How to turn a negative attitude into a positive attitude?

Are you still sad? Do you still have some unpleasant things to worry about? Is your life still listless? Actually, it's all because there's a lock in your heart that hasn't been opened. Opening your heart is actually beside you. You are unhappy because there is a lock that locks your happiness tightly and makes you lose your way. The trick I'm talking about is actually not a trick. It depends on your heart. I hope you can get rid of your troubles after reading it. If you have troubles and unhappiness in your heart, I hope you can read it several times and really understand the mystery.

But not everyone can look at the people and things that pass by with such relief, and then be grateful, right? After all, we are all human.

I like this statement! ! A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. That's probably the truth, right?

An interesting management story: enemies and benefactors Author: Liu Yong, please share it with you! ! !

When I just graduated from college, a TV company asked me to host a special program. The program director read my article well, let me make it up. However, when I paid the money at the end of the program, the director not only did not give me the director's fee, but also deducted half of my hosting fee.

He handed me the receipt and said, "You signed for 1600 yuan, but because the program was overdrawn, I can only give you 800 yuan." I didn't say anything at that time, so I signed it, thinking, "It's not too late for a gentleman to take revenge for ten years." Later, the director asked me again, and I helped him do it several times.

The last time, he didn't deduct my money, and he became very polite to me, because at that time I was attracted by the news department of the TV company and suddenly became a TV reporter and news anchor. We often met in the company later, and he smiled a little embarrassed every time.

I once wanted to sue him, but as my high school classmate produced, could I be today without him? If I can't stand breathing, can I still get the chance to host? He gave me a chance. He is my noble man. He has made a mistake. Why should I take revenge?

Later, I went to study in America. One day, a classmate who was already employed complained to me that his American boss "ate" him, not only underpaid him, but also deliberately delayed his application for a green card (US residency).

At that time, I told him: "It is better for such a bad boss not to do it. But how can you work so long? You always have to learn more before you jump ship, so you have to learn secretly. "

He listened to me, not only worked overtime every day, but also stayed to memorize the writing of those business documents. Even how to deal with the copier, I take notes next to the workers, so that I can go out and start my own business one day and save some repair costs.

Half a year later, I asked him if he had any plans to change jobs. He actually smiled: "No! My boss is very impressed with me now. I got a promotion and a raise, and my green card is coming down soon. The boss also asked me why my attitude can change 180 degrees. Become so positive? "

The injustice in his heart disappeared, and he took revenge, but in another way, he introspected, but in fact he didn't work hard.

About five years ago! An interesting thing happened to me.

An old friend suddenly learned to tell fortune. He learned astrology from his birthday, Wei Zi and his name. He didn't study it. Of course he doesn't think fortune telling is effective, but he wants to prove that fortune telling is a lie.

The reason is that a very famous master told his fortune, and he will not live to be 47 years old. He vowed to smash the master's signboard.

Guess what? He was afraid of Yu, because he found that he would not live long after all.

At this time, he changed. He went to charity and said, "I won't live long anyway." Make good use of the remaining years and do something meaningful. " He is very active, and everyone says he has changed, from an anxious snob to a gentle and loving gentleman.

Unconsciously passed 47, 48, and now 53, radiant and full of vitality, living healthier than anyone else. "You can smash that master's signboard!" I made fun of him.

His eyes lit up and he answered me, "Why?" He smiled again: "If that man hadn't warned me, according to my previous personality, I would have had a heart attack at the age of 47, and he wouldn't allow it!" "

Dear young friends! Do you like to fight bravely? Do you always have grievances? Do you have "this hatred is not reported to the non-gentleman?"

A little experience

You know, [enemy, enemy] ... can [inspire] your [potential] and become your [noble]. You should also know that many grievances and grievances are actually your own problems.

You should also know that the best revenge in the world is to make yourself successful with that injustice, treat your enemies with that success and [after success], and turn them into friends.

When it's "revenge" and "win-win", it can be "win-win" to smile when you meet. Isn't it the greatest success in life? Is it true: if you are right, your world is right?

To those who know how to "cherish"

1: meet someone who really loves … and strive for the opportunity to spend a lifetime with him …! Because when he left, it was too late!

2. When you meet a trustworthy friend … get along with him …! Because it's really not easy to meet someone who knows you in one's life!

When you meet an important person in your life … remember to be grateful … because he is a turning point in your life …!

4. When you meet someone you once loved … remember to thank him with a smile, because he made you know more about love …!

5: When you meet someone you once hated … greet him with a smile … because he makes you stronger …!

When you meet someone who betrayed you … talk to him … because if it weren't for him … you wouldn't understand the world today …!

7: I met someone I once secretly loved … I wish him happiness …! Because when you like him … don't you want him to be happy?

8. When you meet someone who left your life in a hurry … thank him for walking through your life … because he is a part of your good memories …!

When you meet someone who has misunderstood you … you should clarify the misunderstanding now … because you may only have this chance to explain it clearly …!

10: when you meet a person who is with you all your life … thank him 100% for loving you … because you both get happiness and true love …

I wish you can get rid of your troubles and let happiness accompany you.

Both Buddhism and Christianity use the same principle to bring lost people to heaven. I don't believe in these religions here, but I hope to bring troubled and lost friends from all walks of life to a happy world. There is an old saying: Laugh for ten years, and worry turns white. I hope all the friends here will live younger, healthier and live longer.