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Return of the wedding custom of Changle in the Three Dynasties.

In fact, everyone should have attended some people's weddings. In fact, there are all kinds of things to get married, not just simply inviting relatives and friends to dinner. At the same time, marriage customs vary greatly from place to place. Let's take a look at the wedding customs in Changle, Fuzhou.

Choose an auspicious day.

In other words, when deciding the wedding day, ask the fortune teller to choose a favorable month and auspicious day according to the birthday. Any day in December of the lunar calendar is an auspicious day and is called a chaotic year. In the past black years, I didn't propose in the first month. In addition, both men and women regard sewing as an auspicious day, and ask four women with different surnames to help avoid widows and pregnant women. A man's American family needs to be covered with red flowers, which means prosperity and wealth. In addition to sewing clothes and quilts, women have to make a pair of shoes for their husbands and family. More than ten days before the man gets married, he sends fried sesame candy to the woman, and the woman sends it to relatives and friends to inform her of the wedding day, which is also commonly known as Xiaohua. The flowers are gone, and the man said so. Similar classmates, colleagues, etc. Only when they are passed on to each other will they give gifts with quilts, washbasins and other things or money.

Disturb the bridal chamber

Bridging is a wedding custom since ancient times. In Changle, Fujian, people sometimes make fun of new people. And not only the newlyweds are played, but also the groom's parents are played. They have the custom of picking baskets, sitting on shoulder skirts, making faces, wiping the bottom of pots, letting beggars go, tying red ropes and carrying bamboo poles to play in the bridal chamber. Finally, the couple were disturbed and came out to give out red envelopes, which was the end.

Three dynasties return door.

In other words, on the third day after marriage, the bride returns to her mother accompanied by her husband. She worshipped her ancestors with roast pigs and gifts, and then came back to live with her husband. According to legend, there was such a custom in the pre-Qin period. Mothering means going back to your mother and telling your parents that you are safe. Back home, the man needs to prepare: a roast pig, two boxes of cakes, a pair of wine, two bamboo sticks, a pair of chickens, lettuce, two baskets of raw fruit, steamed meat, two boxes of noodles, chicken lanterns and pork belly, each weighing two Jin. In fact, most weddings will have a return gift, which represents some sincerity and courtesy of the groom. Pay attention to the ceremony.