Why should I be a dink?

I live a happy, full and satisfied life now. I know all this will pass. Life will be more bitter than happy after all. Don't call me pessimistic. There is a saying, "Pessimists think it is terrible now, optimists think it will be worse." I originally wanted to raise one or two children, cultivate them into talents, and let them live a happy life and do what they like when they grow up, but I found that it took me a lot of energy and time to raise children. I am happy now, but I think time is too short and passes too fast. I don't want to be old and regret that my youth was dedicated to my children. I'm not that great. If you ask me why I want to be a dink, I can think of many answers. Anyway, all you can think of is the reason why I want to be a dink. I believe in fate, but I don't accept it. Yesterday, a fortune teller told me that I wanted to be a dink. He said that I had a child in my life, and I didn't know what to do for a while, or a friend woke up the dreamer with a word. "No fortune teller will say that my client has no children all his life." . . "That's true. I have to live for myself. I want to live a wonderful life. My child is himself, I am me, and he was born in his mother's belly. He has his own soul. If he is unhappy, I am also responsible. I didn't shirk my responsibility. I read a story: a couple gave birth to three children. The husband was found cheating by his wife, so the husband and wife divorced. This incident left a shadow on the hearts of all three children. The boss was afraid of repeating his father's mistakes and chose celibacy. The second one worked hard for decades and finally avoided educating children like his father. The third cheated and divorced like his father. This story is very interesting. Family is nothing more than these situations. The more you grow up, the more you look like same-sex parents. Happy families are all alike; Every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. Love is reincarnation, so is family. Why does love hurt? Why does home hurt people? Because people have emotional peptide needs, when we have some emotional feelings at the body level or the brain level, our hypothalamus will immediately assemble a chemical called peptide (an amino acid), which will be accepted by thousands of receptors in each cell as the blood runs to every cell in our body. As time goes on, the recipient will have a specific appetite for a certain peptide and feel hungry. So, if you are not angry for a long time, your cells will make you want to lose your temper. Therefore, with the demand for peptides, our brains will automatically filter out the information, thoughts and ideas that our cells want and attract the same things. For example, we set ourselves as a "weak, victim" role. When this kind of complex appears, everything that happens may be considered harmful to our body or mind. In fact, this is the role of "peptide", and the brain filters out the real world. After all, our bodies are used to chemical peptides. Just like taking drugs, all our negative emotions come from this. Eliminating bad emotions is like giving up drugs. Life is walking through thorns with the greatest goodwill, even if you are stabbed, you will not change your original intention. Life is meaningless. Pain is more than pleasure. Even so, you should find pleasure in pain. I would rather let a happy child play with mud than a sad child build a tall building. In fact, children nowadays can't even see the blue sky and rainbow. Son, I hope you can forgive dad. Dad thinks it is enough for a person to suffer a little.