"It is not necessarily a good thing that parents are still alive in their eighties." Why do many people believe this fallacy?

No one around me has the saying that it is not necessarily a good thing that parents are still alive in their eighties. It is said that it is a treasure to have a long-lived old man at home. There is an old man who is eighty or ninety years old, and his neighbors all envy him. If there are people who really believe in the above fallacies and heresies, they are uneducated and inhuman people, extremely selfish people in their hearts, and people who are condemned by thousands of people!

As long as you are healthy, it is a good thing. Why don't you try? A sick old man who can't take care of himself can bring down a family, especially those whose children are old and sick. This is the truth, don't engage in moral kidnapping, and be objective in everything.

Some people here also say: if you don't die at the age of 30, your hometown is not prosperous. It is also said that old people who live too long will be blessed by future generations. Of course, this is groundless and nonsense. But I think it still depends on the physical condition of the elderly. If the old man is in poor health, even if he is ill in bed, living is torture. The old man lives without any dignity and is miserable. If you want to be served by future generations and even drag down the family, what good is it to live? Besides, parents are over 80 years old, children are over 60, and children are about to be raised. Isn't this an added burden to their grandchildren? If the old man is healthy, he can take care of himself. I'm getting old, too.

It's the first time I've heard the saying that "my parents are still alive in their eighties", but I often hear the saying that "an ancient family is better than a treasure".

Parents are here, and home is here. When my parents died, so did my home. I have a deep understanding of this. I work outside and take time to visit my 80-year-old mother every week. Later, my mother passed away. I remember the first time I went home, I didn't see my old mother, and I was particularly lost. So I ran to my mother's grave and cried. My sister-in-law advised me to go home, and I left after dinner. Since then, the old rule of going home every week has disappeared, and I seldom go home. Without my mother, I feel I have no home. I remember once going to my 80-year-old sister's house, and she told me that she just missed her mother. "Me too," I said.

Today, I saw the fallacy that it is not necessarily a good thing that my parents are still alive in their eighties. Many people still believe it. This is impossible! Can't say that absolutely no one believes it. I think there are very few people who believe this fallacy, even one percent or one thousandth.

My parents are still alive in their eighties, which means they can take care of themselves. Some old people don't like being idle. Don't you think it's great to do a small business and stand on your own feet, be free from diseases and disasters, not add chaos to your children, and have a round and happy family on holidays? What, isn't that a good thing?

Question, where did you hear such nonsense as "My parents are still alive in their eighties, which is not necessarily a good thing"?

Especially when you even said that "many people" believe this fallacy. Where did you get the conclusion that there are many people?

To be honest, I have never heard of this statement, and I have not found that "many people" will believe it.

There is an old saying in China that "having an old man at home is still a treasure", which makes sense. It's a good thing to have an old man alive at home. Why is it a bad thing? This is indeed a fallacy.

I even wonder if this is your own imaginary grandstanding fallacy.

What's more, as you said yourself, the key is that the old people are still alive and healthy. Why is this not a good thing?

If there are old people at home who are not healthy, it is really not a good thing to get sick here today and there tomorrow.

However, as long as the old people are still alive, whether they are 80 years old, 90 years old or 100 years old, it is a good thing. I sincerely wish all the old people in the world a long and healthy life.

My mother left at the age of 84 and my father left at the age of 82. I want to ask, today is Mother's Day. It hurts you to ask this question. May mother live a healthy life in the spirit of heaven.

Don't persuade others to be kind until they have suffered. Parents' longevity is not necessarily a good thing. My parents are eighty or ninety years old, and I am too old to take care of the elderly. If the family's economic conditions permit, you can afford a nanny and a nursing home. Otherwise, life at home is a mess, and without a good life, the quality of life of the whole family will be pulled down at once.

Birth, old age, illness and death are natural laws. The longevity of human beings will bring a heavy burden to families and even the whole society, which will drag down the development of society. Old people are sick, live too long, and suffer longer. Without the quality of life, living is also suffering. From this perspective, it is not a good thing to live longer than others.

Now that living conditions are good, the average life expectancy in China has reached 75 years, and people aged 80-90 are very common. People who say such things are inhuman! Are you looking forward to your parents' early death and don't want to live to be 80 years old?

Old people are too old, which is really not a good thing for everyone! My mother is eighty years old and her brain has degenerated for ten years. Basically what happened a few minutes ago will soon be forgotten. She is also in pain, and she uses swearing all day to release her emotions. I looked for a nanny, and there were more than a dozen before and after. They all said that someone had stolen her things. Now I take care of her and insist on not living with us, so besides going to work, I have to find time to deliver three meals a day, walk for three hours every day, and bear the accusation that she can't find anything and says you stole it. Going out is to pick up leaves. In a few days, she will throw them all away, otherwise it will be unsafe. Often incontinence, the old mother is very painful. She has been a soldier for more than 30 years and a doctor all her life. Now, can you say that life is happiness? When you are old, you are conscious and active, and you will be happy. If you live a life you hate, you are joking with me!

For six years in a row, our community has held "Caring for the elderly, taking action" activities, inviting elderly people over 80 years old to watch the performance and distributing rice flour oil to each elderly person on the spot. Enterprises and self-employed individuals in the area are also competing to donate money and materials.