How can we calculate our own destiny?

First of all, I have a clear statement. Fortune tellers are talking nonsense. They are masters of interpersonal studies and psychology, and they make money with various Jianghu skills.

Then I'll talk about what the so-called yin-yang peach blossom means. You can simply understand it as peach blossom robbery, which means that you will have peach blossom luck recently, but it is not good luck. It is very likely that there will be various entanglements with the other half, which will affect the current family happiness. Yang Taohua is easy to understand, which means that you will meet a woman in real life and then have a marriage. In fortune-telling, Yin Taohua means that you will be haunted by ghosts of the opposite sex, which will affect your mind and have a certain destructive effect on family happiness. So don't think that luck is a good thing, it may only be temporary comfort, and the trouble after that will make you unbearable.

Of course, what I said above is only some specific slang in this line, and there is no need to take fortune tellers seriously. Actually, fortune-telling is not only found in China, but also in places with human beings all over the world, such as divination of primitive tribes in Africa, tarot cards in European countries and astrology. These things seem unfathomable, but they have no basis at all. It is because of mystery that everyone just does mysterious things for the sake of mystery, and no one can understand them. In fact, you will never understand, because these activities to predict the future only conform to the human fear of the unknown, which can calm the mood to a certain extent, bring people a certain sense of certainty, and then achieve the role of psychological comfort. Legends of various religions, small to the streets and alleys, all stem from this universal psychology of human beings. Think about it, you've never seen a kitten or a puppy tell a fortune and pray to God. He's still alive and well.

As a rational person, we must understand that the world is made up of accidents. With this mentality, if you do well now, you will be much happier. After all, our life is hard enough, and it is simply asking for trouble to believe other people's alarmist stories.