Boyfriend is "Phoenix Man", can't he really get married?

It is not recommended to marry Phoenix Man.

Phoenix Man is simply "flying out of golden phoenix in a henhouse". Generally, they only have a big family in mind, such as his parents, brothers and sisters, relatives in their hometown, and your small family is not that important in their eyes. Why can't you marry Phoenix Man? The following reasons can be referenced.

First, treat emotional extremes. "Phoenix Man" is smart and diligent. He became a phoenix through his own efforts, and he is more resilient in the face of all kinds of difficulties in the future. However, in the face of emotional problems, he often has extreme ideas, especially his deep-rooted conservatism, inferiority and thoughts, which will turn into abnormal psychology of being narrow-minded and suspicious, and bring constant harm to marriage.

Second, stingy. "Phoenix Man" was born in poverty and lived a frugal life since childhood. Therefore, even after his success, this deep-rooted thought is hard to erase, and it becomes mean and stingy to his partner after marriage, which makes it difficult for husband and wife to get along well.

Third, fear of failure. I have achieved today's achievements through my own efforts. Although I have the tough thinking of an ordinary boyfriend, once I fall off the platform, I tend to be devastated. In the face of feelings, "Phoenix Man" often shows a sense of vulnerability. Because of his habitual inferiority complex, he is suspicious of his partner, overprotective of him, and afraid of losing him, so that he has no room for himself.

Fourth, there is no sense of security. "Phoenix Man" doesn't give women much sense of security. For example, "Phoenix Man" will first ask for filial piety to the elderly at home, and will give priority to the interests of his family when things happen. Generally speaking, it is difficult for women to get involved. It is also difficult for the woman to get the long-term care and consideration of the man, let alone take advantage of it, and she is always restricted by his family and has no way to feel safe.

Five, extremely conceited. Inferiority and conceit are two sides of the same body. Arrogance produces contempt, so some Phoenix men are selfish and sometimes show obvious "male chauvinism". They always feel that what they insist on is good and right, and they don't allow others to refute and evaluate, let alone put themselves in others' shoes, and don't tolerate others' mistakes.