My husband wants to divorce me because he is with college students. What should I do?

Sister Hong is definitely a model of "strong woman". She is in her early forties and is in charge of a local real estate company.

A neat short hair, wearing a fit suit, walking with wind. People like smoking, but their skin is still tender and smooth. At first glance, they spend a lot of money on their faces.

What's more, Sister Hong's husband is also very powerful. He is the owner of a famous local mining company, the president of the Municipal Chamber of Commerce and the representative of the Municipal People's Congress.

Husband and wife are evenly matched, and neither is weaker than the other. Sister Hong has got a life script that many people can't reach for a lifetime.

We always envy her, but Hong Jie said that every woman's life experience is different, and it depends on her.

Hong Jie married her husband in her early twenties, a man who came from other places to do business more than ten years older than her.

At that time, Brother Xiang, Hong Jie's husband, said it was no exaggeration to be poor. More than 30 years old, graduated from junior high school, asked for money, no money, no house, got married in my hometown and gave birth to a son.

It is such a "second-hand man" that Sister Hong insists on marrying. For this matter, Hong Jie's parents who work in a public institution directly said, "You can get married and never set foot in this home again!"

The stubborn public elder sister did not hesitate at all. She turned and moved out of the house and lived in a rental house with Brother Xiang. Pulled a marriage certificate, invited friends to dinner at home, and scribbled marriage.

Speaking of the feat of that year, Hong Jie said with a smile now that if she went back to the past, she didn't know if she had the courage to do such a thing. Everything is fate.

After marriage, Sister Hong quit her stable job and started a business from scratch with Brother Xiang. Strangely, Brother Xiang fought alone before. Why did he pay for it? Open a restaurant, open a game room, sell men's clothes, and have done nothing.

Brother Xiang, who is with Sister Hong, is very different and seems very lucky. By chance, under the matchmaking of Sister Hong's friends, Brother Xiang met a famous local mine owner.

Brother Xiang has no education, but he has good eloquence and high emotional intelligence. The words were beautiful and in place, and the mine boss was so happy that he wanted to be brothers with Xiang Ge.

Since then, Brother Xiang has set foot in the mineral industry in one step, which is arachis duranensis. My career soared and I soon became a leader in the industry.

Familiar friends all smiled and said that Sister Wang Fu and Brother Xiang had married a good wife. Brother Xiang hugged Hong Jie and said, "Yes, I have been' red' by her all my life".

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"Men become bad when they have money", and Xiang Ge, who has made a fortune, also falls into the stereotype.

As early as when the company was on the right track, Sister Hong replaced all the people close to Brother Xiang with men. The secretary, the driver, and later the nanny at home were all replaced by men. Brother Xiang's going out to do business is very eye-catching because there are always a group of men following him.

However, even if Hong Jie is careful, she can't stop a heart that wants to cheat.

Hong Jie didn't even go out in person. She knew who the other person was like the back of her hand. Volkswagen is not a sulking woman with something hidden in her heart. She has a showdown with Brother Xiang directly:

"Do you like the little girl with clear soup and dried noodles?"

"She is so simple that I have an impulse to protect her."

"Simple? What about me? What about me and my daughter? Don't you protect me? "

"You are too strong to need my protection. You are enough for my daughter. Besides, I will give her money to spend. You have been in charge of your daughter all these years, and I have done nothing. I have been busy with business. "

Oh, this guy, now he thinks I'm great. Then why didn't I feel strong when I stopped drinking for you on the wine table? At the beginning, I made amends for your soft words to customers, and I was almost bullied at home. Why do you think I am not strong?

Hong Jie didn't say these words. For two people who waded across the river and climbed the mountain together, these words are more harmful when they come out of their mouths.

To Hong Jie's surprise, she thought she was just an ordinary Yingying Yanyan, and she was going to leave after a while. Brother Xiang is planning her divorce.

Brother Xiang is very happy. He is willing to give half of his property to Sister Hong and bear all the expenses for his children to study abroad. To Hong Jie's surprise, she despises this woman who just graduated from college in her twenties. What she wants is money and people.

Hong Jie didn't agree immediately, only that it was a big event and I had to think about it. Brother Xiang naturally won't force her to remember her old love. He just wants to go to Hong Kong on business. We'll discuss it in detail when he comes back.

After finishing important business in Hong Kong, people traveling with Brother Xiang said that they should find a fortune teller to show them their future fortune. Brother Xiang scoffed. What age are you still believing in this?

People in the same trade told him to be cautious, saying that this fortune teller had been seen by many stars and was very accurate. If it wasn't introduced by familiar friends, people wouldn't show it to you at all.

Brother Xiang followed with a grain of salt. Brother Xiang was stunned by the fortune teller's words, and his heart was as turbulent as an earthquake.

Mr. Cai Yun didn't say anything about it, just saying, "You can't get a divorce. If you leave your wife, you will become poor again. Keep her, you will have money all your life. "

Brother Xiang didn't believe it at first, but when the fortune teller told him several important business nodes, he believed it. I'd rather believe it or not. There may be things in the world that even science cannot explain clearly.

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When he came back from a business trip, Brother Xiang broke up with her as soon as he got home. At first, the woman cried and made a scene. Brother Xiang shut her up with a word. "Do you want to lose money, or leave with a lot of money?" The woman took the money and left, promising never to harass Brother Xiang again.

Also shocked was Hong Jie, who never thought that the fate of the rest of her life would be affected by a fortune teller.

She also lamented that cool thin, Xiang Yu's brother, used to be her, and now she is this woman. A woman moved by emotion is far more important than money.

The awakened Hongjie came out from behind the scenes, no longer set his mind at home to be a rich woman, and started his own company. The children are growing up and their parents are in good health. It is time for her to take action for herself.

Being "Empress Wu Zetian" is better than helping men to be "emperors". This is what Sister Hong often said to us later.

Without worries and emotional fetters, plus the blessing of money, Sister Hong is still thriving even if she does cross-border business. In a few years, I became a leader in the real estate industry, even on a par with Brother Xiang.

Sister Hong didn't get divorced in the end. She is still a traditional woman at heart. In her words, she and brother Xiang have already had me in you and you in me, which hurts the bones.

If Brother Xiang fails, that's what she doesn't want to see.

But she will never put all her thoughts on Brother Xiang again. Instead of letting Brother Xiang sail her boat at the mercy of others, let her sail where she wants to go.

The story of a public elder sister often makes me feel deeply, and reminds me:

It is most important for women to keep learning and self-independence at all times.

It's not easy to take money from a man with your palm up. Similarly, it is dangerous not to earn money independently.

Even if you are a full-time mother, you can't go out to work hard for a while, even if you just graduated and earn less, you should keep your state and ability of learning and progress. That's the capital you stand on.

The most admirable thing about Hong Jie is that she never stops studying. Even if I am a wife at home, I can play mahjong and do maintenance, wasting a lot of time.

But she didn't. She studied financial management and real estate knowledge, and even studied English for many years to accompany her daughter who went abroad. All efforts are aimed at getting better.

We can't influence others' choices, but we can decide our own life.

When a young girl is in love, she will be happy because of the surprise given by her boyfriend, and she will also be upset because her boyfriend ignores herself.

But women who live to their thirties and forties will understand that women's happiness in this life is for themselves and for themselves.

The only thing I can rely on is myself. You should earn your own money, go your own way and find your own happiness. Putting your life on others is more likely to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and putting your life on yourself is far from safe.

No matter how glamorous the co-pilot is, he is not as strong as his steering wheel.

Zhang Ailing said: All women eventually have a place to live, not others, only themselves.

A woman's greatest capital is not beauty, family background or a happy marriage, but whether she has money, strength and confidence to live independently.

And these, if born, are grasped; If not, then try to get enough and fight for it. The last thing a woman should live up to in this life is herself.