What is angle and mentality?

From an optimistic point of view, will there be sadness? Paying too much attention to those mistakes, lost things and things you can't get, but ignoring what you really want and have now, is the root cause of sadness. With a positive and healthy attitude and a gloomy mood, everything will be beautiful.

An old lady has two sons. The first one dyes cloth, and the second one sells umbrellas. She worries about her two sons all day. On rainy days, she worries about her eldest son because she can't do cloth; On a sunny day, she was worried about her second son, because his umbrella could not be sold without rain. The old lady is always sad, and there is not a happy day, which makes her sick and thin.

Later, a wise man told her, why not think the other way around? On rainy days, you are happy for your second son, because he can sell umbrellas; On a sunny day, you are happy for your eldest son, because he can hang the cloth. Hearing this, the old lady suddenly woke up. Since then, she has been in a good mood every day and her body is naturally healthy.

A scholar who went to Beijing to take the exam had three dreams: one was to plant cabbage on the wall; Second, on rainy days, he wears a hat and an umbrella; Third, he and his cousin are naked and lying back to back. The scholar asked the fortune teller to explain his dream. The fortune teller said, "You are hopeless. Go home. Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? Is it impossible to lie naked with my cousin, back to back? " Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was surprised and asked, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow? How did you go back to your hometown today? " The scholar told this story, and the shopkeeper was very happy: "Hey, I think you have to stay. Think about it, isn't it high (medium) to grow vegetables on the wall? Don't you wear a hat and an umbrella to say that you are prepared? Lying naked in bed with your cousin doesn't mean you should turn over? " The scholar felt very reasonable and took the exam with confidence. Sure enough, he won the Flower Detective.

A Japanese woman writer met an old lady selling flowers on the street in America. She is in rags and weak, but her face is full of joy. A Japanese woman writer picked a bunch of flowers and said, "You look happy." "Why not happy? Everything is so beautiful! " "You are tolerant of troubles." Japanese female writer said again. However, the old lady's answer surprised the female writer: "The Friday when Jesus was crucified was the worst day in the world, but it was Easter two days later." Therefore, when I encounter misfortune, I will wait for the third day, because then everything will return to normal! "

Who said that when difficulties come, there will only be frustration? The reason why the old lady is so poor and happy to sell flowers is precisely because she has an optimistic heart!

A person's optimistic attitude and perspective are very important. The first sign of a successful person is that he has a positive attitude.

If a person has a positive attitude, faces life optimistically, accepts challenges and handles troubles optimistically, then he is half successful. Different people's mentality will lead to completely different results. Positive people will win, and negative people will lose. Especially the mentality at the critical moment. In this world, there are few outstanding people who succeed and many mediocre people who fail. Successful and excellent people live a full, comfortable and chic life, while unsuccessful and mediocre people live an empty, difficult and wretched life.

For some people, no matter how good the position is, no matter how high the income is, it will be boring if it remains unchanged. We accept the reality and focus on a positive work attitude, which is a good start for happy work. If we start every day's work with love and stimulate potential adaptability and vitality, it will often bring us unexpected surprises. Anyone who works and lives with love is the happiest person in the world.

To be happy in a short life, the key is to have a good attitude, live philosophically and live freely.