International Lunar New Year's Eve

? She, with blonde curly hair, big eyes and red lips, is a beautiful old lady at this age. She likes chatting and laughing. At first glance, she is a happy person with stories. My fate with her began with a maternal and child service agency. She is my second treasure's aunt. When the baby was asleep, she listened to her life experience intermittently, and the whole month was no longer boring because of her story.

? Her name is Nana, a foreign name beyond her time. She lived in the mountains since childhood, eating pure green delicacies and drinking clear and sweet spring water. She is elegant and gentle, nourished by beautiful nature. She said that she was feeding chickens at the door, and a young man from another town patronized her and bumped into a tree while walking. Later, the husband she married was also hit by that tree.

After getting married, she moved from one side of the mountain to the other. She still lives in the arms of the mountains. She was 18 years old that year and was born after marriage 12 years. They say she won two in three years and ten in twelve years. Hearing this sentence, my jaw is about to fall off. I can't help asking her, "How did you have so many children?" She replied, "Have a son!" Unabashedly, that era gave them the concept of raising children to prevent old age, and giving birth to sons was the first priority. She said that at that time, there was no prenatal examination and B-ultrasound, and only when the baby was born could you know the baby's gender and health status. The first one is a daughter. Since the second child, she prayed every day that the baby was a boy, one after another, all daughters. Recalling this passage, she can still see the look of loss on her face. Soon, her eyes suddenly lit up, and she proudly said, "Tenth, to tenth, I finally gave birth to a son. I finally moved to heaven. Everyone in the village came to see me. During that time, I laughed and my dimples were sour! " Having said that, she couldn't help laughing again. I was also amused by her two deep dimples.

I have always been curious to know that Aunt Nana gave birth to 10 children. Compared with so many infertility problems now, giving birth to one child a year has shocked the medical community, and raising ten children one year apart is such a huge project. !

? I can't help asking Nana menstruation every chance I get. She bit her lip and looked miserable. My heart sank: the conditions were not good before. Did the children ... My aunt's answer made me feel a little lucky, but my eyes almost fell off. She pretended to be relaxed and said, "Where can I afford it? Except for the first daughter and the last son, everyone else gave it away. " I glanced at my sleeping daughter and thought how cruel it was to give away my own flesh and blood, but I didn't see any trace of such cruelty in Nana menstruation's face and behavior. Every time she holds the baby, I feel like a grandmother. Anyway, I'm beginning to reject Aunt Nana, but I still want to hear her next story.

? She said that some children were taken away by others in the village Committee next door, and some were deliberately placed at the door of couples who could not have children. Either way, she fed the baby with her own milk and kissed the baby until she knew that the baby was safe. I felt like a knife when I gave it to someone a few times before, but then I was a little numb. I just want to get pregnant and have a son. She said that at that time, they were generally obsessed with having sons. I can't empathize with that kind of life, but I feel sad when I think of the scene of her breast-feeding the baby and saying goodbye.

? People often think that as long as they realize a certain wish, they can be happy for thousands of years. But in fact, people's desires are endless and change with the change of time and place. Nana menstruation's joy began to fade after giving birth to a child for half a year. She began to miss her secretly abandoned daughters, so she began to spy. It's almost 10 years since she left her second daughter. She finally knew the whereabouts of her six daughters, but there was no news of the other two. So she silently watched the lives of her six daughters from a distance. Until later, a great event happened at home.

In order to find out the whereabouts of two daughters, and because of the poor economic situation at home, Aunt Nana began to work. Later, an informed fellow villager told her that he had a daughter who might be in Hangzhou. So she went to Hangzhou to work, and when she saw a girl about her daughter's age, she would wonder where her two daughters were. When she first arrived here, she only knew a few words. Her first job was cooking vegetables in a canteen. She said that the salary was already very satisfactory, which was several times higher than that in the mountain village. Then she will buy gifts for two children at home and six children outside. Those children outside will only give them to others, but they will not show up. Later, she left because two chefs kept touching her.

If Aunt Nana's babies are in front, it will really be a thing of the past. At that time, China's economy was getting better and better, people's living standards were constantly improving, and many families had the demand for nannies. That was probably the first wave of nannies after the reform and opening up. Aunt Nana went to Shanghai with the crowd. Her first man was also her first lover. She said he was about her age, tall and handsome, with a pair of gold-rimmed glasses and a gentle voice. The hostess is ill in bed all the year round, and she is responsible for taking care of her. Life is so quiet, until one day the man comes back drunk, and all the stories inevitably fall into the stereotype-drunken promiscuity. At the moment she opened the door for him, he hugged her tightly and told her that he liked her and he fell in love with her at first sight. She likes him too. She said he was completely different from her husband. He is clean, he knows how to be romantic, and he is very kind to her ... in short, they are all advantages. That night, she and he gave themselves to each other in her nanny's room, enjoying each other, but also feeling guilty.

? Later, they got together at every opportunity. At that time, she seemed to taste the taste of love, although it was stolen love. He told her that he would definitely marry his sick wife when she left. However, God does not allow people to violate ethics, and will not let people who do things that violate ethics always be happy. Aunt Nana received a phone call from her hometown. Her son is ill, and so is her pimple after ten years. She said that she was shivering and went home that day. She thinks this is God's retribution for her. She prayed for God's forgiveness every day and took care of her son wholeheartedly every day. My son finally recovered, and she also broke the first extramarital affair.

I asked her if she thought it was wrong to have a good sleep with him. She probably saw that I didn't support extramarital affairs. She told me that all the women who got married as nannies in their village finally left home and married their later employers or other people in the city. She has a good sister who left her husband and children at home and married her employer. Now she eats, drinks and travels around the world every day. She said she could do it if she wanted to. Between words, she reveals a little loneliness. She said she didn't want to leave that house for her son, so she suffered all her life.

? Everyone is different, and everyone's life cannot be copied. No one has the right to criticize others. I think I am too. Even if I think what she did was wrong, I shouldn't judge with any emotion. After all, I can't understand her pain at that time, and I can't perceive her mood at that time.

? After her son recovered, she continued to be a nanny, and someone asked her to be a surrogate. The pay was amazing, but she refused. She felt that she had had enough, enough of the sadness of separation after the child came out of the womb. Life has been like this for several years. Later, under the introduction of a fellow villager, she started as a maternal and child care worker and was stationed in a large hospital. She said that the hospital has its own nurses, but most of them, like them, belong to maternal and child service companies, similar to domestic companies. The company seizes hospital resources by its own relationship. Basically, every hospital has its own stable cooperative company. Generally, a parturient can be discharged in about 3 days, and a caesarean section can be discharged in about a week. They mainly take care of pregnant women and babies during hospitalization. If pregnant women feel that their service is good, both parties agree that they can ask nurses to go home to continue their service. This is the early Yue Yue, which continues to this day, and this industry is becoming more and more popular.

? She said there were about 20 people working together at that time. They are stationed in the hospital day and night and share a room to rest. Taking care of the mother and newborn is really a day and night job. They often bite their teeth for a few days and then concentrate on sleeping all day. Therefore, most people like to be invited home by their mothers for the next month. Have a family environment, a stable salary for one month, and a certain schedule. The foreman who manages their team is a thin man in his fifties. In order to get good customers (such as young women who live in VIP delivery rooms and young women who don't have the help of the elderly, these two types of women are often more likely to ask for a new moon), they secretly buy cigarettes and snacks for the foreman, and they are also very dedicated. Once again, I am surprised that I can't tell the difference between East and West.

? It was here that Aunt Nana started the Lunar New Year. She said that she likes to take care of maternity and children, just like taking care of her own daughter and children. She especially likes taking care of baby girls. She thinks taking care of them will make her atone. Every time she takes care of one more person, her sin will be reduced by one point. Probably because of this heart, she is very popular with pregnant women. Many years later, she met a young woman who lived in a VIP delivery room, and there was no one to accompany her except for the brief appearance of her father. Because of knowing her, Aunt Nana started another relationship.

? After taking care of their mother and son for six months and preparing for immigration, the hostess begged Aunt Nana to go with her at a high salary. She said yes. When handling passports and visas, she needed a marriage certificate, and she actually bought a fake certificate to deal with it. Can fake marriage certificates really be used? ! His chin was closed long ago and he gave birth to ten children. She hasn't got a marriage certificate for so many years. Why? She said that when she first got together, she was under the legal age of marriage. Later, she had a child and has been busy giving birth to a son. In addition, a fortune teller said that her husband could not get married, so they have been illegal couples for decades. She and her employer flew to Australia on the other side of the ocean, saying that they were a family, but in fact they were the hostess and son, and the male host came once a month or more. Later, I learned that the male host is an executive of the provincial TV station and the female host is his mistress. Things that seemed unreasonable before have meaning after learning the truth.

She spent a happy time with her mother and son in a big villa in Australia. Her good cooking has won several friends for the hostess, and her life is more lively than that in China. Good times are fleeting. Five months passed in a blink of an eye. She holds a tourist visa. The longest tourist visa is in the United States and Australia, usually half a year, and the longest stay is 12 months. The hostess thought it over for her, married to the local area, got a green card, and didn't have to fly back to China every six months to apply for a new visa. The hostess paid several thousand yuan for her as a member of the matchmaking agency. Their goal is to find people who understand Chinese. Just like there must be brave people under the reward, the expensive membership fee did not live up to their expectations. The matchmaking agency found them a fat old man who knew Chinese for nothing. Aunt Nana actually started an extramarital affair again (because she didn't get a marriage certificate). After finishing the housework, she walked hand in hand with the fat old man and visited the supermarket. The old man is full of interest in her body every day. She called 10-year-old son and said that she would live with her in Australia. The son resolutely refused. She cares so much about her son that he doesn't agree. How can she marry abroad without permission? !

? Or a phone call changed all her plans and fate. Or her family was ill, this time it was her husband, and her visa was coming, so she flew back to China. My husband is in hospital with severe pneumonia. After treatment and careful nursing, he was soon discharged from the hospital. I have to leave again, and my husband begged her to get a marriage certificate before leaving. Maybe her husband felt something or predicted something Because she also needs a marriage certificate to apply for a visa, she agreed. She flew to the other side of the ocean. A few months later, she received the news that her husband was critically ill. She said that husband and wife are grateful for a hundred days. Although they got together less and separated more later, she remembered that when they first got together, she braided two braids. He wore military green coarse cloth and rode their most expensive property, the permanent brand bicycle. They still have a good time.

? She flew back to China again and learned that her husband had cancer. She was in great pain. She blamed herself for not listening to the fortune teller and got a marriage certificate from him. No amount of regret can stop death. She decided to do something to make her husband feel more comfortable. She is going to look for her pearls scattered around the world. Eight pearls find seven, and adoptive parents are reasonable. Seven daughters came back to visit their dying father, and the last eight daughters and 1 son attended his father's funeral. This kind of ending should be considered lucky in misfortune.

? I couldn't restrain my curiosity and asked her to show me her daughter's photo. Among them are fitness instructors, nail shop owners, pet shop owners and salespeople. Their big eyes are exactly like Aunt Nana's, just like a gift from God, just to recognize each other one day.

? Speaking of children, Aunt Nana is happy. She said that children will contact each other now. They also have a WeChat group. My son has always been a good boy, and now he works at the airport. After listening to the story, the service period of one and a half months is up. My aunt chatted with me while knitting a sweater. In a month and a half, she knitted two wool hats, two wool dresses, two pairs of wool shoes and a wool coat for the baby. When she left, she held the baby with tears in her eyes and whispered to the baby: sleep well, eat grandma well and grow up healthily!

? Later, I introduced Aunt Nana to my friends. The friend said: She is nothing like an aunt. She is a very happy person, and she needs such an aunt in the next month. Besides, Aunt Nana is in love. What will this love road be like? Aunt Nana, bless you!