18-year-old girls take the initiative to chat with the opposite sex and feel like love rat. What should I do?

I feel your anxiety from your expression, and you realize that you are in a hurry. Moreover, I realized the cause of my anxiety. Many people around me have already taken off their orders, and they are all in pairs, which seems to be a minority. It also reveals a sense of loneliness, and there may be some elements of envy. It seems that only when I can find a boyfriend and start dating can I please the embarrassment and loneliness of being single. It seems that this is the right solution.

Then you start trying, looking. Want to try, and who can spark love. I don't know if this search process has brought you some trouble. In fact, I just want to have a tentative talk, and I may find that I don't feel anything, but if the other party takes the initiative to find you again, you will feel bored. The other person may also be a little confused. It seems that you are not interested in him again.

Second, try to accept the goodwill of some people.

You try to convey inconsistency, perhaps out of curiosity, initiative and concern for the other party, and you may be misunderstood by the other party that you have a good impression on him. Or you choose a boy who tries to strike up a conversation, and you have some good feelings. You can try to stop, think first and calm your impatience. Go and see what we expect from our boyfriends.

In the process of growing up, we will actually constantly form the evaluation and expectation of the opposite sex. Subconsciously, we already have the outline of the other half. So let's find a quiet time. Be alone with yourself. Ask yourself what kind of relationship you want. What kind of person are you looking for? You can try to find a piece of paper to list. Such as height, weight, personality, hobbies, and the feeling of being with him. The more detailed, the better. Only in this way can we outline his outline in my mind. Also let yourself know more about what kind of person you want.

Third, we hold a sincere attitude, and the other party can still feel the sincere warmth from us. ?

From acquaintance to love, it may not happen overnight. Liked objects may also need to "search for collisions" to get to know each other in communication and evaluate the suitability of both parties. This is also a responsible attitude towards both sides. At the same time, I think that as long as we are in interpersonal communication, we all have the risk of hurting others and being hurt by others. But for the possible good result, most of us are willing to take some risks, because after all, only hard work can lead to results. I think as long as we have a sincere attitude, the other party can still feel the sincere warmth from us. ?

Finally, she really found the right one. Then I tried to get to know each other. We are finally together, and now we are very happy. Moreover, the clearer the goal in mind, the greater the possibility of success. Once you meet, you won't miss it.