The divorce rate is getting higher and higher. What effect does parents' divorce have on their children?

Divorce has a great influence on children. Children themselves rely on trust and worship their parents. Once parents divorce, children are very unacceptable. If the child's feelings are ignored in this process, I think it will leave a shadow on the child's psychology, leading to the child's withdrawn and introverted personality. From marriage to having children, we have to pay a lot and give our children a lot of love in order to cultivate excellent children. However, divorce is the breakdown of love, and it is conceivable that it will not have a good influence on children. Whether it is the lack of fatherly love or maternal love, it is a lack.

It doesn't feel the same as a normal family. The mouthing of people around you will also lead to children's inner fragility and sensitivity, and over time they will feel inferior and unconfident. If you don't get good guidance, it is very likely that your child will eventually become bad. Many children whose parents are divorced have some distrust or fear of marriage when they get married. Compared with children from non-divorced families, they are more anxious about marital conflicts and more eager for a happy marriage, because their parents are unhappy in marriage. Fear of marriage is also due to parents' unfortunate marriage and fear of stepping into their parents' old path. Children whose parents are divorced are relatively unsuccessful in starting a business. Many children from divorced families either become withdrawn, introverted and closed, or become extremely insecure and rebellious. These personality characteristics seriously hinder children's professional development.

The contradiction between parents is inevitable, just like when we are alone, we will have our own unhappy times, and when we are entangled, it is because we have not communicated and listened well. If the relationship between husband and wife can't be maintained, it's better to face it frankly. Arguing about children on the eve of divorce is more likely to aggravate children's guilt. Parents who choose to separate should correctly guide their children and clearly tell them that separation of parents does not mean separation of children. It is necessary to repeatedly tell children his importance in the family, so that children can understand their position in their parents' hearts and understand that parents will never abandon themselves, thus creating a sense of security. Let children grow up healthily in love even in single-parent families.