Online fortune telling says that people who care too much are not good at calculating their own lives.

Isn't a person who cares about himself a sincere person?

In fact, people who love you seriously are not necessarily people who are not sincere to themselves, because serious love and sincerity are two different things. Being earnest is personality problem, and sincerity is an emotional problem. This is a different concept on two different issues, so people who love you seriously may not be sincere to you, and people who don't love you seriously may not be sincere to you. We must think dialectically and treat some things rationally. For example, my wife is a very serious person. Even if she knows some little things in life, she will seize this matter and tell you again and again 123, but I can feel that my wife is really treating me well. In addition, I think if you want to see whether a person is sincere to you, you should pay attention to the following points:

1, is it true to you?

First of all, it depends on whether this person is sincere to you. In fact, I don't know how to define the word sincerity, but if we put our hearts into it, we can easily understand it, so we should put our hearts into some ways that this person treats you. If he is sincere to you, he must be sincere. Of course, if not, then I suggest you stay away from him.

2. Is it about credit?

If a person treats you sincerely, then this person must be loyal to you, because treating a person sincerely will pay special attention to his credibility in your heart, and it is impossible to break his word casually. So as long as we carefully observe whether this person is sincere to you at ordinary times, we can feel whether he is sincere or not.

Will it help you when you are in trouble?

The last point, which I think is more important, is whether this person will help you when you are in trouble. If he is willing to lend you a helping hand when you are really in trouble, it is probably sincere to you, but on the contrary, it is probably not sincere, because no one will watch his best friend in trouble and not help.