Is the absence of a son a family break? Why?

Because my daughter took this surname, she married someone else's house, gave birth to a child and inherited the surname of someone else's house. Sacrificing ancestors on holidays is also a memorial to the ancestors of the family. For this family, this is the last time.

Hehe, dad gave birth to our two daughters, grandma was patting her ass and her little feet were jumping and crying. My son is dead!

When we came, the two sisters each gave birth to a daughter. Well, it's another death for others.

I also asked my mother-in-law, what do you think of your death?

She said, who cares about you? No matter a bamboo, everyone cares about each other. When we die, when our eyes are closed, which tube has a back and no back? !

Actually, I also want to have a son, preferably both.

It's not to pass on the incense.

Think about how many heroes have been washed away by the long river of history; The chariot of history has crushed many homes.

Thanks to a gentleman, even after the fifth life, I am also a civilian, which doesn't matter.

I want a son, because I think my husband is so good that I should have a son to take care of him when he is old.

After all, it is relatively convenient for a daughter to take care of her mother and a son to take care of her father.

It can only be wishful thinking.

However, no matter what family my daughter marries in the future and whose surname my grandchildren have, they are still my blood and my love.

Friends who have seen the Pulitzer Prize work Roots must know what I mean.

Seven generations of descendants of Kunta Ken Dai found their history and Kunta Ken Dai Lai's place.

Blood is an invisible river.

After I was 70 years old, when the doctor told me that the second girl was a girl, I was relieved, not only because I gave birth to a child safely, but also because I gave birth to another girl. My husband and I were both working in an enterprise at that time, and we always felt burdened, so it was easy to hear that it was a girl. I also know that my parents-in-law want us to have the best son and daughter, but it doesn't work out. I thought both girls were fine. Education is more worry-free than son. After all, in the old society, boys could stand in the village in the countryside, and no one dared to bully them. But now it's completely different from before. They are all children, and families do not interfere with each other, so if you have a son or a girl, as long as it is finished with education, it is the same for both boys and girls, so I am still very satisfied. The eldest daughter goes out and rushes by herself, little girl. Both babies are very clever. Compared with boys, I think they are very worry-free when they grow up. Older girls are not as difficult to manage as boys, and from the current social atmosphere, girls are always more considerate of their parents than their sons and daughters-in-law, so I think boys and girls are all the same. As long as you are kind to your parents, a harmonious family is better than anything else.

I once went back to my hometown where I left for many years. Accompanied by my uncle, I visited my friends in a village in Fiona Fang a few kilometers away. When I went to the mountains, I found a house full of weeds. I asked my uncle why. He said with a sigh that the family had six daughters and no sons. Later, the daughters grew up and married off, and five of them never came back. The other married to a neighboring county and began to visit his parents frequently. Later, they died of illness and no one came back. After his death, the house became empty. You must have a son in the countryside, or that's it. The ancestral graves of this family are also covered with grass. Married daughters are not qualified to worship or tidy up, which is the custom of China people.

"There are three kinds of unfilial, none of which is bigger." This is the traditional concept of China people. What is a queen? Do you have to be a boy to carry on the family line? In the tribal period and feudal society, of course, it is very important, but today, in the 2 1 century, the New Culture Movement has put forward "equality between men and women" for a hundred years, but now many people still insist on the idea that men are superior to women, which is out of sync with our highly developed society.

There is a man in my hometown who is three years younger than me. He only went to school for three years and spent his whole life farming in the countryside. After he got married, he had three daughters in succession. Family planning cadres came to do ideological work for her and let them have birth control surgery. They said that if the fourth child is still a girl, they will have birth control surgery. After the fourth child was born, she was still a girl. Family planning cadres let them have birth control surgery. They said they would have another child. This time, both boys and girls will have surgery. After giving birth to the fifth child, she is still a daughter. They resigned themselves and took the initiative to have birth control surgery.

Two years later, a fortune teller told him that if they had another child, they would definitely be a boy, because there was a boy in their life. So he went to the family planning office and asked for an operation to connect his wife's fallopian tube. The staff of the family planning office said that you have finished the birth control operation, and there is no way out! He didn't do it anyway, drank some wine and went to the family planning cadre's house with an axe, which frightened the family planning cadre and had to promise his wife to pick up the fallopian tube. Coincidentally, after the fallopian tube was opened, a son was really born. The couple were extremely happy and walked around the village with their children in their arms all day, showing them to others.

When I went back to my hometown last year, I found that several girls in this family had dropped out of school after finishing primary school. Three of them are married. The third was only sixteen when he got married, and he had two children in his twenties. Although the son of this family goes to school, his study is very poor. He often asks his parents for money to buy snacks, and if he gives less, he raises his fist and hits adults. In my opinion, this is too used to children. How much will this child achieve in the future? What's the point of raising an unfilial son, even if it can carry on the family line?

Boys and girls are just different in gender. They are all our children. Their coming into this world is the continuation of our life, and their descendants all carry our genes, which is also the continuation of our life. Therefore, regardless of whether there is a daughter or a son, they can be counted as heirs. The key is whether you can train your child into an adult so that he can be filial to the elderly when he grows up. If not, what can my son do?

It is natural to break away in the traditional sense. In the countryside, the daughter is raised by others. You will say that there is no throne in the family to inherit. It doesn't matter whether you want a son or not, but your daughter's son will remember that you are a grandfather a hundred years later, but after your daughter's son a hundred years later, your tombstone will probably be gone, and your whole family, including your ancestors, will not leave any traces. Take myself for example. I have a third uncle, who is usually very nice and nice, but he gave birth to two daughters, so precious that he looks down on his younger brother. My younger brother gave birth to two sons and said he was not exhausted, but others said behind his back that the third one didn't know what to do and had no children. Look at his two little sons. Gee, the third one didn't even have a person to support the elderly, and he died. Over time, no one followed him.

There is no throne in the family to inherit. After everything is broken, there is nothing after a hundred years. I think more about whether boys and girls are born by themselves. As long as health is more important than anything else.

I have a friend who has a daughter who is going to have a second child. Her mother-in-law is very patriarchal. She is pregnant recently, so she can't eat this or that. My mother-in-law called and said that she couldn't eat meat when she was pregnant, so that the couple could be vegetarian every day, saying that she had a good chance of having a boy. I found many remedies for them, just to have a boy, saying that I want a boy this time anyway, and I have to check men and women when I am pregnant. If it's a boy, the girl will run away. ! ! The concept of the older generation can't work without boys, and others will look down upon it. I don't understand. It's none of my mother-in-law's business to have boys and girls. Just live your own life. Fuck so much.

When your daughter grows up and gets married, you two old people will know that it is cold and miserable on holidays! Giving birth to a son is not a preference for boys, nor is it a family line! To tell the truth, my wife and two sisters are married to other places. I have parents, and so does she. So where is the holiday? In my first year, my parents-in-law said that she was too lonely to even wrap a red envelope! The next year at her house, I stayed there for a few days, always worried about how my parents were and whether they would be lonely and uncomfortable! I can't wait to go back to my parents on the third day of the lunar new year! I have a well-behaved and obedient daughter. I am very satisfied. Old people on both sides like it and want to take it. Now grandma is taking it, but grandma can't see her granddaughter's discomfort. When editing this message, she just answered my mother's phone and said I had a wife, but she didn't seem to have a daughter-in-law. I gave birth to a daughter, but she seems to have no granddaughter! I am completely speechless. Parents on both sides. How is a bowl of water flat? At present, the four elderly people are still in good health. How should we take care of them in their twilight years? Parents are too old to walk. Can a son put his parents down and take care of her parents? As a daughter-in-law, can she leave her parents to take care of me? Reality is always reality, and children are treasures. Apart from the concept of son preference, a family without sons is definitely not perfect, and all problems will be reflected after the children get married!

In the eyes of the older generation, no son is a broken man.

I am also the mother of two girls. After the first daughter was born, her mother-in-law came to wait on her the next month and returned to her hometown at the full moon, and never appeared again.

I was an only child at that time, so there was no hope and no second child. I guess my in-laws feel desperate, but that's all.

I didn't expect to let go of my second child a few years ago, and my in-laws had another bright color in their eyes.

My mother also advised me to leave my boss a hand and foot, so that I can rely on it in the future. Think about it, too. I got a treasure and a daughter through hard work.

I don't care about men and women, not my in-laws. Worried father-in-law drinks at home and mother-in-law smokes at home.

The baby is more than five months old and grandpa hasn't hugged it yet.

You say, where to reason?

However, most people want to survive after 80s, mainly because the old people are uncomfortable, so it is difficult to survive as long as they have a son!

My mother-in-law said: don't be afraid of having no money, just someone!

I really don't know where I got my confidence. Now his son and my husband support five or six people by themselves, and the old couple can't pay a penny. Maybe this is the advantage of raising a son!

This is a problem that I am forced to face every day. I've been thinking about it myself Is it necessary to have a son?

I am a child now, and my daughter is almost three and a half years old. My mother-in-law forces me to have a second child every day, saying it's a second child. To put it bluntly, I just want you to have another son I ask my daughter every day if my mother will give you a younger brother. If the daughter is a little noisy, people will say that children are like this. If two children get married, it won't be so charming. I don't know if the second child is a daughter, but the third child is out again.

It is said in my ear in disguise every day that anyone who has never had a son can't regret it now. When he is old, he has no place to go. Who has only one daughter, lives in the son-in-law's house, and looks at his face every day. When relatives come, whoever is in charge will say that we don't want to have a second child, and then bring one with our relatives and two with us. To tell the truth, if the economy permits, we will have a second child. My husband has a younger brother. Their first child is a son, older than my daughter. Once I went back. Their children are older than us, so they have a second child than our husband. My mother-in-law was immediately unhappy. They are different. They are boys, but they want to live a stable life. Don't worry. Look, the answer comes out. If my daughter is, she still needs a son.

Fortunately, this child's father and I have the same idea, and a second child is feasible. When the economy is stable, you can have a house and a car first. As for the second child, I don't care. Personally, I think my daughter is fine and there is no succession to the throne at home. Why not have a son? I will be anxious with whoever forces me to have a son, and I must have a son.

A couple in their hometown gave birth to five daughters in front of them in order to fight for a son. The family condition is not good. They worked hard to raise a baby every day, and finally the last child gave birth to a son. Unfortunately, the mother died shortly after the child was born. The reason is that she was ill and couldn't bear to see it, and she worked until she died. Unfortunately, the child is now over five years old, but he has lost his mother since he was a child.

Is it really worth fighting so hard for a son? I don't think it's worth it I can do many things with my ability.

Feudal and foolish thoughts, isn't the daughter a person? The difference between sons and daughters from many patriarchal families is too great. The daughter is fine and the son is abandoned. Didn't you learn your lesson?

My family, three sisters, no son. However, what's wrong with not having a son? My family is richer than anyone now. My relatives, who don't envy my parents for raising three good daughters, conscientious daughters and son-in-law. On the contrary, my second aunt's family, because of the patriarchal thinking in the past, led to my brother being completely abandoned. Now people who are almost forty are still at home, relying on their parents to support them. Pity his parents, a man in his sixties, and raise not only him, but also his daughter. His daughter-in-law really couldn't stand him and divorced him.

When we were young, my aunt and they often said that our family had no son and no future. I also advised my dad that he had to have a son. Fortunately, my parents turned a deaf ear to what they said. Now, my aunt and they all envy our family.

My mother-in-law gave birth to two sons and no daughter. In this way, for the grandson, it is completely one-sided, eccentric granddaughter. Two granddaughters and two grandsons are not so lucky. Grandson, she didn't bring it. She kept bringing it for a month. Grandson, I really can't stand relatives saying that she is too partial to watch any more. Everyone said that she was reluctant to bring it. Later, I directly said that I couldn't carry it, so you can carry it yourself.

Even my mother-in-law, who has never been to school in the countryside, says that it is better to have a daughter. Having a son is nothing more than envy in the first half of life and fatigue in the second half. She said directly now, I don't expect my son, I will take good care of my two granddaughters, and when my granddaughter grows up, I will rely on my granddaughter!

So, don't say that you haven't had a son, as long as you educate your children, your daughter is better!