"Nothing, don't blind date."

After work that day, Song Yang leaned back in bed, lost in thought, and Chen Meili called. Song Yang looked at his mobile phone and hesitated to pick it up.

Stop for about 3 minutes when the bell rings. Song Yang WeChat asked, What's the matter? Chen Meili replied that she was forced to get married.

Young people who struggle in big cities all have the experience of being forced into marriage. Song Yang expressed understanding.

But understanding belongs to understanding, people will get married after all, and no one likes a person.

It's too difficult to meet an enthusiastic person, Chen Meili said with emotion.

Look for it. People come and go in the street. Song Yang encouraged.

Why don't we make do with it, Chen Meili said.

Song Yang hesitated and was moved for an instant. After all, Chen Meili was not the only one who was urged to get married.

But just to get married and hug each other for warmth, how far can you go?

Song Yang lost in thought. The next day, Song Yang and his friends ate hot pot in the street.

Friends say that a marriage without feelings is a mess.

Song Yanghui is different from a marriage with feelings.

Subconsciously, Song Yang wants to marry Chen Meili.

02

One rainy day, Song Yang passed by the hospital and saw a fortune teller at the door.

Can't help wondering, Song Yang asked in the past, can you get married?

Yes, sir. So Song Yang began to search Chen Meili's constellation in his mind.

He remembered that Chen Meili once said that she was a chicken.

The fortune teller calculated that chickens and horses were incompatible, and Song Yang was a horse.

This is a feudal superstition. Song Yang was so angry that he left without giving any money.

But some things, once you care, are just a hurdle, which pops up from time to time and makes you upset.

It seems that there is no fate with Chen Meili after all. One afternoon, Song Yang sat on a park bench and sighed.

03

Chen Meili hasn't contacted Song Yang since he said those words last time.

I am just a spare tire. Occasionally, in the dead of night, Song Yang would feel sorry for himself.

Time flies. It doesn't snow a few times in winter in Zhengzhou, but spring is coming.

According to a mutual friend, Chen Meili kissed a university teacher.

Arguably, the conditions were ok, but Chen Meili was not satisfied at all and refused directly.

Song Yang was not idle, and his parents arranged three blind dates when he came home for the Spring Festival.

One works in Zhengzhou, one is a programmer in Shanghai and the other is a teacher in his hometown.

How can I put it? Without common language, it's embarrassing to meet, eat and watch movies.

Back in Zhengzhou, Song Yang told his friends that blind date has no soul, so don't blind date.

04

In 20 19, the only unmarried person in the department was Song Yang. At the end of 20 18, many colleagues were rushing to find someone.

Song Yang went to their wedding and saw them laughing happily, and so did their parents.

Sometimes Song Yang thinks, do you have to marry the person you like? Can't you practice without feelings?

But if you get married and divorce again because of personality incompatibility, you will be in big trouble.

On the Lantern Festival in February, Chen Meili and Song Yang made an appointment to travel. They went to Nanjing and bought snacks on the pedestrian street.

Chen Meili asked, what about the consideration? Song Yang said, let's get married.

Chen Meili suddenly felt relieved, as if the flowers that should bloom in spring were finally in bloom.

I went back to plan the wedding.

Chen Meili's parents knew Song Yang earlier and knew him well. They knew that Song Yang was poor, so they didn't ask for much bride price.

Song Yang's parents figured out a worry, whose parents don't want to see their children get married, have children and live a good life.

However, at this critical juncture, Song Yang was timid. Do you know the fear of ruining other people's lives?

I know there will be no good result, but in order to escape the secular pressure, I chose to compromise.

Halfway through 20 19, one of my colleagues has divorced. It is said that three views, a graduate student and a junior college.

Chen Meili is also married, of course, not with Song Yang, but with anyone who can replace Song Yang at any time.

In a few years, Song Yang will be 30 years old, and he can hold on for a few more years, but Song Yang decided not to care.

I would rather be happy alone than live in pain.