Jing: What makes a 24-year-old boy fall in love with a 40-year-old woman?

40-year-old woman is a flower. Although she is no longer in her prime, she is still charming, virtuous and generous. A 40-year-old woman may not be as charming as a little girl, but she knows better that if she captures a man's heart, she will be more considerate and take care of her family ... But no matter how wonderful it is, it is hard for us to imagine that a 24-year-old normal boy will fall in love with a 40-year-old woman, and she is not a rich woman, let alone a famous actress or writer. She is just a big sister who is quickly drowned when walking in the crowd; /kloc-mother of a 0/7-year-old girl; An ordinary person who divorced very early and had a low income. And this 24-year-old boy who is madly in love with her has gone to college, joined the army, talked about love, is in good health, has a job, a stable income, a house and a deposit ... The man's biological mother is only in her early 40 s! This kind of thing can happen in TV series and novels, but when it really happens around us, I still can't let it go and face it calmly. This is not social news. It can be said that I watched this man grow up. I fed him when he was a child. His parents were very young when they gave birth to him, and they divorced a few years later, so the little boy was almost brought up by his grandmother. Although his grandmother took good care of him, after all, there was no complete family, which brought some negative effects to the children more or less. But he is polite to people and to our sisters and aunts. He has an independent and complete life, professional skills, tall and handsome, and can be said to be a good choice for little girls. Then the woman on TV shouted unscrupulously, "I'd rather cry in a sports car than laugh behind a bicycle!" " "A variety of lofty sentiments! Think about how happy Maggie Cheung was when he was sitting on Dawn's bike in the movie. How many people in our time are crying for Li Xiang's departure? I said: you can talk in private, but you also said on TV that you don't know how powerful the media is! As a result, it has become a declaration of mate selection for many girls. I have always been naive to think that all the propaganda on TV is positive and romantic love. What's more interesting is that those MTVs, men, don't want to shave, and they wear a vest and wriggle around every day; Women don't even want to wear vests! Alas! Are we too simple? Now I'm used to living together before marriage, getting married and divorced, and suddenly I have to try to accept a little man in his early twenties falling in love with a woman who can be his mother. Moreover, people still love each other, so much so that they run away from home, so much so that they don't want their mother or grandmother. On the contrary, many people don't understand why I have so many children. To put it bluntly, I am a fertility machine. I don't understand. Isn't this the case with thousands of years of culture in China? Fall in love with someone, hold the child's hand, take care of the child after marriage, honor the elders and care for the younger generation. Aren't these the most important and crucial things in moral class? As a government, we should have enough soldiers, enough food and enough people's trust! And soldiers can be short, food can be short, but people's hearts must be there! Strengthening everyone with a small family is the foundation of the country. Only when everyone leads a good life can the country become bigger and stronger.