Master, help me find out. I believe in Buddhism. I want to know why my husband and I always quarrel.

Hello, senior brother, the quarrel between husband and wife has nothing to do with the eight characters. It should be said that this is the result of your joint efforts. The Tibetan Scripture says: If you have a bad mouth, you should report it to your family. Buddhists must believe in cause and effect, and the Tibetan scriptures make it very clear that the reason for family quarrels is the crime of bad mouth. A bad mouth is insulting and hurting others with words. Buddhists must know the function and power of repentance, and only repentance can eliminate the evil consequences. Quarrel with your husband, no matter who is right or wrong, it must be your fault first, because you don't quarrel, can he quarrel with you? Will he look down on you if you are soft-hearted? When something goes wrong, do you confess that you didn't do it well first, or accuse your husband of not doing it well first? Which method can solve the problem better? I believe you will solve all the problems satisfactorily.