Remember that sick Yang Lijuan who chased Andy Lau? What happened when my father forced him to kill himself?

What is the meaning of being born as a human being? I believe this is a question of many people. For students, the meaning of life is to study hard and achieve something; For teachers, the meaning of life is to teach and educate people and cultivate a better next generation; For mothers, the meaning of life lies in raising children and watching them grow up; For researchers, the meaning of life lies in working hard on research and development projects and making greater achievements. .....

Life is alive, different identities, and different meanings are pursued. Some people have devoted their lives to mankind and finally won the praise of future generations. Others lost their way for a while, took a wrong step, and finally regretted their lives.

On March 26th, 2007, a middle-aged man committed suicide by jumping into the sea. He thought it was just a simple suicide case, but the deceased left a suicide note cursing actor Andy Lau, bringing this crazy family in idolization into people's sight.

Sick family

1978, Yang Lijuan was born in an ordinary family in Lanzhou City, Gansu Province. Although her family is poor, her parents still love her very much.

She fully realized the love her parents gave her when she was very young. Because there is only one only daughter in the family, she is the apple of everyone's eye.

She said east, parents never go west; She wants stars and her parents will never pick the moon for her. Yang Lijuan, who grew up in this family environment, has never experienced any hardships in her life. It can be said that she was taken care of by her parents since she was a child.

In this way, Yang Lijuan began to go to school. During school, her personality was also hated by many classmates.

She was born spoiled and never knew what comity was. Talking is always yelling, cocky and condescending. Therefore, Yang Lijuan has few good friends at school.

The teacher doesn't like this student either. She doesn't like studying, is lazy and is late for class, which is a common occurrence for her.

For this reason, the teachers didn't talk to Yang Lijuan's parents, but Yang Lijuan's parents doted on her more than the importance of educating her children.

Faced with the teacher's accusation, they always promised to educate their children and go home. As long as Yang Lijuan makes trouble, they have no choice but to let her go. Because of this, Yang Lijuan's teachers are helpless to this sick family.

Yang Lijuan's laziness in study continued until high school. One night, she suddenly dreamed of Andy Lau, a star who had just become popular at that time. In her dream, Andy Lau was tall, handsome and gentle. Suddenly captured the heart of this 16-year-old girl. From then on, she fell madly in love with Andy Lau and even asked her parents to drop out of school.

At first, parents didn't agree with their daughter dropping out of school to become an idol. Although they love their daughter, they have not lost the reason that normal people should have. They know that reading is the only way to change their lives.

However, Yang Lijuan grew up in a honeypot, and naturally he wanted to make a difference. She has never been opposed by her parents before, and when her temper comes up, naturally a few cows can't be pulled back.

When her parents didn't agree, she went on a hunger strike at home. Parents who love their daughters too much have to compromise and agree to idolize their daughters. As everyone knows, this is the beginning of the nightmare.

Houses/homes are in ruins, and family members are dead or scattered.

1997, Yang Lijuan signed up for a Hong Kong tour group to see Andy Lau.

At that time, the cost of this tour group was 9900 yuan. In those days, 9900 yuan was a considerable sum. Faced with her daughter's stubbornness, Yang's parents chose to compromise.

But where does the money come from? Parents took out all their savings. But Yang Lijuan was disappointed. She didn't see Andy Lau.

In 2003, this situation became more and more serious in idolatry. In order to help her daughter realize her dream, her parents sold their house and moved into a monthly rental house in 400 yuan.

This year, Andy Lau came to Gansu to shoot world without thieves, and Yang Lijuan looked for idols everywhere, but he couldn't find them. In 2005, Yang Lijuan even spent huge sums of money to find paparazzi to buy Andy Lau's address, and went to Hongkong to find Andy Lau for the second time, but it was still unsuccessful.

In 2006, the family was surrounded by idolization, but the daughter still didn't realize her dream. My father really decided to sell her kidney. He sold a kidney for a sum of money to help her meet Andy Lau.

God helps those who help him. Finally, on March 25th, 2007, Yang Lijuan met Andy Lau. But it is this short-lived side that has become an eternal nightmare in her heart.

In the same year, Andy Lau resolutely condemned Yang Lijuan's morbid behavior and publicly stated: "Never see Yang Lijuan again!"

On March 26th, 2007, Yang Lijuan's father committed suicide by jumping into the sea because he could not bear the burden of his family. He left a suicide note cursing Andy Lau and jumped into the sea, which awakened Yang Lijuan's morbid dream for many years.

When she came to her senses, she found that after so many years, she had already broken her family. But regret is useless. When my father died, my mother went through many vicissitudes. It is too late.

The current situation in Yang Lijuan

It's been 13 years since the famous Yang Lijuan incident, and Yang Lijuan is no longer opinionated. Since her father died, she has repented and is determined to work with peace of mind and support her mother.

Today, Yang Lijuan is engaged in shopping guide work in supermarkets. Although the salary is not high, I can barely cope with the life with my mother. The mother and daughter now live in low-rent housing, with an annual rent of 1000 yuan, but only 80 yuan shares the money every month. Mother and daughter live together. It's safe.

Yang Lijuan bluntly said that he would still be "shocked" when he heard Andy Lau's songs, but he had made a big mistake, and his father's death was an indisputable fact. If I could go back in time, I would never do that again.

If her father is still alive, she hopes to get his forgiveness. At the beginning, she was not sensible enough to spoil her parents' love at will. What she can do now is to support her mother.

When I was young, everyone made mistakes to varying degrees. Some are small mistakes that can be corrected immediately, and some are big mistakes that you will regret for a lifetime. No matter what happens, as long as you repent, coming into this world is not a waste. Yang Lijuan made a big mistake, which made her pay for it. Now she has gradually faded out of the public eye and started to live her own life again. For her, idolization is the whole meaning of her life, but from the moment she wakes up, the rest of her life is destined to be spent in real stability.