Is the heavier the life, the better, and the lighter the worse?

In fact, "fate" and "luck" are completely different things. "fate" is innate, doomed and cannot be changed. But "luck" can be adjusted and changed, and "luck" will change because of your choice and hard work. Everything has a process from birth to death, and people live in this particular law, but people have not completely lost their ability to master "fate". As long as we choose our best position and find a path suitable for our development, happiness and success will follow.

So how can we change the status quo and then change our destiny?

First, know yourself.

It is not easy to really know yourself. Many people have lived for most of their lives without really knowing who they are, what they want, their own advantages and disadvantages, their own likes and dislikes, so they can't find their place and see the direction of life development. Once they wake up in a daze, they have missed the best time.

Therefore, if you really want to change your destiny through your own efforts, then first of all, you should know yourself, what is good for you and what is harmful to you, and know your orientation, direction and goal in life, so that you can truly grasp your destiny and change your destiny in a targeted way, otherwise everything will be empty talk, even if you are full of ambitions, you will probably hit your head against the south wall, even if your economy and technology are developed again.

Second, understand the environment.

From birth to independence to marriage, we are always influenced by the surrounding environment, people and things around us, and no one can shield us from external forces. Therefore, we should try our best to explore our own environment, from the whole country in the world to a unit, a department and a family. Only by understanding the environment can we adapt to it and turn it into something beneficial to us.

Third, faith and mentality.

"Some people are always lucky," you often hear others say. However, I wonder if you have ever wondered why these people can create so many opportunities even in adversity. There is no denying that some people are born lucky and always get twice the result with half the effort. There are always people who lend a helping hand when they are in trouble. However, such lucky people are rare after all, and most people are not so lucky. Therefore, we must strive for it by ourselves and work hard. Only with an upright heart can we walk well, quickly and steadily.

Except those who are born lucky, lucky people have a prominent feature, that is, they all know how to attract good luck and how to motivate others to help themselves. These often come from people's beliefs and mentality. A sunny and happy person will always have a group of people around him who are willing to approach him, help him and share beautiful things with him. However, a dark and melancholy person will have fewer and fewer people around him. No one wants to listen to his complaints and grievances all day, let alone endure his satire and meanness. Such people tend to get narrower and narrower. Then what kind of mentality you should have and what kind of beliefs you should adhere to are self-evident.

Fourth, the correct use of external forces.

In the previous articles, we have talked about these methods with the help of external forces, such as adjusting our own gas field, adjusting the feng shui environment, and relying on the help of nobles. Correctly and effectively using the help of these external forces can often achieve very good results, but the premise is that as long as you strive hard and work hard, there will be no pie in the sky, no matter how good a person's life and luck are and how good Feng Shui is, if you don't work hard, even if you gain something, it will not last long, just like someone who gets rich overnight. In the face of these help, we should be grateful and regard it as the driving force and assistance for our progress, and we can't pin all our hopes on these people, things and things. Only with a positive attitude can we really seek a happier life for ourselves with these external forces.

Verb (abbreviation for verb) the power of faith

There is no denying that there are unknown forces in this world, and there are always some unexplored energies, which are often expressed or realized through different beliefs. Whether it is a person's firm goal or religious belief, it is a kind of energy, especially popular belief, which can form a strong magnetic field with the gas field of the group, thus making the individual in a strong energy field. If this belief is good and positive, then we can.