What does "strong" mean? What are the performances of strength?

The strong are attacked by resentment and the weak are helped. Maybe it's because you never show weakness. Did you ask someone for help and say thank you? Do you like the habit of dealing with everything by yourself? Do you have different opinions when chatting with others? Do you always argue and never give in? In fact, being strong but not weak is not a good thing. Too strong is easy to fold, too strong is easy to brittle. Follow-up: I don't like showing weakness in society. I like to finish my work and things alone, because I think it is better to rely on others than on myself, but I will definitely say thank you when I ask others for help. I am still polite. I won't argue with other people's different views, but I will express my own. Answer: Sorry, there is a slight misunderstanding. I said that sentence together. The main meaning is that you should always ask others to help you with some small things. This is a sign of weakness, which will dilute others' views on your strength and win others' favor at the same time. If you can guarantee that others will help you finish ten small things every day, it won't take long for you to change others' impression of you. Follow-up: it doesn't matter, I didn't care, I just stated the facts. Actually, I think what you said is quite similar. I will help a lot, but they will think that my ability is far from my age. I don't ask much for other people's manual work or work. I don't know if showing weakness will make people feel that they need protection. If I do it myself, will my colleagues and boyfriends feel that they are strong? Answer: this is the key, so I let you show weakness. Because I judge that you are too independent, it will cause a certain gap between you and others. There is a cloud in "Three Views": I am greedy and strong. . . Everyone likes to be competitive, which is one of human nature. If you show weakness and let them help you, they will have a great sense of accomplishment and will naturally have a good impression on you. Follow-up: So this is the so-called strength. No wonder he wants to leave. Facts have proved that this is still the case. I just don't want to disturb others. I just want to reduce unnecessary troubles myself, fearing that I am a burden. I don't understand how much I have paid and how much I have returned. Answer: Hehe, people who want to leave will leave sooner or later, and the other party may not understand you. Especially for your boyfriend, if you make your own decisions and handle everything yourself, he will feel useless and redundant. I can not help you with anything. It is very necessary and most effective to show weakness in this respect. Because mutual help between people can enhance feelings, it is more subtle for boys and girls to help each other. Questioner's speech: Thank you.