What does Xiao Kan mean by wealth _ Xiao Kan

My true story, the first time I went to visit relatives in Sichuan, I went alone and only knew the names of counties and towns. Out of the hotel in the evening, get up in the morning and hit the road. When I was about to walk out of the street, I looked at a restaurant and thought that if I didn't eat something, I might have nowhere to eat. So I went out and walked into the restaurant. When I was reporting the meal, two more people came. After the meal, we got off the bus. After a short silence, one of them asked me, "You are a foreigner, aren't you?"? What are you doing here? " I hesitated for a moment and said I was visiting relatives. He asked me where I was going and the name of that person. . It turned out that he happened to be the uncle of that relative! This alone is no coincidence. Coincidentally, later his relatives came to my house and asked me the way on the way. I happened to meet them asking for directions when I was walking home from other places. Coincidence or invisibility? There is another even more incredible thing related to this relative, let's not talk about it for a while.

My mother grew up in the war when she was a child, and it was not easy to go to primary school for two years in the rural areas of Jiangnan water town. When I was in primary school, my mother taught me to write two words, which are still vivid in my mind, and that is "university". At that time, I was young and had no concept of university at all. At that time, I was in the Cultural Revolution, and the college entrance examination had not resumed. It is impossible for rural children to go to college. However, the word "university" has been deeply branded in my heart and lingering.

In high school, the national college entrance examination resumed. At that time, students generally spent their time fighting, because the whole society was advocating the theory that reading was useless, and the foundation was very poor. Nevertheless, with the revolutionary spirit of "I'm not afraid of hardship, and I'm not afraid of death", I made up for my loss and successfully entered the university.

The moment I got the admission notice, I seemed to be dreaming. Is it really because my mother taught me to write the word "university" when I was a child that a rural child can really enter the university one day? Isn't it predestined that fate cares so much for me?

The education we have received since childhood and the things we have experienced will be unconsciously internalized into the subconscious. All human behaviors are driven by the subconscious mind.

The subconscious is a very strange thing. Although invisible and intangible, it will quietly take root and sprout in your heart. He will follow the law of the development of things and guide our actions without hesitation. Once the conditions are ripe, he will show great vitality.

It is not so much something destined as a subconscious that seems to dominate us.

Beautiful things often make us think about things during the day and dream at night. This common phenomenon is a positive psychological suggestion. Maybe you want to find someone you like, maybe you want to create more wealth, maybe you want to realize better life value. These positive things will be branded in your subconscious through constant psychological hints, and they will linger.

The subconscious is a beacon tower in the distance. Although its light is flickering, it always allows us to find the way forward at critical moments.

I hope everyone can get their place and their dreams come true. Somehow, fate will give us the best arrangement.

I have a little faith. My husband and I are predestined. It stands to reason that we can't have an intersection. He graduated from normal school and became a teacher. I won't study until I graduate from high school. But it was because the receiving address was written too much that the admission notice was sent back, and then the school verified it before sending it! At this time, I thought there was no hope. My father asked me to be a substitute teacher, and I was admitted to the same school as my husband. I often think that this is the arrangement for us to meet.

Destiny is not without reason. Some things can't be dominated by everyone, just as people say that everything is decided by heaven, not by people. Although it is often said that fate is in our own hands, only hard work can change it. This is also the absolute truth. However, sometimes there must be something in life, which is the true meaning of life. Some things cannot be forced.

A girl who sits at the same table with my nephew has outstanding academic performance. She is an excellent student with excellent academic performance in her class. Her own ideal is to apply for Tsinghua in Peking University, and the teacher is very sure of her ideal.

However, in the second half of senior three, this woman often has a headache. Her father took her to the hospital for examination. The doctor said that her right cerebellum was atrophied and she had no choice but to drop out of school. She left school with tears in her eyes, and she didn't get better after a year or two of treatment. Later, I heard that she had a tumor in her right cerebellum and didn't get off the operating table after the operation. The budding flowers were damaged in this way.

I believe in fate, but I want to believe in revolution more. Countless people with lofty ideals have changed their destiny through their own efforts in history. It is not advisable to relax and work hard, and it is impossible to drop a pie in the sky. As long as they work hard, they will be rewarded. No pains, no gains!

Some things are destiny takes a hand, sometimes they must be in life, and they must have been forced all the time.

A person, how much to eat, how much to wear, how long to live, whether rich or poor, is actually doomed.

How many stories are entangled in a word of fate; A love word, how many grievances seem to be every other year.

Living will be open-minded, cheerful and relaxed.

Life is hard to find, and it is not up to people at all.

When I was young, I didn't know what fate was. My heart was higher than the sky, blood was thicker than water, and I traveled all over the world with my sword. Now I feel that fate is a kind of awe and a kind of comfort of freedom.

You can not believe in life, but you can't believe it all.

On the road of life, what we can find has long been doomed, worked hard and tried our best, but we haven't got it yet. Then do your best and leave it to fate. There is no need to fight fearlessly. God has already arranged everything for you. This is fate and recognition.

Some people are doomed; Something lingers between my thoughts.

Since you are here, wait with your heart, even if your heart is broken, don't be sad; When the wind blows, the clouds gather and disperse, the leaves fall and the water is cold. Don't argue, don't worry, don't be impatient, the long road is brave for love, and there is no fear of loneliness in the vast sea of people.

The so-called struggle with fate is just a state of mind. No matter how we change it, we only change our acceptance mode, not the content. Since we can't force it, we can only let nature take its course, accept our fate calmly and have no regrets. This is a kind of courage.

Fate is not forced, but predestined.

Fate, this thing, comes without a trace, goes without a trace, and when fate comes, it cannot be stopped; The fate is gone, and you can't importune it. All the encounters in this world are reunions after a long separation.

Perhaps it is the fate of past lives, this life meets, and then continues the front edge; Maybe we owe each other, so we met. There is no love and hate for no reason in the world, and there is no meeting for no reason. I already have plans.

In life, no matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life. This is no accident. He is sure to teach you something. Don't hold it in your heart. Appreciate everything in life. Somehow, it has its own destiny. Everything can't escape the causal cycle, and everything has a destiny.

All encounters are a kind of repayment. If the fate is over, the two people don't owe each other, and it is impossible to meet again when they turn around. From then on, mountains and rivers cut off, searching hard, and never seeing each other again. Once you turn around, it's a lifetime. From then on, we will never meet again.

Put it down. Once you put it down, you will feel at ease.

Buddha said: how to get up, only put it down. Everything is life, and people can do anything.

People are always on the road, on the road of pursuit, on the road of practice, on the road of reincarnation. When we stop worrying about our desires, we are happy people.

Letting go makes our life broader and more comfortable, so letting go doesn't necessarily mean losing. On the contrary, it will be more painful for you to cling to the world fame and fortune that life can't bring and death can't bring.

Life, after all, its dream is clear and people can't put it down; Life, after all, its taste is so vivid that people can't help loving it. In life, there are always some things that you know are wrong, but you always insist on; Obviously not good, but always guarding.

Wise men do nothing, fools bind themselves, and the sea of suffering is boundless. It's a place to let go.

Life is not only a practice, but also an epiphany. When you are completely awakened and completely broken, you will naturally be relieved and put it down without saying anything.

This year, I answered many questions and answers about numerology. I answer these questions not because I am an expert in this field, but because I am just a fan of easy learning. Because I have read some books in this field, I also have some opinions and understandings.

I've been paying attention to numerology for several years, but I couldn't get in before. I settled down this year and spent half a year reading some numerology books. What I want to say is that I was skeptical about traditional numerology before learning four pillars and eight characters. Because eight-character fortune-telling is to calculate a person's life according to the eight-character composition of heavenly stems and earthly branches when he was born. People's lives have changed so much that we don't know what will happen tomorrow today. How to predict the good or bad of life from these eight words? I find it incredible and incomprehensible.

However, I firmly believe that its existence is reasonable. It is not unreasonable that four pillars and eight characters can survive in China for thousands of years and still flourish today. If the eight-character fortune-telling is really inaccurate, it can't exist for so long, because it's easy for you to fool people once, but isn't it true for a thousand years? Moreover, people who have studied and perfected numerology since ancient times are all unknown. For thousands of years, too many officials and scholars have devoted themselves to the study of Yi-ology. These were the top intellectuals at that time. If the eight-character numerology is not accurate, will they still be willing to study it?

In view of the above, I also want to know about this subject. My culture is limited, my qualifications are stupid, and I have only learned a little. But even these furs surprised me. After learning numerology, mortals like to show it to themselves or to people around them, and I can't avoid it. I have calculated my destiny with my own horoscope. I dare not draw a conclusion, because the future has not happened yet, but compared with my previous life, I feel that the eight characters have been fulfilled at least 70% to 80%.

Then I guessed to some acquaintances I knew, and some of them were quite accurate. Of course, privacy is involved here, and it is not good to put my life cases here. However, compared with several life cases I have seen, I think it is really accurate, and the feedback from life masters is basically the same.

Of course, there are still many things I haven't figured out, or numerology doesn't match me at all. I don't quite agree with many reasons for this situation. Of course, my own numerology knowledge is not rich enough to be calculated.

Therefore, after so many personal experiences, I firmly believe that people's fate is doomed.

Buddha said: Life is just a journey. You pass by him, he passes by you, and then go forward to practice separately. People who love each other are not necessarily suitable for being together. Fate is always destined to be together, what we can decide is how deep it was at the beginning. The Buddha also said: All encounters in this life are reunions in the last life. There is no meeting to prepare, and there is no reunion to rehearse. Life is a reasonable accident.

Love at first sight is a debt of past lives. Maybe love sometimes has a hollow reputation, but it's just a fate. People who used to be similar are destined, and the other party is here to collect debts or pay off debts. Maybe it's a lover in a previous life, an unfinished feeling in this life, or a lover in a certain life, an unpaid debt in this life. I saw you at a glance in the vast sea of people, because I have been waiting for this moment for several years. Some people say that in the phenomenon of deja vu, most memories are unconscious. The memory of shallow consciousness is activated and projected into consciousness, resulting in a feeling of deja vu.

The fate of two people has long been doomed. When fate really comes, there will be a feeling of reunion after a long separation. Maybe it's the fate of the past life, maybe it's the fate of the afterlife. It is wrong to meet in this life and repair a doomed suffering. Sometimes I can't bear to remember the beauty. People meet like meteors. In an instant, it produces an enviable spark, but it is destined to pass in a hurry. When we have to part, we can only say goodbye gently. I told myself not to regret, everything was arranged in the dark. People who love but can't are doomed to get hurt, so everything has its own destiny!

People are born with an innate destiny. How old are you when you get married, where is your suitable marriage partner, how old are you, when you are prosperous, when you are young, you have a small hurdle, and so on. Life brings a part, and you will change a part as you grow up. Friends around, living environment, choices made when encountering things. Will have a certain impact on innate life. For better or worse. Therefore, when people are alive, they should do more good deeds and accumulate virtue for themselves.

If you believe it, you won't. People who are not sincere are most likely to be inaccurate. Sometimes we can't help it. Let's give an example. I met a man last year and figured out that his fortune was good. But it is easy to grasp his personality and miss the opportunity. He is not suitable for investment. It was suitable for development in the north at that time, but he didn't listen. As a result, he lost a lot. Who can blame? Thousands of cases every year, I have a deep understanding!

I believe in fate, but I'm not superstitious. But believe in your own model, and your own nature limits your actions.

The fate of most people is not predestined, but clearly predestined. Why can a clever fortune teller predict your life by looking at your appearance in a few words? Because through your things, your standard of living is revealed. If there is no special opportunity, he will make your life very clear. Of course, this must be a level, not a master who wants your money.

In fact, people don't tell fortune when they are over 50, because they already know how many bowls of rice they can eat and don't want to make any more mistakes.

In order to calm one's desires and explain one's ordinary life, it is said that fate is predestined and providence is hard to violate.

This is destiny takes a hand, so it is not unreasonable. Some people struggle all their lives, but they are still poor and have a hard life. They feel that they can't see the dawn of life anyway. Who can say they don't work hard? Some people, from birth. Everything goes smoothly, even if it is windy and rainy and life is not moist, can it be compared? Many times it is really unparalleled.

Having said that, we can't completely accept our fate. When it is time to struggle, we should still struggle, and when it is time to work hard, we should continue to work hard. Although I didn't succeed today, what if the goal in my heart is realized tomorrow! I don't know which comes first, success or failure. What if it comes first? Therefore, when we don't know what the result is, we can only fight wholeheartedly.

In any case, fate is not necessarily absolute, and laziness is not desirable. Waiting for a pie to fall from the sky, such a good thing may not hit you. There are some things that we should take the initiative to fight for. Good things cannot wait. As the saying goes, many good things grind, do enough homework and master more skills. We believe that the quality of life will be improved in the future. We all believe in fate and want revolution. There are many cases in history in which we tried to change our destiny. You have tried hard, maybe you are the next person to change your destiny.