Is everyone born?

Roughly, but there are still many things that can be changed. This change was not obvious at first, but the result was shocking.

These days, I counted the eight words on the title. When communicating with examiners one by one, I really feel that life is not easy, everyone is inevitable, and no one can live too comfortably under the pull of fate and desire. This also confirms my previous view that there is no such thing as good luck or bad luck in life. There is distress at every stage.

Most tourists are friendly. They are polite and ask questions and give feedback. I always communicate with them with gratitude. Even if they have many questions and can ask them for more than two hours, I am willing to keep talking and listen to them explain the hardships of life.

But there are two kinds of people who have brought me a bad forecasting experience, which makes me very helpless.

One is the kind of person who asks for details in everything. When calculating their future objects, they asked me to draw the faces of their objects. To tell the truth, it's easy to make a living by looking at marriage and feelings. Statistics of a person's object, combined with the husband and wife palace and the official wealth star, combined with the five elements of health and grams, can roughly see the color, ability, height and marital stability of the object. But look at the face? Then forget it.

I've told you many times, I'm not too detailed. Because everything in the world is constantly changing, and the state of everything is in the flow of wood, fire, earth, gold and water, it is difficult to determine. I only look at where it flows, and I don't care much about how it flows. I am a free and easy person, please don't ask me for details.

There is also an extremely stubborn person. It is painful to communicate with them. Maybe in the end, they will become enemies. I can be a grocery store or an emotional trash can, but I'm not the south wall. I can't stand your iron fist blows again and again. Such a person will certainly not listen to the good words of his friends in life, so how can he listen to the fatalistic fortune teller? No one wants to be resigned to fate. I often teach people not to be resigned to fate, but only if they make changes themselves.

Fate is actually a process of knowing yourself, not a kind of giving up. No, that's it. Forget it. On the contrary, you know that fate is your enemy from now on, and you should resist it effectively. But stubborn people refuse to accept knowing their enemies, and this process of knowing themselves is actually the most important step, so it is conceivable that they will lose the battle in the struggle against fate.

Although it rained heavily, it didn't nourish the rootless grass. Although Buddhism is extensive, it is not too much for those who have no chance. When life has taught you nothing, I can't teach you anything. So, forgive my incompetence and stubbornness, and please don't look for me. There's nothing I can do.

Headline is really a high-end media platform. It is very common for 10 candidates to have more than 9 academic degrees. Most of them come from the middle class in the city, and they will basically continue the life of the middle class in the future, enter various companies, become middle managers or skilled professionals, and live a rich life by their own skills. Of course, there are also two patterns in which evil spirits and seals coexist. After 40 years of life, I may become an academic leader in my field and shine. These people have a good life.

But these relatively good eight characters didn't leave a deep impression on me. On the contrary, it is the poor eight-character character that makes me respect him and deeply feel the value of him.

This is a girl about my age. She was born in the countryside. Her father left when she was very young, and her mother was incompetent. Her grandparents brought her up. Because of the lack of family education and poor family background, she didn't go to school much. When she grew up, she went to work in a factory and saved money for many years. Now she wants to open a small shop outside and start her own business, and then let her mother live a good life and a stable life. When she is free, she will go back to see her grandparents more often.

In the process of communicating with her, I looked at the sentences she typed on the screen, and then looked at her eight characters. In my mind, I saw such a girl: she was low-looking, plain-looking, weak and talkative, always cautious in speaking, but flexible, able to endure hardships, not complaining, and often satisfied. Always set small goals for yourself, and then try to achieve them. Every step has great joy.

When listening to her story, I didn't look down with pity, but looked up with respect, just like Sima Baijuyi in Jiangzhou listened to the pipa girl at night. I was deeply impressed by her step-by-step sureness and fearless psychology. In contrast, the middle-class delicate children make me feel that life is even lighter. Most of them have never touched the land and cannot understand the hardships of the people at the bottom. Their vision may be broad and the pattern is large, but the chart is floating and not heavy. Lack of tolerance for pain and suffering. Some people are particularly worried about being swayed by considerations of gain and loss. Losing an egg is like losing a chicken farm. You can't help crying.

I admire the girl's energy.

I stopped everything in my hand, looked at her horoscope carefully, and pushed her future time and time bar. Her fortune is still bumpy, but the column is full of extravagance. The stone pillar is where children live. There is no doubt that under the cultivation of such a resilient mother, although the quality of life of future generations is not high, their character will be better polished. My dear son, the weather has changed, and it is ready to come out.

Yes, that's why wild lilies have spring.

In the headlines, elites like to emphasize class barriers, blocked access and class solidification. Too many such voices will make latecomers despair and feel that their efforts are useless.

Indeed, class barriers exist objectively. Every time a society moves from war to stability, it will gradually form a class naturally. These classes are like city walls, keeping the poor out and leaving only the rich inside. But the city walls are not unbreakable. It has a city gate, which can enter and exit. It will let outsiders in to see if you have such ambitions, and it will also drive the people inside out and exile the frontier. Class transition and class decline are always on the stage.

Nobody will stay in the city all the time. Four generations of Cao family have been weaving in Jiangning. Once his property was robbed, and his son, who used to eat jade, suddenly wanted to have porridge with his family. Not to mention the rich and middle class today.

Many rich people simply can't last three generations, and the life of rich people is over.

This is "watch him climb a tall building, watch him entertain guests and watch his building collapse."

In the constant flow of yin and yang, many times, people's efforts are not to climb up, but to not fall down.