Stealing leisure from busyness, you must be busy first, and then you will have leisure fun.

Perhaps the life of modern people is too hard, and many female office workers like to have unrealistic fantasies, such as if they don't have to go to work, learn talents or travel. How nice it is to be a lady. You can have afternoon tea every day and sleep until you wake up naturally. But think about it, one year, three years, five years and ten years have passed, and when I look back, I am old, not only not a lady, but also a self-help tour. I really resigned or retired, but I was too idle to go to work.

I seldom fantasize about what I can do when I have no job, because I enjoy my job very much, but I am not a workaholic and want to live a high quality life at the same time, so I must find a balance between the two. So I will work hard in exchange for the reward I deserve, and I will learn to reward myself.

So taking time out of my busy schedule has become my most cherished and happiest moment. When I am particularly busy, I will go out of the office to buy a cup of coffee, take a walk in the park and clear my head. After doing several projects in succession, I will take a half-day holiday, maybe watch a movie or an exhibition, or drive away from Taipei by myself, which makes me feel very happy.

When I am on a business trip, whether at home or abroad, I will take an extra day off and experience the city by the way. I enjoy making time, but I look at my work more positively.

Since I started my business, being busy has become the normal state of my life. I don't want to be a sad office worker, so I try to make myself more efficient so that I can have a rest. After enjoying "stealing" for a while, my energy was released and I came back to work more energetically, thus forming a positive cycle. Because I don't have too many fantasies in my mind, I am more of a surprise gift. So I work very efficiently every day, so that I can get off work on time, go to appointments on time and get together with friends or family.

When I was young, a fortune teller said that I had worked hard all my life. I was so angry that I didn't want to be so miserable. Now I think it's a gift, because being busy means you have something to do, which means you have the value of being used. This is a blessing in this depressed year. Only by adjusting your mentality can you have the opportunity to enjoy the pleasure of stealing time in your busy schedule and think about how to steal time in your busy schedule.

Sometimes it's not necessarily the workload of the work itself, but that we don't know how to relax moderately and let ourselves go, and we always have to squeeze ourselves out of breath. It doesn't have to take a whole day. It may take an hour or half an hour. Sometimes I go to coffee shops, go for a walk and go to the movies.

Whether it is emptiness or meditation, it will make you very comfortable and will not be buried in your work all the time.

There is only one limit to leave, that is, you must learn to be alone, because that kind of "leisure" is not arranged in advance, and sometimes you come uninvited, but others can't cooperate with your time to accompany you. Suddenly, a plan was temporarily delayed and it took a long time to come out. Suddenly, the client canceled the appointment, which took two hours. All these can give you a little breath and secretly relax.

Once on a business trip to the mainland, I came back at a loss. The plane took off about four hours late, and other passengers stamped their feet and shouted at the airline. I hid in a small cafe nearby, ordered a cup of coffee, and slowly enjoyed the novel that I had never finished reading. Those four hours were my paradise. However, if you don't adjust your mentality properly, you will feel unlucky, but you will lose the mood to enjoy this gift.

Stealing leisure from busyness, you must be busy first, and then you will have leisure fun.