Is it better to tell your fortune at your husband's house than at your mother's house? _ Is it better to tell your fortune at your husband's house than at your mother's house?

Is it better to tell your fortune at your husband's house than at your mother's house?

What you said is wrong.

If I ask you, if the world were full of men, would the world still develop to this day? By the same token, if the world is full of women, wouldn't it be impossible for the world to continue to this day?

Ancient society was an unequal society between men and women, which can be seen from some words, such as women's lack of virtue, women's view, long hair and short knowledge. There is also the mother's family. It can also be seen from this that as a child, in addition to blood relationship, the relationship between mother and family is often valued because of blood relationship, and the relationship with uncles and aunts is no less than that with uncles and aunts. There is an old saying in Tianjinwei called "My mother's family is big", which is a typical demonstration of the relationship between family and blood relationship. My uncle is an authoritative representative of the general family who attaches importance to the mother's family. On the one hand, he represents the mother's family and plays an invisible auxiliary role in the position of the married daughter in the husband's family. In addition to the bereavement of my sister or her family, my uncle has great authority over some important matters in my nephew's life, such as marriage and property division, and disputes within the family are often solved by my uncle. Whose name is Uncle? Of course, it was the man in the daughter's house, which shows the status of women at that time. Therefore, if the daughter's family conditions are good, it is very important to her. At that time, people were very particular about being suitable. If the woman's family changes, it will affect whether she can marry into her husband's family smoothly and the treatment and status she enjoys in her husband's family. This can be proved from relevant film and television dramas and books.

As for in-laws and their families, it is normal even in this era. Because men marry women, everyone will have their own place, which is an unchangeable fact. Even now, there are many men. Once in love and marriage, there is no essential difference between their words and deeds and ancient men, and they are still "be immersed in love." Even because of the changes of the times and ideas, they have gained more freedom of their own. The previous marriage mode was generally a matchmaker marriage, that is, parents had the final say and they didn't have any freedom. But now all aspects are becoming more and more open, and they are no longer full of bondage and constraints as in ancient times. Both men and women can talk about their love and pursue their happiness boldly, and parents will no longer obstruct, oppose and interfere in every way as before, and even don't ask their children to insist. But ever-changing, the patriarchal clan system remains unchanged. China is a country with a history of 5,000 years of civilization, and it has a good reputation as a civilized country since ancient times. Therefore, as the saying goes, all changes can't be separated from it, except for more equality and fairness between men and women, others such as family harmony, harmony between the piano and the harp, loving and happy husband and wife, and growing old together, are still the same as before. People at all times and all over the world hope that men and women will have a happy life after marriage. Change the soup without changing the medicine, change the bottle of new wine, just like a mold can't carve two identical styles, which is the same. It used to be an era when men were superior to women. Otherwise, how could there be a saying in ancient society that "marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog, and marry a wood with it"? In ancient times, the conclusion and dissolution of marriage had nothing to do with the feelings of husband and wife, and nothing to do with feelings. Because ancient marriage was the relationship between two families, the feelings of the parties were not considered, because one could not make his own decisions, and the other could not meet before marriage, only listening to the matchmaker talk about each other's affairs. The decision-making power of marriage lies with parents, and marriage and divorce are all decided by parents. This is the crux of the real problem.