My boyfriend and I have been in love for two years, but the fortune teller said that it was not good after we got married together. Should we believe in fortune telling?

Fate depends on a lot of information, all of which is uncertain. Besides, most people are ugly and accurate, and they mislead themselves. Does fate exist? Of course it exists, and it can be changed through our efforts. The Four Disciplines is a book about moral cultivation. The author, Yuan Lefan of the Ming Dynasty, was written at the age of 69. The author tells the story of changing fate with his own personal experience. If you hit the book, you will get fame and longevity, but if you don't hit the child, you will get two children. There are books, movies and TV plays. You can find it on the Internet. Only good and evil can break through fate. When doing anything, good will increase and evil will decrease. Even if good people suffer temporarily, the blessing of the whole fate will increase, and it will increase a lot. Evil is just the opposite. If you can control everything and do good deeds, you are not mortal, so you can make the gods cry. Of course, this needs to be practiced slowly. The so-called mind cultivation is to cultivate this. The better a person is, the better his luck will be, and the fate of extremely good people will not be bound. ......

Everyone's fate is different. Some people have a thick marriage, while others have a thin marriage. It is easy for fat people to get married, but it is difficult for thin people to get married. People who are not married can't get married. But this is not certain. Personal behavior will affect marriage and fate. Two people can get married because the blessings are equal. Of course, this kind of equality is not necessarily completely equal. Is in a range, there is room for up and down activities. This is why some people have a thick marriage and some people have a thin marriage. The allowable range of fat people is wider, and the allowable range of thin people is narrower. Only in this range can they match fate. Any party who does something detrimental to his happiness will affect the fate of his marriage, so his behavior is very important. Marriage is a kind of happiness because we get happiness from it. All blessings are consumables, just like life span. When they run out, they will be gone, so some people will divorce because the blessings are exhausted. It is for this reason that any behavior that harms the happiness of marriage before marriage will affect marriage, such as premarital sex. If you feel happy in premarital sex, you will consume this happiness. Similarly, reading Pulp Fiction CD books, peeking at beautiful women and handsome men in the street, wearing sexy clothes and swearing will consume the happiness of marriage. Of course, all the happiness consumed is. In addition, watching romance novels and dramas will also advance feelings and consume the blessings of their marriage. Therefore, if you read too many novels, don't blame the other half for not being romantic, because you put your feelings ahead of time and you are empty. When you lose too much happiness, it goes beyond the scope of marriage, and the original fate is unequal and broken. And people in marriage are prone to divorce. Cohabitation before marriage is very harmful to marriage. Many people think it's nothing. It's a social atmosphere, but it's actually harmful. Many people live together before marriage, then the same two people can get married. That's because they have this fate and equal interests. The benefits of cohabitation before marriage are also equal, so they will still get married, but it is not good for both of them. If their marriage is thin, it will not be easy to maintain it. However, if the object of premarital sex is not the person you are destined to have, this loss will be great, because your own happiness will be lost, and if the person you are destined to have is not lost, it will be difficult to wait for each other, and this fate will be easily broken. Premarital sex is the most harmful to marriage. Of course, some personal behaviors, such as masturbation, are also very harmful to marriage. Of course, it depends on the thickness of the marriage between two people. The marriage between two people is really thick. They have been married for several generations and can bear the consumption, but it is harmful. Some people's marriage for generations is too indulgent before marriage, and they can't even get married, thus consuming blessings. Therefore, premarital sex, masturbation, watching Pulp Fiction CDs and spreading pornographic materials are all harmful to happiness and marriage. Of course, if a person's fate is damaged or broken, it can be remedied, that is, trying to repair the blessings of these losses. First of all, you must control yourself in your private life. This is fundamental, and we must admit our mistakes from the heart. If there is no repentance in our hearts, the effect of remedy is not great. There are many articles about repentance on the Internet for reference. At the same time, try to persuade others to stay away from lewdness, spread articles in this field, and help others stay away from lewdness. The more help, the more increase. Report pornographic websites, improve your ideological realm and increase your blessings. The more you have, the higher the other half you may combine with. Of course, controlling yourself in your private life is fundamental. Without this, it is difficult for others to work. If you feel that fate is broken, or you want to get married, you can worship Guanyin, and Guanyin can arrange marriage, because there are actually many people in this world who are equal to us, but many people don't have this fate to meet. Worship avalokitesvara, and bodhisattva will arrange such a fate. Read Guanyin Bodhisattva more often when you have nothing to do, so that the Bodhisattva can feel it. Just as we foreigners miss our mother, we can feel it with a little more sincerity, and so can we miss Bodhisattva. As long as you sincerely read, worship and beg, combine with regulating your own behavior, accumulate virtue and do good deeds, you will get it. Respect and sincerity are the most important things, not how much money and incense are burned, but where respect and sincerity are reflected. Of course, when worshipping Bodhisattva, we must respect and truly believe in this power. Also, it is reflected in one's own behavior, truly abandoning evil and doing good, which is called true respect and sincerity. Now many people don't understand this truth. Just blindly worship Buddha, burn incense, donate money, but do not regulate their own behavior, can not do real respect, so it is not very clever. Some people feel refreshed, and many people are predestined, not desirable. Of course, people in marriage must also cherish these blessings, and don't indulge too much, because they are all consuming blessings. The more indulgent they are, the more they spend, and the easier it is for them to get divorced. Just as foreign countries advocate sexual openness, their marriage is in a mess. At present, many couples in their forties in our country hate each other, which is generally related to the openness of sexual concepts since the reform and opening up. A respectful marriage is the easiest to last.