I would like to ask what our requirements for civil marriage are, and what are the specific procedures for engagement and marriage? My boyfriend and I don't know much about it.

one kind

Is the man's parents, aunts, aunts, etc. Visit that woman's home one day. The woman's parents usually let her daughter show her face, such as pouring tea and ordering food.

Smoke, the man's family conveniently look at the woman's appearance, figure, posture, manners and so on. In Quanzhou, Liancheng and other places, there is also the custom of looking at a woman's palm. The palm of the blind date is not as elegant and mysterious as the fortune teller. Usually, a woman's happiness depends only on the hardness of her palm and the thickness of her skin. Soft palms, delicate skin are good looks, prominent bones and stiff muscles, and rough skin is bad looks without good luck. Fujian folks also generally taboo women's "broken palms" (also known as "horizontal palms", that is, there is a thick and deep line on the palm that runs through the center from left to right, such as through the palm), thinking that such women are "hard" and doomed to kill their husbands (men's broken palms are regarded as the lives of high officials).

Alternative

That is, the man himself was taken to the woman's house by the matchmaker or elder for blind date. While observing a woman, he also accepts her scrutiny. But the couple didn't sit together and talk for a long time. The woman just showed a little and then hid in the back room. In Zhangping, blind date is commonly known as "seeing the bride". Generally, the man stands in Daping (patio), and it takes only a short time for his daughter to walk from the left alley (slant hall) to the right alley after dressing up. At the same time, the woman's parents and other relatives are watching the man. In Jianning, the man went to the door for a blind date, and the woman peeked first. If there is no objection, she goes out to pour tea. The man took the opportunity to glance at it. If he agrees, he will take the tea.

Engagement: Generally speaking, the man buys some gold and silver jewelry and clothes for the woman.

Marriage: There are too many things to get married, and it varies from place to place.