Eating eggs while pregnant angered her mother-in-law

Wen Ya (a pseudonym), an elder, obeyed her parents' arrangement and married Zhao Chen (a pseudonym). In order to maintain the dignity of Zhao Chen men, Wen Ya decided to listen to him, but this was still ignored by her husband's family. What saddens her even more is that her husband doesn't care about her at all, and accuses her of eating a few eggs during pregnancy, which makes her chilling ... Teller: Wenya (pseudonym) Gender: Female age: 35 years old, parents decided to get engaged when she was older. My marriage is unhappy because I listen to my parents too much. When I was 23, I met a city boy. We get along well, but his family strongly opposes it for only one reason-I am from the countryside. It was a big blow after being lovelorn. My parents hired a fortune teller. As a result, I said that I must get married in the future, or I will divorce if I get married. I listened to my parents and didn't fall in love for six years. Seeing that I am almost thirty years old, my parents are finally in a hurry. After several failed blind dates, they decided to betroth me to Zhao Chen (a pseudonym). I am five years old, and Zhao Chen is a distant relative of my aunt. I didn't agree, but my parents said he was honest and filial, and besides, he knew the root of the matter, so he wouldn't be wronged if he got married. So I came to Jiaozhou from Anqiu and got engaged to Zhao Chen. When I was complained, I swallowed it. I asked Zhao Chen why she was too old to get married. He said that she had a girlfriend who had lived together for five years, but she was so strong that she had to make decisions at home and abroad, leaving him with no dignity at all. I don't want Zhao Chen to be hurt by feelings any more, so I decided to listen to him and make him a real man again. Zhao Chen works in a factory in the suburbs, so we rented a bungalow nearby. When we got married, my husband's family didn't give us a penny, but I never cared. In the spring of 2003, Zhao Chen brought her in-laws to my house and said that she would help us take care of the children in the future. When I gave birth to my daughter, my mother-in-law pulled her face down and said that I had broken the queen of their Chen family. I really wanted to get angry, but I finally swallowed it. I'm pregnant again, I'm unwell, and no one loves my daughter. After one year old, I opened a small supermarket. I'm only in charge of the operation, and Zhao Chen is in charge of the money. My husband's family seldom keeps in touch with relatives and opposes our making friends. In the final analysis, it is afraid of spending money. In fact, Zhao Chen and I earn a lot of money, and my in-laws have a lot of savings, but there is always only one dish on our table. I can only accept the fate of my in-laws. Last year, my in-laws went back to the village to handle the second child birth index, hoping that I could have another child. I understand that they are eager for their grandson, because Zhao Chen is the only son in the family, so I promised them. Last September, I was pregnant again. At the beginning of pregnancy, I had a strong reaction, so I told Zhao Chen that I wanted to take a few days off. My mother-in-law said who had never given birth to a child, and this little thing made me complain. Helpless, I had to drag my weak body with my children to open a shop, and no one took my class. When I was stillborn, my husband's family forced me to have another child. My friends said I was too honest, and I opened a supermarket myself. When can't you make up for it? Last year 1 1, I didn't get off work until 9 o'clock in two consecutive nights. I felt particularly queasy when I got home, so I made two poached eggs. Unexpectedly, it angered my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law told Zhao Chen about it, and Zhao Chen immediately glared at me, saying that I didn't take the old man seriously and dared to steal his mouth to eat. I can tolerate my in-laws' attitude towards me. I didn't expect my husband who accompanied me day and night to do the same to me. Don't say I'm pregnant, but is it wrong to eat a few eggs when I'm not pregnant? I cried all night, and no one came to persuade me. Since then, I have been depressed and getting weaker and weaker. In the middle of February last year, at 65438, I went to the hospital for examination, only to find that the child was stillborn. I don't know what the reason is, maybe it's physical factors or depression. Now, my husband's family still wants me to get pregnant again, but in the face of such a family and such a situation, I really have no confidence ... unless he has a second child, he will divorce. Reporter: Why don't you have the courage? Wenya: I don't think my husband loves me. He doesn't care about me at all. How can I give him another child? Reporter: Does he know what you think? Wenya: I don't want any more children. He said that unless I changed the red copy of the marriage certificate into a green one. Reporter: Does this marriage hurt you? Wenya: I regret listening to my parents and marrying into this family, but water under the bridge. I can only make do with my children. Eating eggs during pregnancy actually angered her mother-in-law 2 Nutrition experts remind: Try not to eat egg yolk. Under normal circumstances, healthy adults eat 1-2 eggs a day; It is best for the elderly to eat one every day; It is more appropriate for mental workers to eat two eggs a day; Pregnant women, lying-in women, lactating women and the infirm can eat 2-3 eggs a day, not more. Boiled eggs are the best way to eat, but you can't overcook them. Experts point out that eggs are high-protein foods. If you eat too much, it will lead to an increase in metabolites and increase the burden on the kidneys. Generally speaking, healthy adults should pay close attention to and control the cholesterol intake through other ways such as meat and dairy products. It is advisable to eat 1 egg every day and try not to eat egg yolk, because an egg yolk contains two-thirds of the cholesterol that healthy adults should consume every day. Tip: How to pick an egg and hold it in your hand, gently shake it to make the eggs collide with each other, and listen carefully; Or shake it in your hand and listen to its sound. Good fresh eggs are eggs that collide with each other and make a crisp sound, and the eggs are silently shaken. Hard-boiled eggs: the most nutritious in cooking but not overcooked. For adults, boiled eggs are the best way to eat, but they should not be overcooked. It is advisable to cook eggs in boiling water for 5~7 minutes, but pay attention to chewing slowly, otherwise it will affect absorption and digestion; But for children, steamed egg soup and egg drop soup are the most suitable, because these two methods can release protein, which can be easily digested and absorbed by children. (In terms of nutrient absorption and digestibility, boiled eggs are 100%, scrambled eggs are 97%, tender fried eggs are 98%, old fried eggs are 8 1. 1%, boiled eggs with boiled water and milk are 92.5%, and raw eggs are 30%~50%). When fried eggs are over-aged, the edges will burn, and the high molecular weight protein contained in egg white will become low molecular weight amino acids, which can often form toxic chemicals at high temperature. In addition, it should be noted that tea eggs should be eaten less, because tea contains acidified substances, which combine with iron in eggs to stimulate the stomach and affect the digestive function of the gastrointestinal tract.