! Although she usually relies on her friends' love, she doesn't take us seriously at all! Arrogant. But my friend insisted on leaving, no matter what means and threats she took, she ignored her!

She always felt that her friends, like the Monkey King, could not escape from her Tathagata and would never leave her! I thought all her previous actions were useless on the issue of children. This is also because she doesn't cherish the feelings between the two, and she began to cheat her friends' feelings and a flower-protecting heart from the day she met them. So, in the end, she divorced and didn't come back. It was also her own fault. Should be a fortune teller, destined to have a second marriage. ...

It is easier to understand what the old man said than to do. That's my dad. He goes to the hospital for examination at both ends every day. People say that this uncle is in good health, but he feels uncomfortable from head to toe. He takes notes four times a day. His topic is inseparable from his illness. He can't sleep at night. He won't let my mother sleep. He always asks my mother what to do about his illness. There is really nothing wrong with me, and I also said that I have depression and want to commit suicide. I don't want to live. I prepared clothes for him. He's ready to die. He doesn't want to sleep. Sometimes he calls me at three in the morning and asks him why. He said I didn't feel well, and then he said it didn't matter. Go to sleep. My mother and I were both tortured. Actually, we are the ones who want to die.

What kind of psychology, morbid psychology, shows that this person is unhealthy, at least psychologically unhealthy. Family members can take him to a regular hospital for a check-up to see if there is anything wrong with his body. On the premise that there is nothing wrong with the body, it is said that there is something wrong with the brain. Go to the psychological department of a regular hospital for consultation. Early detection and early treatment are very important, and a healthy body is more important. If you are mentally healthy, you can live well and avoid problems. If you don't pay attention to it and don't treat it, you may develop into mental illness in the later stage, which is easy to cause big problems. So, you should pay attention to it and don't take it seriously. In daily life, problems must be solved. Don't delay. In short, I think he is either physically ill or mentally ill. what do you think?

My husband is a typical example. He has suspected that he has cancer four times. Every time he cries at home, he throws something at the door and says he can't live. He upset the whole family every time, but in the end he was admitted to the hospital and had various tests before he realized that he had concealed his military status. In fact, he is very healthy. He can eat two bowls of rice at a meal and run faster than a young man, but he just wants to make things difficult for everyone, and no one can do anything about him.

1. Fear of death

After the age of 60, the elderly always have a strong fear of death and are often fooled by people who sell health care products. In addition, they lack physiological knowledge, and it is easy to exaggerate some slight uncomfortable feelings into diseases, feel that they are going to die soon, and make endless noises for this.

2. Desire for attention

Some elderly people, such as my husband, especially like the feeling of "the stars holding the moon". All the worries in the family must focus on him, otherwise it will make him uncomfortable, make a scene and attract everyone's attention. Every time my father-in-law gets cancer, he has to stay in hospital for a few days. Needless to say, he is very happy. Relatives and friends came to visit him, giving him gifts and cash, and being caring and attentive to him. He sat in the middle of the crowd and didn't know how comfortable he was.

3. Empty and lonely psychology

There are also elderly people who suddenly have nothing to do after retirement. They are not in a state of decline and have been living in fear. It is very likely that they will have some unhealthy thoughts and feel that they have no value in existence, and all kinds of uncomfortable problems will come.

In this case, I think as children, we should try our best to understand the psychology of the elderly and give them more comfort. Don't let them always do nothing at ordinary times. We can spend more time chatting with them or encourage them to take part in literary and artistic activities. My husband writes big characters at home, sometimes plays mahjong online and often goes out for a walk. Our mood is much better than before.

This is actually a disease. In fact, it is not necessarily bad health at first, but psychological feeling that we are uncomfortable. The brain will pass this hint to the body, and then we will make corresponding self-comfort or self-treatment behaviors.

Do you feel the same way? Sometimes you just feel tired, just don't want to move, just want to nest on the sofa. The result is more and more tired.

People should exercise outdoors. Internal needs motivation. When you are energetic every day, you won't feel uncomfortable. That's uncomfortable.

Lazy people will find various reasons to be lazy, but hard-working people feel that 24 hours a day is not enough!

Depression or cardiovascular disease.

I hate this kind of people most. They don't cook or work at home, saying they are uncomfortable, uncomfortable, not sick, sick, pitiful and sympathetic. It's pitiful that such people are old.

This is called the end!