I asked someone to tell my fortune yesterday, which really made me wonder where I was wrong.

This problem should be looked at separately. If mixed together, it is definitely not clear.

First of all, don't take fortune telling seriously, most of them are liars. People say he can tell fortune. Do you believe it? He said you called, so you called? Then I'm also a fortune teller. I said that your life belongs to wood, and you are doomed to have no money on you. Can you believe it?

Aside from this interference, the second one is your problem. You have been together for so many years, you should have enough basis to judge whether the personality habits of two people get along. After all, getting along is the key. Then, because you have been talking for so long, you must have started when you were still young. At that time, it was just a feeling, without considering the aspects of marriage, family and responsibility. Now it has reached a turning point, and if we continue to develop, we will certainly not escape these problems. You need to communicate, reach a consensus, make some changes for each other's future life and prepare for starting a family. Of course, responsibility and self-motivation are essential. If both sides can transform, there is no reason not to combine. If not, then you have to make other plans.