If you love two people at the same time.

There is a certain degree of relationship between husband and wife. The running water never stops, and there are many opportunities, so it is difficult to choose. Lu Xiaofeng in Gu Long's novel said: I think a lot of things, sometimes I want to be an emperor and I am afraid of loneliness; Sometimes I want to be a prime minister, but I am afraid it will be too much trouble; Sometimes I want to get rich, but I'm afraid of stealing. Sometimes I feel afraid of being wordy about marrying a wife. Sometimes I feel that burning meat is afraid of washing the pot; Sometimes I even want to slap you, but I'm afraid of getting into trouble. Sometimes I think to be honest, I'm afraid the dog will bite me! What if the emotional line is disconnected?

People only have two hands. Grasping one thing means giving up another. Choosing the present is easy to lose yourself. There are many descendants of the emperor, each with his own merits, so it is difficult to choose the crown prince. When a beautiful woman is in her prime, there are many friends of the opposite sex, so it is difficult to choose a good husband. Sleepy and thoughtful, the crown prince was abolished and hurt his body. It's really his bad luck to choose him.

The selection of ordinary people is not unreasonable. In every woman's heart, there is another red rose and a white rose. "Zi Pei, I miss the dragon, even if I don't go, I won't come", but there are two. In the song Hawthorn Tree of the Soviet Union, a girl is between two young people, such as a miller and a forger, and she doesn't know which to choose. Two young people are waiting on both sides of the hawthorn tree: which one is more to my liking, but I can't fidget all day. It's all the same, heroic and attractive. The hawthorn tree of _ _ _ needs your help. Which one is the most heroic and pleasing? Please tell me my hawthorn tree.

Flowers and trees don't talk, Tao is natural, and silence is a mess of words, which can't be heard or understood. How to choose? Johnny Depp, a foreign star, said: If you love the other two people, choose the second one, because if you really love the first one, you are unlikely to love the second one. However, the more you can't choose, the easier it is to lose. The more choices, the more painful the other person is. Lin Weiyin's doubts about choice also brought people pain. He said: The whole world is big enough to meet you, but the whole world is small enough to meet you.

People and things you missed, others still have a chance to choose, and it is precisely because others missed that you have a chance. San Mao's words comfort people: God won't help me, no matter how my fingers are wound or leaked; Help me, no matter how wrong I was before, I will have it. What if the emotional line is disconnected?

Injury almost hurts people who care. There is a classic line in the movie The English Patient: An unacceptable feeling is not necessarily sad, but just a moment, a moment that can be forgotten. A deeply broken heart needs not pity, but understanding. Gu _ also said: If a person's heart is really dead and his feelings are gone, who else in the world can harm him?

There is no shortage of feelings since ancient times, only people who take feelings seriously. Jia Baoyu in A Dream of Red Mansions is an idealized choice of Lin Daiyu and an objective choice of Xue Baochai. Fortune-telling is ruthless, philandering and not fortune-telling. Lin Yutang said in depth: The easiest way to test a China person's temper is to ask if you like Lin Daiyu _ Xue Baochai. If he loves musk deer, he is a romantic; If he agrees with Baochai, he is a rational person. Take a step forward, you will be afraid of feeling too deep, and take a step back, but you can't bear to leave it too clean. I'm afraid I can't go out, and I'm humbled. I'm afraid I'll go out and hurt others. Therefore, the distance is close and sparse, dense and sparse, deep and shallow, near and far. The plastic arts destroyed by time collapsed here in a blink of an eye.

The same is true for the selection of technical professional posts. Training usually has nothing to do with technical professional positions and rights, but with hobbies. There is only one kind of medicine, Freud, Chekhov, Conan Doyle, Mao Mu, Lu Xun and Junichi Watanabe. These outstanding talents and technical professionals are all doctors, and their achievements are creative. If there are too many temptations, it is not easy to choose less. How can we find the truth from mediocrity? Helm Hesse said in Demian: For everyone, there is only one real job responsibility: self-discovery. Then in my heart, I will stick to my life wholeheartedly and never stop. The other roads are not detailed, they are all people's escape ways, idealized weakness, conformity and inner fear.

In the relationship between husband and wife, Lin Yutang once compared the choice of post and marriage life: to judge a person's future development direction, 50% depends on opportunity and 50% on personality. Opportunity, like a woman getting married, depends only on touch. The most casual marriage is a casual touch.