Female, forty, with a happy family, suddenly fell in love with another man with a family, how to resolve it?

Ten evils of extramarital affairs-what a terrible retribution! Look at the consequences of such a thing. You can find a lot on the Internet. There is also the harm of virtue, which means that virtue is hurt. If others know, parents will be ashamed. Don't think about it, just like a smoker, he thinks he can control it at first, but when he gets used to it, he can't help smoking.

1, extramarital affairs can easily lead to sudden sexual death.

As the ancients said, some deaths are heavier than Mount Tai, while others are lighter than a feather. Sudden death in extramarital love is really ugly! According to the data, among the 84 men who died of sudden sexual death in Japan, 106 was an extramarital affair. Why does sudden sexual death have a soft spot for extramarital affairs?

People living in society are restricted by social morality, ethics and law to regulate their behavior. Because of this, anyone who has an extramarital affair is uneasy when making love with his lover, and his mood is often bittersweet. Fear of ridicule, fear of being condemned by society and family for their improper behavior, fear of being ruined by their own reputation, fear of being separated from their wives ... All kinds of negative emotions such as mental stress, anxiety and panic caused by the word "fear" can make the neuroendocrine system dysfunctional, autonomic nerve unbalanced, sympathetic nerve overexcited, and the secretion of adrenaline and norepinephrine in the body increases, thus making the heart beat faster and blood pressure higher. If I have hypertension, coronary heart disease, intracranial aneurysm, etc. It is most likely to induce arrhythmia, cerebral hemorrhage, brain aneurysm explosion and lead to sudden death.

Even in normal couples' activities, experts believe that people with heart diseases such as hypertension and coronary heart disease, as well as people with subarachnoid hemorrhage, should not be overly excited in sexual life. Do not drink alcohol, coffee and other stimulating drinks, or smoke a lot before sex; Don't get too excited when the husband and wife meet again after a long separation, especially when they come back by bus, they should have a good sleep first to eliminate fatigue; After making love, you should stay in bed. You'd better sleep. Don't get up immediately to clean, urinate, eat, take a shower or smoke.

At the "Society for Sex and Health" held in Hamburg, Germany, a British doctor published a report saying: "If you have sex with a non-spouse, it is easy to cause a heart attack." To put it bluntly, extramarital affairs will increase the burden on the heart. Graham Jackson, a cardiologist at St. Thomas Hospital in London who submitted the report, said, "75% of sudden deaths during sexual intercourse occur when sexual partners are not married. Moreover, the greater the age gap between the two sides, the higher the rate of sudden death. " Graham Jackson further pointed out that "when you have sex with a long-term partner, you rarely have a heart attack." Graham Jackson also said that after measurement, it was found that the blood pressure and heart rate during sexual intercourse were just the same as when walking for 20 minutes, and the burden on the heart at the climax was the same as when climbing the stairs in one breath after walking.

Example: Li, a 39-year-old native of Nanyang, Henan Province, registered with his ID card on the afternoon of February 15, and died in his room around 9 o'clock that night. According to the relevant personnel of the police, after Li checked in, he asked his lover to meet here. At about 5 pm, Li He committed the first adultery that day. After that, Li went out to buy side dishes and wine. After eating in their room, they began to commit adultery again. Xiao Wei confessed to the police that when he committed adultery for the second time, his breathing suddenly accelerated, his mouth opened wide and his eyes opened wide, and he threw himself on her. Call a friend at once and say, "Li has a heart attack. Get quick-acting pills." A friend came and called 120 when he saw that the battle was wrong, but Li never woke up. According to the police investigation, Li and he have been together for more than a year. Li's younger brother introduced that the police told them after investigating the scene that Li died suddenly, which ruled out the possibility of suicide, homicide and poisoning. Li's wife also said that Li has always been in good health and has no history of heart disease.

2. It has a bad influence on children-the happiness of a child's life is destroyed in your hands!

Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents' words and deeds will have a subtle influence on children, and even affect their lives. The father (mother) who is keen on extramarital affairs will be discovered by his children sooner or later. Children either have extramarital affairs like their parents when they grow up or even before they grow up, or they "draw a line" with their parents and despise their fathers (mothers) who have had extramarital affairs.

Parents' marital conflict affects children's emotional behavior. Emotionally, children will be worried, disappointed, angry, fearful and insecure. Behavior: Children will rebel, shrink back, their grades will get worse and worse, and they will win over or comfort their parents like adults.

In addition, children's outlook on life and marriage has also become negative. By analyzing the quantitative research literature published in magazines in recent 10 years, this paper makes a quantitative analysis of 500 children with divorced parents, their parents and class teachers. The results show that extramarital affairs have negative effects on school-age children's life welfare, study, conduct, psychological development and social adaptation. In a survey of 500 children with divorced parents in Shanghai, Xu found that children's self-abasement, loneliness, indifference, willfulness, selfishness and deception are serious, which are related to their poor relationship with classmates.

The divorce of parents makes children have to live in a family that is no longer sound, which casts a thick shadow on their hearts, while some couples whose feelings are breaking up often do more harm to their children for their own needs. Families with broken marriages, cold war between parents, don't care about their children at all. Living in such an environment, children are worried that they will be asked about their family when they interact with others, so they become silent and withdrawn. These children also show distrust of anyone and lack of confidence in themselves. A psychologist said: "parents' divorce will cause children's personality distortion." "Some children don't get the care and education they deserve, and gradually fall into rogue gangs, thus embarking on the road of crime."

3. The marriage relationship breaks down, mutates and even destroys the family.

The appearance of extramarital affairs changed the marriage relationship from intimacy to alienation, and the intimacy between husband and wife was changed by the appearance of a third party. Even if the extramarital affair is not discovered by the spouse, the relationship between the two parties is affected by the intervention of the other party. Wang Xiaoxi, an ethical expert, believes that with the development of social economy, the tolerance between husband and wife is expanding, and the influence of some advanced life concepts and lifestyles is also expanding. However, for the traditional concept of marriage linked by feelings, extramarital affairs are still a "contradiction between the enemy and me" that most people are unwilling to forgive, rather than an "internal contradiction" that can be reconciled or adjusted. Extramarital affairs lead to marital conflict. If the problem is not handled properly, it will stimulate separation, divorce and family breakdown. For love, men will kill and women will commit suicide. In real life, murders caused by extramarital affairs occur from time to time.

4, personal psychological injury, leaving psychological scars that are difficult to heal.

Spouses affected by extramarital affairs will feel angry, worried, depressed and have low self-image. Some even suffer from depression and mental distress, which affects their daily life, work and child care, and even leads to suicide and harmful thoughts and behaviors.

Extramarital affairs are exposed, and extramarital affairs and third parties are also deeply troubled by emotions. They will feel guilty, nervous, anxious, confused and uneasy, and don't know how to choose. If the relationship continues to drag on, it will make extramarital affairs, spouses and third parties feel pain. Torture, endless torture ... injury, endless injury ...

In real life, the love between husband and wife is sometimes so fragile that it can't stand the wind and waves. The survey results show that extramarital sex is very destructive: if either spouse has extramarital sex, even if the other spouse doesn't know it, his love level and the possibility of sexual satisfaction in marriage will be greatly reduced; If men have extramarital sex, their love level will drop by 2 1.6%, and if women have extramarital sex, their love level will drop by 55.9%. Of course, if the secret is uncovered, everything will face collapse. On the other hand, if there is no extramarital sex, the husband's love for his wife will increase by 1.45 times; And women will increase by 2.5 1 times. In fact, when this happens, it must be a betrayal of the family. And this kind of thing can't be kept secret forever, and the intimate relationship between husband and wife makes any subtle changes inevitable. It is a betrayal of the family to form the habit and hobby of looking for the opposite sex.

People's greatest pressure never comes from the outside, but from the inner denial and condemnation. Nothing bothers a person more than not recognizing his own behavior. When reason can't control feelings, when greed overcomes cultivation, it is an extremely painful but contradictory feeling. You know you shouldn't do this, you know the result will be bad, but you can't convince yourself to give up such a tempting feeling. Your heart doesn't listen to your brain. You swear to break this immoral feeling every day, but you forget everything as soon as you see each other. You hate yourself, you scold yourself with ugly words in your heart, you try to escape, but you walk around and go back to your original place. In this cycle, no matter what the outcome of the affair, you will be deeply hurt. This kind of harm is not imposed on you by a man (or woman) alone, nor is it condemned by the outside world. It is more a contempt and veto of your own moral system. You can't bear your negative evaluation of yourself, and you can't accept that you have done something you once despised. This kind of pain can't be concealed even if two people who are really having an affair can come together and move towards a new marriage. Sometimes, it's not that others can't let go of themselves, but that they are ruthless in their crusade against themselves. They subconsciously think that happiness like themselves is cursed, there can be no complete happiness, and they will definitely pay the price. This is also the reason why extramarital affairs are very tiring for some people even if they succeed in marriage.

5, prostitute wife and daughter, wife and daughter were raped-terrible!

There is a problem. Adulters are often reported to their wives and daughters. Perhaps because of their karma and bad karma, their wives and daughters have matured in advance. The ancients said: don't borrow romantic debts, borrow them if you can. I have my own body double at home, and it's good if you want to stay. Do to others what you don't want them to do to you!

Case 1: Li Jiajun, a native of Licheng, Shandong Province, sells dates for a living and often goes to neighboring towns to do business. Once, I saw Guo Yongshou's wife in a neighboring town was young and beautiful, and Guo Yongshou was not at home, and lured her home, only to find that her wife had been abducted. According to neighbors, the day when her wife eloped with others was the day when Li Jiajun seduced Guo's wife privately. Li Jiajun didn't wake up to what goes around comes around, but he was glad that he took Guo's wife home, otherwise he wouldn't be widowed.

Because Guo's wife is a young woman, she eloped with someone younger than Li Jiajun after a while. Just when Li Jiajun lamented his helplessness, Guo Yongshou went all the way to the Li family because his wife was missing, and went to the yamen to accuse Li Jiajun of abducting his wife. However, because Guo's wife eloped with someone else, Li Jiajun insisted that Guo Yongshou had no evidence, so he insisted that he had abducted Guo's wife.

Guo Yongshou had no choice but to give up. I heard from the villagers that there was a pen in the nearby Dijun Temple that could help Luan. It was very effective, so they asked the villagers to take him to the temple for instructions. Sheng Di handed down a poem saying: "Yuanyang dreams of two kinds of music, remember whether Luo Fu also has a husband;" When you meet today, you must smile and clearly draw a gourd. "

Guo Yongshou read the poem, silently bowed his head and left in shame. When the villagers who accompanied him to the temple saw it, they guessed that Guo Yongshou's wife must have been abducted by him before. It can be seen that "the person who seduces his wife is seduced by others", and the reason is clear.

Case 2: Some netizens said: I repent, and karma is coming-adulterer, wife adulterer.

I regret it! I have a beautiful and virtuous wife. Since 200 1, I have committed adultery. First, I seduced a colleague of the unit and went back and forth for several months. Later, I had sex with several girls and women online and occasionally went whoring. But I forgot the cause and effect of the adulterer's wife being raped. Although I quit prostitution after practicing Buddhism a year ago, karma has come! Last week, I actually found a text message from my wife who was having an affair with someone else. I was dizzy at that time. Under my questioning, my wife admitted to having an affair with someone else. It's been almost a year, and I haven't found it. What a retribution! What a virtuous wife! No one would believe that she would have an affair with someone, but she did. She is also a colleague of her unit! I regret it! ! ! Although I forgave her and she promised not to make the same mistake again, I am so sad now. My husband and wife always seem to be estranged now, and there is no longer a loving relationship. Alas, it's so annoying. Who can comfort me? I deserve it. I repent, I regret it!

I advise the world with my own personal experience that when you commit adultery, there will be retribution! ! As the old saying goes, "I don't commit adultery, and people don't commit adultery with my wife." A prostitute's wife is a prostitute. "No wife in the world is chaste, but she is lewd. If the wife is chaste, the retribution must be somewhere else! ! Karma, not happy at all!

In this article, I repent my sinful behavior and pray that my husband and wife will get along well, have a happy family and have all the best.

6, the body is sick and short-lived, and extramarital lovers are prone to sexually transmitted diseases and terminal diseases.

(1) Infected by sexually transmitted diseases, the so-called love is ridiculed-if you are unlucky, you will encounter AIDS!

Many people who have an affair will have sexual contact with a third party. If you don't know each other's situation and have sex without safe conditions, you may be infected with sexually transmitted diseases and even AIDS. Many cases show that extramarital affairs occupy a considerable proportion in the transmission route of sexually transmitted diseases.

Example: A female netizen said: I had sex with another man after marriage. At that time, I thought all the men I liked were clean, so I didn't pay special attention. But the recent physical examination found that I was infected with a sexually transmitted disease. Oh, my God! Physical pain and mental shock, I even had the idea of death. I used to think that romantic love was laughed at by the plus sign on the laboratory list, and my love seemed to be polluted by the virus ... Now I am actively cooperating with the doctor's treatment, hoping to get rid of this unspeakable pain as soon as possible.

God is fair. If we do something wrong, we will pay a certain price. Men and women who are swimming or wandering in the illusory "beautiful" mirage of extramarital affairs, be careful!

In fact, there is no "safe sex" at all-only relatively safe sex. Everyone lies about their sexual experiences. Even if some people can use condoms, there is still the risk of condom rupture. Condoms are not 100% safe, and the skin that cannot be covered is still at risk of infection! When you have sex outside marriage, you are not only endangering your own health, but also endangering the health and life of an innocent third party-loving you and trusting your wife.

Dr. He Dayi: Nothing can achieve 100% protection. According to our research data on AIDS, it is found that using condoms can indeed achieve the prevention effect of 100%, but it cannot really achieve the prevention effect of 100%. The premise is that everyone should use condoms correctly, and using condoms is also a good product. We have a condom prevention campaign in Thailand, which has achieved very good results, but I want to reiterate that no means can achieve 100% protection.

Condoms can provide a physical barrier to avoid direct contact with sexual partners' body fluids or blood, which can effectively reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS transmission. However, improper use or not insisting on using condoms will greatly reduce its preventive effect. Clinically, patients with sexually transmitted diseases often report that they are suffering from sexually transmitted diseases after using condoms.

It should be pointed out that some pathogens of sexually transmitted diseases may be discharged from the diseased parts outside the penis and vagina. For example, the hard chancre that spreads syphilis can grow in other parts of the body, and the hard chancre outside the genitals is more common in lips, tongue, fingers, breasts, eyelids and anus. Condyloma acuminatum and genital herpes can be self-inoculated, and can also grow in oral cavity and other parts, so although condoms have protective effects, they also have certain limitations. Therefore, medical workers need to educate patients that condoms are not 100% insurance.

(2) Before the incurable disease was reported.

"Twenty-eight beauty is like a crisp body, and the waist is folded and the sword is cut. Although I don't see its head, I secretly call your bone marrow dry. " My heart is full of lust, but I can't produce essence. Desire is entangled, I can't rest during the day, I can't sleep at night, and my heart is on fire. What's more, how can I not break down if I violate it personally? Where can I take regret medicine when I am threatened with death? Because fornication is easy to lose blessings, without the support of blessings, karma is easy to present. Prostitutes often have great psychological pressure, such as nervousness, anxiety, anxiety and physical and mental exhaustion, which leads to the rapid decline of immunity and terminal illness. At that time, it's too late to regret it! Master Wu Ming (talking about the elderly) believes that integrity is not evil, and lewdness is not allowed.

The head of all evil. Prostitution can make the biological field of yin and yang disorder, and it is easy to suffer from nasopharyngeal carcinoma, breast cancer, liver cancer, gynecological cancer, skin cancer, leukemia, psychosis, prostatitis, AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases, paraplegia and madness in children.

Case: The war between money and lewdness died young.

When Mr. Zhao was a teenager, his family was poor and he was determined to work hard. As for young people, because of their smooth operation, they have repeatedly made rich profits. After a few years, they have become wealthy businessmen. Teenagers are complacent, completely forgetting the hard years of the past, and full of warmth and lust. Female secretaries and clerks in the company should choose young and beautiful college graduates and hire them with high salaries, and then seduce them by accompanying them abroad for business talks, or giving gifts, setting banquets, or even secretly giving them ecstasy and raping them one by one. White virgins fall into the trap by mistake because they are afraid that the scandal will be made public and no one will be seen; Or afraid of losing a well-paid position, I have to be arrogant and submit to humiliation. As a result, Mr. Zhao indulged his lust more unscrupulously. In less than a year, he suddenly became terminally ill and died suddenly in a hotel suite. Anyone who knows his lewdness and evil deeds will say with one voice, "evil will be punished by heaven!" " Poor, hardworking and promising young Jie Jun, it is a pity that he died in the ocean of desire.

7, deprived of academic fame, ruined career prospects:

Prostitution is the most harmful to virtue and good luck. Just like decades of efforts, a fire can be destroyed. The fire of "fornication" is even more harmful than this-even if there is a blessing as big as Xu Mishan or even as vast as vanity, plus fornication, the blessing is like a waterfall that flies down and is consumed in an instant.

People who are studying will gradually forget their previous talents, and easy-to-get degrees will be carried away from you like meteors. Officialdom, even if the day before yesterday's meeting offered to promote you, the appointment of the day after tomorrow will never be you. Even the present position may be lost, and I am afraid I can't do it in my dream. In fact, fame and lust in the world are incompatible. What's the price of being quick? Not worth it!

How can people who are keen on extramarital affairs have the time, energy and mind to fight for their careers and run interpersonal relationships? The chance of success that never comes back is caused by prostitution. For example, promiscuous people in the office, like greedy fish, will certainly not get into trouble and ruin your family, and your future will be greatly reduced. Many large enterprises and units attach great importance to the moral quality of employees. The record of disorder in the office will accompany you for the rest of your life like bad bank credit and become a permanent stain on the workplace and officialdom. Office chaos will also become the waterloo of the workplace and career. When you want to get a promotion, someone will hit you with this, and it often works. When faced with conflicts of interest in the office, one party often deceives, plots against, betrays and attacks the other party first. In that case, this love is as disgusting as eating a fly, and then the intestines will regret it. Pure love is unreliable, and love in this era is mixed with too many impurities.

Case 1: A gifted scholar was pulled down by lewdness.

When Liu Xianmin (a pseudonym) is mentioned, people who are familiar with him say that he is capable. He was a famous college student before the Cultural Revolution. Although he was a "smelly Laojiu" during the Cultural Revolution, he was unaffected. After the Third Plenary Session of the Eleventh Central Committee, intellectuals were gradually reused, and some college students were promoted from factories and schools to county leaders, often worried that they could not find real college students. Liu Xianmin, who graduated from a famous university with innovative spirit and development ideas, has never been promoted.

Although Liu Xianmin was born black, he is very good-looking and has a handsome face. He is called a "romantic genius". Liu Xianmin has these two skills, a messy unit, which will be greatly improved after going for a few months, but wherever he goes, he will eventually be notorious for adultery. One year, he was the principal of a high school, which was the only key school in the county. Because of adultery with a woman, the teachers were so angry that they surrounded him and wouldn't let him leave school and asked him to explain. Afterwards, Liu Xianmin was punished, demoted and arranged. Later, he has been teaching. After more than ten years, Liu Xianmin is full of peaches and plums, but he has always been a department-level cadre and has not mentioned it.

Case 2: lust, loss of reputation and lifelong poverty

At the end of the Song Dynasty, there was a scholar named Liu. Because his father was an official in Pingjiang, he was recommended in autumn, so he rented a boat to test the water in Xiuzhou. The shipowner has a daughter who is quite beautiful. Liu took a fancy to it at first sight, so he took advantage of the convenience of taking his boat and often used flirting with her as an excuse, but his father was on the boat and he didn't have a chance to get close. Liu arrived in Beijing, went ashore to take the exam, and hurried back to the boat. When the owner went into the city to buy goods, he made an ulterior move with the boat girl.

Who thought: darkroom is guilty, eyes like electricity! At this time, Tang Qing's father was in Pingjiang, waiting for news of his son's attempt. Suddenly one night, I had a dream that two people in yellow suddenly took a piece of paper to report: "Tianmen released the list, and Lang Jun has won the first recommendation." A man passed by and hurriedly grabbed the paper and said, "Liu has cheated recently and has passed a subject." Father was taken aback and woke up to find it was a dream. I thought it was strange. I don't know what my son did. It seems hopeless to be recommended.

Sure enough, Xiuzhou exam was announced, and Tang Qing was not allowed to recommend it. It turned out that an examiner at the scene found that Tang Qing's article was well written and wanted him to be the first. But another examiner took a fancy to another volume and wanted Tang Qing to be the second volume. The examiner refused to say, "If you want to be the second, you'd rather miss it and stay in the next department. I'm not afraid that you can't be the first and you can't ruin him." Hold your breath and let him go.

When Liu came home, he met his parents. My father asked him what he dreamed: "I dreamed." I knew you wouldn't win. " It's just that what did you do to cheat your heart? ""I didn't do anything, "said Tang Qing. I was surprised: "Is there such a thing? "Believe it or not. It was not until I learned what my father saw and heard in my dream that I realized that I couldn't recommend it, because I was lewd and lewd, which was detrimental to my virtue. Although I deeply regret it, I regret it. Later, he was down and out all his life.

Case 3: The United States is the same!

There are countless cases in which a man's once-prosperous career has been defeated or collapsed because of the exposure of extramarital affairs. 1In July, 997, the chief executive officer of the Organizing Committee for the 2002 Winter Olympic Games in Salt Lake City resigned because he was suspected of hurting and imprisoning his wife when he had a dispute with her about mistresses. Since 1985, this man has been committed to the bid for the Winter Olympics in Salt Lake City, but now he has an affair with a little-known woman, which has brought his career to an abrupt end and humiliated his personality.

We can often see similar reports in the media. When they leave a woman's apartment, they may be filmed, or caught kissing in the park, or they may be photographed hugging a woman on the porch outside the study. Lured by extramarital affairs, these men put their personal lives and careers in crisis. Whether their extramarital affairs are recorded in videos, tapes or photographers' cameras, the news media will leak out. A photo or a letter is enough to make people argue and even ruin their future.

Case 4: The true story seen on the Internet.

Before, the husband and wife loved each other, and her husband was a 24-year-old filial husband. Get off work on time every day and never have an affair. One day, when a woman was shopping in the supermarket, she suddenly found her husband shopping, too. After tracking, I found that her husband has been using his working hours to support women outside! But in this year, the man's father suddenly became seriously ill and died, and his mother suddenly became seriously ill. When a woman finds out, she can't bear such a blow. They become depressed, their families break up and their children are lonely. The man finally got a bad disease in his lower body, which is difficult to completely cure.

Case 5: Examples of Prostitution and Happiness —— The personal experience of a netizen

Netizens talk about their personal experiences. A few years ago, the netizen first had an affair with a female colleague of the company, plus Ben had a bad relationship with his mother-in-law. With the deepening of feelings with female colleagues, he can't properly handle family relations. So one day, because of a trivial matter, he had a big fight with his mother-in-law, and a war broke out at home, demanding a divorce. At this time, his child was only two months old. Later, because of the advice of friends and family, there was no divorce, but because I still had feelings for my female colleagues, I had no sense of responsibility for my family. The netizen's career was also hindered by the influence of extramarital affairs: first, the proposed manager position was ruined, and then he was dismissed by the company for minor violations.

The female colleague of this netizen has destroyed other people's families more than once. Her ex-boyfriend is also a colleague of the company. Because of his close contact with her, he fell in love and turned and abandoned his wife of 12 years. Finally, he was forced to move to Canada because of his wife's divorce conditions, but he still kept in touch with her colleagues. In addition, the female colleague keeps an ambiguous relationship with other male colleagues. It's also prostitution, so the female colleague is over 30, but she has never found a suitable marriage partner.

After being dismissed, the netizen was forced to go online to find a job, and after looking for a job, he was addicted to browsing pornographic websites. Looking for a job for a month, there is no result. Either the resume sinks into the sea after it is sent out, or there is no following after the interview. After enlightenment, seeing Huang Tu will hurt the good news, and when I wake up, I stop the bad taste in my eyes. In addition, his family released him and soon found a job in another place. However, because netizens' feelings for female colleagues in the former company have been broken and their minds have not been placed on their families, their careers have continued to be unsatisfactory. In this job, he had a friction with his immediate boss and finally resigned because he couldn't stand it. Then I found another job in the field, which was the position of manager, but I didn't work for a few months, so I was fired because of the contradiction with the boss in the field.

Later, due to good deeds such as family release, netizens were able to find a job in the local area, which was a manager's position. At this time, the contact between netizens and former female colleagues was gradually cut off, and they began to care about their families, so their career was still stable at this time.

Not long after, the netizen relapsed, having an affair with a foreign girl and being discovered by his family. At this time, he had a conflict with the boss of the company. Fortunately, netizens repented in time, and the career turmoil gradually subsided and turned to care for their wives. A year later, he was promoted because of his excellent work performance.

On the other hand, the netizen's experience can be said to be an example of prostitution and happiness. Every time he has an affair, his career will be blocked, or he will be framed and dismissed, or he will have a conflict with his boss.

Karma is true! It's just that modern people have no observation, are too superstitious about science, and think that there is no cause and effect between good and evil, so they look for extramarital affairs unscrupulously, indulge in excess, and don't know how to go back on our word. But believe it or not, you have to swallow the bitter fruit in the end. Adultery will not only ruin one's happiness, but also bind one's children and grandchildren, which modern people cannot consider. Just like a fool who doesn't know or believe in gravity, he jumps off a tall building for fun and thinks he will be fine. But the result of jumping must be disability or death! Because although you don't believe in gravity and can't see it, gravity will still exist and work. This is the law of nature, not depending on whether you believe it or not! And karma is the natural law in the universe!

8. Encounter various disasters, even unexpected disasters and sudden death:

On entering the trade, he said, "I want to die, or stand on the tip of Ligo, or be stabbed by a spear, or even be burned." Adulterers like the new and hate the old, so they make a wide range of enemies. Both of them are easily known by each other's husbands. How can they not be afraid? I often doubt and fear. After a brief pleasure, my heart was tortured by conscience and I was miserable. But whether you are worried or afraid, it will definitely not end well in the end. From the history of ancient and modern China and foreign countries, information about the flood season and even what we have heard and heard, we can know that adulterers have been stabbed, struck by lightning, burned, shot, hit by a car, bitten by a beast, drowned and hanged ... where can we tell them? Since we still have a chance to make our own choices, how can we not break our lust quickly and confess our accumulated felony? !

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